In the very first scene with cole he walks out of his bedroom only wearing a towel. His body is wet.
So why does he not come out of a bathroom? where does he go? can anyone explain to me where the bathroom is and where he stores his clothes?
What were the last words you received from your ghost? mine were “good night”. The next morning I was blocked everywhere. Never heard from him again.
I have read here a post where the last words were even “I love you”.
what were the last words you have received?
Are there any songs which describe the feeling or situation of being ghosted?
It is not about ghosting directly but I feel “someone like you” from adele matches the feeling because of the line “for me it isn’t over”
Asking for a friend. If someone sends you a good night text after a 3 months relationship and the next day blocks you on all messengers you panic. so you immediatelly send an angry SMS asking why his doing this instead of talking to you. he blocks you there as well.
you wait a few days, maybe it was temporary. You are going through hell. you send him an email to say goodbye.
there was so much you still wanted to tell him. you start sending emails . he never replies.
you try to call him but your number is blocked. you call via surpressed number, he answers but hangs up once he hears your name.
you start sending emails to his work email because maybe he did not see you other emails as they went to the spam filter. all you want is to quicklebendig talk to him to see if there maybe was a misunderstanding.
in your had you considered waiting for him outside his work or his gym to talk to him.
where do you draw the line and feel like the ghoster becomes the victim of stalking?
I had this friend for like 10 years. Throughout the course of this friendship we got really close and started dating at one point. It was going well or wtv but if u ever been in a gay relationship at a religious school you know how crazy it could get and how fast.
Crazy thing is I didn't even want to date her and wouldn't have thought of her that way if she did not repeatedly beg me to be her gf.
Anyways throughout the course of that whole thing she treated me like shit. Telling me I should cut my hair and change my name to a boy name to resemble a boy a bit more. After a whole bunch of mess she broke up w me. I was incredibly lonely and when I wanted to talk to her she'd tell me it's not my fault I'm ur only friend and only talked to me to use me to do her hw.
After a while we both got into college. We got a bit closer again atp cuz we were out of the whole religious school bashing gay ppl. But she started talking to a bunch of men and would tell me about it with the intentions of making me jealous. If I wasn't jealous she'd get upset and ask why I didn't love her anymore. She'd also claim atp that she never loved me and only loved me as a friend but was confused.
My idiot self still stayed talking to her cuz for some reason I thought there was still good in her. She'd start to do this thing were she said she lied and she did actually love me when she wanted me to do her college homework or whenever another bf broke up with her. Ofc I knew she was lying but I did her homework anyways just so she wasn't upset.
Also when she did have a bf she'd ghost me and if they'd break up she'd crawl back to me stating no one is like me and no man ever made her feel how I made her feel. I realized I didn't want this girl in my life and ghosted her. I did this a couple of times but recontacted her cuz I was scared that she'd tell my family I'm gay cuz she's crazy like that. She also never changed anytime I went back.
But this time I realized I wanted her out of it for good.
It's been 7 months now and throughout that process she's been contacting me none stop and even contacted people who have my number to contact me. She also send me a long text about how she's disappointed about me telling someone else I didn't want to talk to her anymore and I could have JSUT told her and waisted 9 years of friendship. I'm feeling kinda guilty or more like scare cuz she can contact my family at any second and spill all my secrets (being gay). And it's making me wonder if I should reach out to clear things up or if I should just continue to ignore her.
Note; There's many reason why I ghosted this girl but just listed the main one if someone needs more details I'll be glad to give it in a reply