u/xxiizoioi

Hi everyone.

I'm going to Mexico in a week. It's going to be 4 days, however, my guardian and I aren't staying at a hotel or a relatives house. We're staying at a house, but refrigeration doesn't work, and neither does the stove.

We're going to be super busy on those days, and often eat out due to the lack of food at that house and refrigeration.

On top of that, i haven't told my guardians that im vegetarian. I kind of just stopped eating meat, but this is going to be a big deal, since in ohr culture, meat is used in everything. Tacos everywhere.

Im worried i wont be able to eat proper nutrition or have to sacrifice ​:(.

Advice or suggestions is welcomed as to what i could do or eat to manage. Meat is everywhere, sadly.

So, to keep it brief

I'm a survivor of SA of a male in my mom's side.

Once I spoke up, my parents kicked him out of the house they landed to him, my grandma and my other uncle.

She turned bitter and nasty after that, and everytime I would go and visit, she would force me to remember everything, gaslighted me into thinking I was just making it up, and almost had me engage in reconnecting with him and forgiving him. She excused his behavior too by saying that her piece of shit husband SAed him and she dus nothing about it

Anywho, told my mom and dad allat, my grandma immedItaly blackmailed me by exposing to my parents my vents and deepest secrets I've kept hidden from them (extreme catholics 'everyone but my child being gay/queer/etc is ok' folks).

Anywho...Granny is from mom's side. My mom cannot cut her off and even tells me not to 'make her feel bad' when I express how I feel about her keeping a close relationship with that bitch. Talking abt sum 'Oh she's only a babysitter for your siblings !', yet brings her food, cupcakes, groceries, and stays to talk with her. I told her too 'why tf are you trusting her with the kids? You saw how she hurt me, what makes you think she won't hurt them? She's a liability and can endanger my siblings'. No fucks given, only playing the victim

Abyway, i need support yall. My brother and granny's bday is on the same day, and i 100% betting theyre gonna do it together.

I need support, and also advice on how to not let guilt override me for not wanting to be in the same space ? They always pull the 'but tou have to be there for your siblings' part like last time. Forced myself to attend to a fuck ass party where i had to deal with that bitch ass lady and my parent's shame and guilting, and on top of that, seeing other pedos and abusers there.

Hi!

Maybe because I'm overthinking it, but I've been taking my time to study up and see which bank I prefer having my money go into.

I've heard people recommend high yield saving and checking accounts, and they paint them a little too good to be true. Like, what's the catch genuinely?

As someone who's about to open their first acccount, should I do so in a regular checking and savings, or go big? What would be the pros ​And cons?

Thank you 🌺

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Hi, I hope you all are well. Thank you in advance for reading this and taking the time to do so 😊!

I have just received a student credit card from Capital One. I'm wishing to use it, however, I do not have my OWN checking account.

My parents usually deposit my checks into their own accounts and use it to pay off another credit card I use that I share with them to build my credit. After I pay that and expenses, I get the rest in cash. Now that I am 18, and whether they like it or not (because we've had a fuss about it), I'm going to need to open a checking account to become more independent in my finances. Very unrelated, but I'm sharing to hear everyone's input, but the reason for their anger is because 'the banks steal from you and you need to pay to have a checking account!' And 'are you assuming we are stealing from you!?' Like...no? I just want you guys to guide me to independent, but oh well.​​

Now here's the problem:

I want to open my own checking account with Capital One as well, but I like having cash in my wallet and some at reach for any emergency. HOWEVER! I want to do the several bank account budget idea to navigate my expenses and save up for long-term, short-term goals and emergencies.

I'd love to hear your guy's advice and help on this, because as you can tell, I'm very new to this and don't have much financial literacy.​