Why does preparing for one tiny baby suddenly feel like preparing for war?
Currently pregnant with our first LO and trying to get everything ready before baby gets here, but omg every single thing online is marketed like it’s an absolute MUST HAVE for newborn life lol.
At first doing our registry and nursery setup was actually really fun, but now I feel like I’ve fully fallen into the baby shopping rabbit hole. Every TikTok, Reddit thread, or mom group has people saying some random gadget saved their sanity during the newborn stage, and now I can’t tell what’s genuinely useful vs what anxious FTM marketing is making me think I need.
Right now we’ve got the basics on our registry, bottles, bottle washer, swaddles, diaper stuff, stroller, some PP recovery things etc. But I’m constantly second guessing everything and adding/removing stuff at like 1am lol.
One minute I’m convinced we need a bottle warmer and sterilizer immediately, then the next post says their baby drank cold bottles just fine and they never touched it again.
Parents who’ve already survived the newborn trenches, what ended up being a complete waste of money, and what did you literally use every single day?