What do you think about a significant age gap?

Those of you who are against it, why? I'd like to understand that perspective, because to me all adults are equal. Everyone has their own fate, personality and experiences. Even though people usually go through the same life stages, school, university, work they still end up being very different. Is that purely a financial reason, like not wanting to have more money than your partner?

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u/y0n123 — 19 hours ago

Does anyone else feel like they're never anyone's type?

I'm average in terms of height, body type, facial features, and so on. Nothing about me really falls into any extreme (except hair lenght). It feels like, for me to be someone's type, I'd have to make some major change: shorten or lengthen my legs, curl/cut/dye my hair, wear colored contacts, gain weight, build muscle... things like that. Given that my style doesn’t fit into any subculture and I never wear makeup.

I hope you won't say that personality will make up for everything, because you don't know what mine is like. And honestly, I can see you're not into this whole delusional "all women are beautiful" thing, which I'm glad about.

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u/y0n123 — 3 days ago

Are butches dying out?

Or is it just an illusion that they all end up transitioning, getting top surgery, and so on? I saw a beautiful girl, but it turned out she's a trans man (?) or maybe trans masculine and non-binary. It's all so confusing.

Why does feeling like you're both genders or neither seem to push people toward becoming male? She just looks like a woman, but with the natural masculine features. Why transition? Looks like she also had top surgery...

I can't understand how having breasts could make someone feel like they can't be masculine with them.

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u/y0n123 — 6 days ago
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What exactly did you solve in order to be able to explain how problems are solved using Ni?

I'm interested in how complex the problems are that you use it for. Like, behind the description of how Ni works, is it just solving some basic stuff?

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u/y0n123 — 9 days ago

Do you think it's worth putting "les4les" on my dating profile?

Realistically, how likely is it that a lesbian would decide not to meet me after seeing that?

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u/y0n123 — 10 days ago

Can someone explain what kind of people are in this community?

Because I get hated on in other lesbian communities, but for some reason the comments there are almost always ActUaLLy from pan and bi women. They keep making up all sorts of traits about me, as if they're reading my posts while high, and the moderators are constantly deleting my comments. They claim to embrace the diversity of bodies and minds, yet at the same time they deny it by treating everyone as if they're the same, try to send me to conversion therapy camp, because I like specific type. They think there's nothing above women, that all women are saints, and that all men are subhuman, even though you should be cautious of any person regardless of gender. They either idolize them or shit on them in large groups for any mistake THEY think they made.

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u/y0n123 — 11 days ago

Wer war auf der Luscht?

Wie ist die Atmosphäre dort? Gibt es Plätze, an denen man einfach sitzen und sich unterhalten kann? Ich tanze nicht gern.

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u/y0n123 — 14 days ago

Which book of Heraclitus fragments is considered the most accurate today (not just by tradition)?

One that clearly separates other people's interpretations from Heraclitus' possible actual quotations?

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Also, there shouldn't be any creative interpretation by the translator, where they arbitrarily choose only one meaning of a word and end up distorting the entire sense. It should be something more like a list of possible meanings or translation options.

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u/y0n123 — 20 days ago

What do people do when they develop a philosophical theory before entering academia?

For those of you who came up with your own theory before studying philosophy, did you wait until you finished your PhD before publishing it? Did you try to get in touch with philosophers who had similar ideas to yours?

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I just can't decide what to do: whether I should definitely earn the academic titles first (which would take a very long time), or try to find a way around that.

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u/y0n123 — 21 days ago