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Why is it such a turn off when a guy knows he's attractive??? ( a repost )

Not the idea of him finding himself attractive ofc like i would choose a confident guy over a an insecure guy any day but god i HATE when they post about it and they see themselves as a form type of god.. like dude... مش اخر حبه انت , or when they post themselves a lot to get the attention ( you can tell , im not talking about the normal pics ) .

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u/emptyhearted222 — 18 hours ago
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Why is it such a turn off when a guy knows he's attractive??

Not the idea of him finding himself attractive ofc like i would choose a confident guy over a an insecure guy any day but god i HATE when they post about it and they see themselves as a form type of god.. like dude... مش اخر حبه انت , or when they post themselves a lot to get the attention ( you can tell , im not talking about the normal pics ) .

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u/emptyhearted222 — 22 hours ago
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How it feels to wanna make friends in similar queer fandom spaces as you, but not find a single person in west asia there, let alone Jordanian

I just wanna geek about my favorite doomed pairs without getting side eyed why is everyone i know chronically offline 🥀

u/0C_B_C — 2 days ago
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i told my mom about my gender dysphoria and she got me therapy!

im 14 and last week i told my mom about my gd and she got me a therapist and shes so nice!!!!
yay

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u/Western-Brief7498 — 3 days ago

Chat requests thread

Weekly chat requests thread

Rules are:

Don’t share personal info about yourself like where you live or your social media accounts

Don’t look for hookups this thread is only for looking for friends sake

Don’t post any chatter requests in any other weekdays

If you break any of the rules above you’ll be banned temporarily.

ENJOY!!

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u/omar_the_last — 4 days ago
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Need help

بدي مساعدة اي حد فاهم من مجتمع الميم بخصوص الهجرة و المنظمات للاشخاص الترانز.

انا مش من الاردن بس محتاج مساعدة اي شخص
فاهم.

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u/47-ghost — 4 days ago
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Am i the only one that way?

Everytime i talk to a top and they send a d pic they always expect me to praise them for it, and normally i just say my honest opinion and they leave disappointed, like its not the first d i see, what's so special about yours?, is the problem me?, like should i fake praising their d???

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u/heartshapedsunglasez — 6 days ago
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"First" alcohol experience

Hello,hope y'all are having a wonderful day.

I'm gonna write this for everyone who wants to try alcohol but wants to hear actual experiences.

A few points i should point out before actually writing

1_i put first in "" because i've tried cocktails before this experience but they didn't do anything for me

2_ please don't take the amount i drank and try it yourself, everyone body behaves differently

3_while drinking make sure to sip water as you're drinking

4_drink responsibly,in small sips,and watch how your body react,once dizzy and a bit fuzzy STOP and continually drink water

5-DO NOT mix alcohol with anything containing caffeine/gives you energy

6_ have fun :)

Ok so that's my experience

I went on a date with a guy i met on tinder, one where we both agreed that the best first date is with alcohol to stop the awkwardness and anxiety of a first date.

we brought ram (the alcoholic drink), snacks,water,and other drinks to mix the rum with.

I'm not gonna focus on the date aspect in this post.

So i opened the bottle of rum and noticed it's apple smell,took a sip,and it was so bitter and burning (just to try,no need to actually do it since you have to mix it with something else).

I poured less than a half a cup of water and the rest is the stuff to mix with,after the first half of the glass,i started to feel the calmer,relaxed, and overall not nervous.

After the second half,i started to feel that it's harder to think.

I poured another cup and drank it slowly,i started to feel the effects,mild euphoria,so calm,and a bit light headed.

I stopped for like 30 mins

Then another last half a cup and drank it in one go (it was stupid don't do this please,as i said,drink slowly,but i knew i wouldn't black out,and we were going for a walk so i "had" to finish it), after like 10 mins, the "unable to walk straight" hit me,i still was conscious, can still form thoughts,and can still act sober.

After that i felt my bladder really full (from all the water i drank along side the alcohol),i went and i did my business,and after like 30 mins, went to eat something to sober up.

During eating i did feel more drunk (because all the blood was going to my stomach,which is totally normal, also it's because of the half cup i drank at one go )

And during my way home i still was a bit dizzy and couldn't walk fully straight ( i could act and actually walk straight but i just lived the moment and let myself loose) but the effects were fading slowly,as i got home i was while exhausted,i was able to speak normally,walk normally,and pretty much function as a sober person.

I immediately went to sleep and had the best sleep of my life lol

Woke up normal,no hungover,no headaches,and went about my day like normal.

That's it for the experience, but i want to give more scientific points for everyone.

1_ alcohol is a sedative,which is a fancy word to say it makes you sleepy and less functional, that's exactly why i highly advice to NOT drink anything that gives you energy along side it, while it seems simple, i'm sleepy so i should drink something to regain my energy,but biologically that's not what will happen, it'll confused your brain,give you a terrible headache,and you'd feel even more tired, other that that it just makes you feel normal when you're drunk so you'll just drink more which is a horrible idea and may result in over drinking to dangerous levels .

