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F (22) with husband M(26) me and my husband have been having a dry spell I guess you could say. It has caused problems but it’s on his end. I try to initiate, wear lingerie, you name it. Eventually he told me it’s because he doesn’t have a sex drive.

Well yesterday I went through his phone and he’s watching porn, so there’s enough sex drive for that. Just not for me. Also has subscribed to onlyfans which is cheating to me and he knows I consider it cheating. I just don’t know what to do. Especially when it’s impacting our sex life.

It’s one thing if it didn’t impact our sex life or if I was telling him no to sex, but I don’t tell him no when he wants it. If anything I’m the one wanting sex all the time and he’s fine with once a week or less than that.

I’m at a loss. I just need advice on where to go from here? I never really thought this would be an issue at my age especially when it’s not like I’ve changed, I still put effort into my appearance, the house, initiating sex.

(When I asked why with the porn watching he said it doesn’t take effort like sex does)

I’m F(22) my husband is 25 and I’m struggling because I want sex more than he does. I have mentioned to him that he tells me no when I try to initiate sex more often than he says yes and his reasoning is that he’s tired.

One evening I got drunk after a week of no sex and told him “I don’t understand why you won’t sleep with me because I thought men wanted sex more than woman, you’re not 60” then he again tells me how he’s tired after work and that he thinks our sex like was fine. When we did have sex later that night I could tell he wasn’t into it as much as normal and it was more of a chore than anything else.

We’re not old I don’t understand the problem. I try lingerie, I try initiating, I try waiting to see if he’ll initiate. I’ve never once told him no when he initiates. It all goes back to that he’s tired. Before the reasoning was his antidepressants decrease his drive and after he switched and he says these have been better with less side effects the reasoning has changed to he’s tired.

(I’m also quoting what I said because I can see the flaw in the approach and want to share the situation even where I have went wrong communication wise”

I don’t even know what to do at this point. So much so I’m posting in here for input and advice.

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