29F | CST | Looking for genuine connections

Hi! I’m Monica, 29, from Texas. I’m hoping to meet some new people to talk to on Discord and hopefully make some lasting friendships.

A little about me: I enjoy gaming, watching YouTube, listening to music, and hanging out in voice chat. I’m the kind of person who likes conversations that can bounce between complete nonsense and meaningful topics. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, but I also enjoy getting to know people on a deeper level.
Some games I play include Hunt: Showdown, ARC Raiders, REPO, and the We Were Here series, though I’m always open to trying new co-op games.

I’m mainly looking for genuine friendships with people who enjoy talking regularly and actually want to get to know each other. If one of those friendships naturally turns into something more someday, I’m open to that—but I’m not here expecting it or trying to rush into anything. I believe the best relationships are built on a solid friendship first.

If you’re around my age (mid-20s to mid-30s), enjoy voice chats, gaming, or just having someone to talk to throughout the week, feel free to reach out! Tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi.” I’d love to hear what you’re passionate about or what you’ve been playing lately.

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u/ziur__ — 1 day ago

29F | Texas | Looking for someone to voice chat, watch shows, and just hang out

Hi! I'm looking for someone who enjoys spending time together over voice chat. I'm definitely more of a "let's actually hang out" person than someone who only messages back and forth.

I'd love to find someone who's down to hop into Discord, watch shows together, play a game if we're both in the mood, or even just keep each other company while we're doing our own thing. I really enjoy those low-pressure conversations where there's no expectation to constantly fill the silence.

I like Game of Thrones and House of the Dragon, and I enjoy co-op games, horror games, and just trying random games with people. I'm always happy to hear recommendations too.

I'm not looking to rush into anything. I'd rather get to know someone naturally and see where the friendship goes. If it eventually turns into something more, I'm open to that, but that's not my expectation going in.

A little about me: I work during the week, spend time with my family, and usually have free time in the evenings and on weekends. I appreciate people who are genuine, consistent, and enjoy making time for the people they care about.

If you're looking for someone to actually spend time with not just exchange a few messages feel free to reach out! Tell me a little about yourself, what you're currently watching, or what game you've been into lately.

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u/ziur__ — 10 days ago

29F | Texas | looking for someone to watch shows, game, and just vibe with

Hey 🙂 I’m looking to meet someone I can actually talk to regularly and build a genuine connection with over time.

I’d really like to find someone to watch shows with and just hang out while we do it. I’m also like to start A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms.

I also game sometimes, so I’d be down to hang out on Discord, play games together, or just talk while doing our own thing.
I’m not trying to rush anything. I like when things develop naturally—friendship first, and if something more grows from that over time, I’m open to it, but there’s no pressure at all.

I’m usually around in the evenings and weekends, but I’m more about consistency and effort than anything super specific.
I’m pretty chill overall—just looking for good conversation, shared interests, and someone who actually enjoys spending time together regularly.

If you think we’d click, tell me what show you’re into right now or what game you can’t stop playing 🙂

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u/ziur__ — 12 days ago
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Portfolio Recovery Lawsuit

Hi everyone. I’m in Texas and was just served with a lawsuit from Portfolio Recovery Associates regarding an old Best Buy/Citibank credit card account for approximately $2,600.

I’m planning to file an Answer so I don’t end up with a default judgment, but I’m trying to understand how strong their case actually is and what my next steps should be.

The documents they attached included:

A custodian of records affidavit from Portfolio Recovery Associates stating they purchased the debt.

What appears to be a duplicate copy of the same monthly statement showing the balance and payment information.

A certificate of last known mailing address.

I did not see a full payment history, a bill of sale listing my specific account, or any additional assignment documents.

For those of you who have dealt with PRA in Texas, what happened in your case? Did they provide more documentation later? Did you settle, fight it, or have the case dismissed?
And if you were in my shoes— having just been served and seeing only this documentation— what would you do next?

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u/ziur__ — 20 days ago
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29 [F4R] | #Online | Looking for genuine long-term friends

Making friends as an adult is weird, so here I am.

I'm looking for platonic, long-term friendships with people who enjoy actual conversations beyond "hey, how was your day?" | love hearing about the random parts of people's lives- your latest hyperfixation, work drama, what game you're obsessed with, the book you can't stop recommending, or the weird fact you learned at 2 a.m.

A little about me:
*I love gaming
* I enjoy reading
* I can switch from deep conversations to absolute nonsense in record time.
* I have a soft spot for memes and people who send updates about their day.

Not looking for romance or flirting- just hoping to find genuine friends who stick around.
If you message me, tell me about your favorite game, comfort show, or the most random fact you know about.

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u/ziur__ — 23 days ago

I’m just sad about it all honestly.

I think part of why this hurts me so much is because I really did care about you, probably more than I should have this early on. And I know you have so much going on right now, which is why I felt like space was the healthiest thing for both of us. I don’t want to become another emotional pressure on top of everything else you’re carrying.

But if I’m being honest, I think I started feeling disconnected and emotionally insecure for a while before all of this happened. I kept trying to ignore it or rationalize it because I knew your life was complicated and stressful, but it still hurt. Sometimes I felt hidden, like I didn’t really know where I stood with you, and over time I stopped feeling special to you. I know that probably wasn’t intentional, but it’s how it started to feel on my side.

I think hearing “we’re just getting to know each other” affected me more than I let on too, because emotionally this didn’t feel casual to me anymore. I got attached to you. I cared about you, I missed you, and I genuinely wanted to be there for you. So when things started feeling distant or divided, it hurt more than I expected it to.

I don’t think you’re a bad person, and I don’t think you intentionally tried to hurt me. I honestly think you’re overwhelmed, exhausted, and trying to survive a lot all at once. But I also think I reached a point where I was constantly questioning where I stood, and it started emotionally wearing me down.

I’m not angry at you. I’m just sad about it in all honestly.

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u/ziur__ — 2 months ago