2_while drinking adenosine (a chemical)starts to build up a lot,this chemical function as a "sleep pressure" , that's why you should drink only if you have nothing going on after drinking because you WILL feel sleepy,and please don't fight it, just go to sleep and have a rest

3_alcohol makes your kidneys produce more urine (which means more water is being lost), that's why you should drink water even if you don't feel thirsty

4_eat after feeling a bit sober or completely,your liver was too busy dealing with alcohol that your blood sugar is now less,all and all listen to your body :)

5_again PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE drink water, it's not worth the headaches and the dehydration you'll feel after sobering up

That's it for this post,love y'all,drink responsibly,have fun,and have a great day.

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u/Kindly-Plankton2279 — 6 days ago
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ليه مجتمعنا عمره ما حيطور

فكرة انه في شخص مختلف عنهم ترعبهم وتقززهم

u/cielloveseals — 8 days ago

بقدر اكون بحب المسبات والخضوع sub بالتخت بس برا التخت نرجع عادي؟ 😂

بحب المسبات والتطعيمات ونفسي اكون sub بدون حدود بس مو قادر اجرب خايف .. ممكن إذا جربت هالاشي يضل بالتخت وقت المحنة بس ولا رح يصير كمان براه؟

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u/Chemical_Discount501 — 6 days ago
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Venting

مرحبا، انا حابة اشارك البوست هون لانه بعرف في كتير ناس رح تفهمني. انا عمري ٢٤ سنة، وعيلتي من النوع الي كتير بشدد، لدرجة ابوي بتدخل بلبسي، وامي بتتدخل بحياتي، ومع اني البنت الكبيرة بالعيلة ولا مرة اعطوني مساحة احس حالي مستقلة فيها، وبعرف انه شخصيتي تأثرت جدًا بسبب الطريقة الي ربوني فيها. الان انا تخرجت من الطب، وكمان كم اسبوع رح ابدأ الامتياز، وحرفيًا طول هالسنين انا معتمدة عليهم ماديًا، وما كان الهم مجال انهم يمننوا علي برسوم الجامعة لانه انا درست على حساب المكرمة، وبالرغم من ذلك مننوا علي انه بفضلهم طلعتلي المكرمة، بعد ما تخرجت ولانه عنّا بالبيت توجيهي كعيلة أُرغمنا على انه نقلل طلعاتنا وروحاتنا لصفر، وخلال هاي الفترة كلها حرفيًا انا مرمية بالتخت كل الي بعمله بقضي ١٠+ ساعات على الشاشة. انا قرفت من حياتي، قرفت من اني اكون فاقدة الشغف، وقرفت من اهلي.

بالمناسبة انا مرتبطة مع بنت، هالبنت من الاردن لكنها مش ساكنة هون، ساكنة برة وكتير من وقتي بقضيه مكالمات معها وهيك، انا مش مستقلة عنهم ماديًا لليوم، وهالاشي كثير مأثر فيي، وغير عن هيك، انا عندي نية استغل اني خلصت طب وادور على طريقة اكمل الاختصاص بعيد عن هالبيت المسموم، واطلع برة البلد، وطبعًا اهلي اكيد ضد الفكرة، كتير بكسروا مجاديف، وابوي همه على طول يتحكم فيي، لو بايده يتحكم بأفكاري ما كان أخّر. انا مش بدور على حل هون انا بس بدي افضفض، بعرف انه مع الوقت كل شي رح يصير احسن، بس انا سئمت استنى الوقت يمر وانا على نفس الحال.

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u/hohuzz — 10 days ago

Looking for a friend

مرحبا بدي أعرفكم عن حالي انا بنت a sexual ملحدة عمري ۲۲ مهتمه بكل اشي بحب الكتب و القراءه و بحب المغامرات و القنص و تقريبا عندي كل انواع الهوايات افلام و رسم و مسلسلات ، بدور على صديقة asexul ملحدة أو لا دينية نتعرف و نفضفض البعض و نحكي و نكتشف الدنيا و تكون قادره ماليا اللي نطلع كوفي هاوس و مشاغل رسم و حرف و هيك انشطه و نتزاور بس ما تكون اكبر من ثلاثين سنة و مش اقل من ٢٤ سنه

Note: it's ONLY FRIENDSHIP. Nothing more

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u/Less_Suggestion_4632 — 11 days ago

Question

Why it’s hard to find a leasbian / gay friends .. i really want to make friends but It’s hard to trust anyone 🫠

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u/lv_ub — 11 days ago
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Same sex marriage

In my opinion, it will take arab countries one million years of time for them to finally legalise same sex marriage. That's how backward they are

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u/Rare-Register-6267 — 11 days ago