r/Chittagong

any place or page to rent a coat just for tomorrow or buy it for cheap at least so that i can wear it for one day. please help its needed

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what do you regret doing or not doing in your early twenties? share your wisdom for the better of the society.In literally any field of life. teach us some lessons. TIA for your contribution.

(15m) hi I'm a madrasa student (soon to be "Was") but i really never wanted to be one my parents kinda forced in on my face but finally it's coming to an end even though they are not kinda happy about me not wanting to pursue this line of education but i don't really give a fk about it because it has mentally destroyed me! i have always pushed myself saying that "Just arektu tar por shesh just arektu" but now my mind isn't taking ts anymore it even got so bad i had anxiety attacks finally they listened to me because even the doctor said that i can't mentally take it anymore all this happened in september last year (2025) my mom and dad said that they would admit me in a school from 2026 fast forward now it's middle of december and i was just checking google news and an article popped up which was about the lottery results (the admission lottery) after reading it i found out that i had to submit my form in november i went to my mom and asked her about this i taught and found out she never wanted me to go to school and the promise before was just to calm me down at that time i was betrayed! and i stressed about it so much that i got my 3rd anxiety attack i was even admitted to the hospital finally after 3 anxiety attack so much mental issues and after wasting shit ton of money on doctors she finally gave up and truly agreed to my demands now here starts main problem which this post is about.

so because the lottery was over a looooong time ago i needed direct admission but i needed a school where i didn't have to attend classes since there's still a bit left for me to become a hafiz so my initial plan was i get admission in 7th i know should have been in 8th but i compromised a bit because i have never been to school so i needed time to catch up 5-6 years of education that i got but again my incompetent parents can't do shit and got me into 6th my mom got the books from school and said "Ne ekon jaa icha ta kor boi ene disi r amake kisu bolbina" but as everyone expects i can't do anything with those books because i have never even touched anything like that before english books where easy for me but still i didn't knew what to exactly remember and what's important for exams and let's just not talk about bangla. so i asked my mom for a teacher so she said to my 2nd sister to teach me after i come back from madrasa (my 2nd sister is currently was free at that time and had nothing to do now she's gonna be busy because her dental college and my eldest sister is in uni hostel) but she could not get me going so finally after a lot of convincing my mom decided to keep my 2nd sister old tuition teacher as my tuition teacher i like him a lot and love how he teaches also he's really close to our family so he knows me for a long time now and knows my situation well

now after a few months i can say i learned alot and i definitely like this line of education more than the shithole i was in before but my current problem/s are

1st: i don't know bangla well

2nd: i feel bad thinking about studying with damn kids

3rd: i don't really like bangladesh education system and actually tbh with all of you i don't even want to live here

so the solutions i came with is

1st: switch to EM before SSC

2nd: somehow skip 7th

my question is when is the last time i can switch to EM and changes and difficulties should i expect? and how can i skip 7th or maybe even better skip 8th as well and get to EM 9th (getting a bit greedy there hehe) also to make it clear i'm not that passionate about studies i can't really catch up to the people who have been in this sector since the starting i'm just trying to do this for the love of the game i don't have any dream to become a Doctor or engineer or anything i don't like corporate jobs either (i hate them) i've told my parents about that as well told my dad that i would like to do some business or stuff like that also my both of my sisters are gonna be well settled so i don't have any responsibility whatsoever i kinda hate them as well so IDC! i can't take too much stress so i don't like to think or talk about these and just try to have a low cortisol level and not care about these stuff but knowing how incompetent my parents are at the end of the day they will just blame it on me for everything that's why i decided to post this.

edit: I just wanted to make it clear that I want to go abroad and settle down there; that's one of the reasons I want to switch to English Medium.

English othoba Economics e hons korbo . Premier r Southern University te kmn khoroch porbe total? ar konta valo hobe ektu bolien . Affordable er moddhe khujcchi karon budget kom.

Please kindly bolben

Need a decent table tennis bat under 5k. I know the budget’s a bit tight, but since I’m kinda on the intermediate side, I wanna start with something budget-friendly first before going all in.

Mainly looking for something balanced with decent control and spin. Specific models, specs, and shops (within Dhaka or CTG) where I can get them would be really appreciated.

Suggest me a good clinic to neuter my cat in Chittagong.and how much it’s gonna cost?

They always say the youngest child is the spoiled one but honestly, I’ve never understood why, because that was never my reality.

In my life, everyone around me, my parents, my sister, my brother-in-law, my friends they all come to me. They sit with me, open up, and pour out their hearts about their lives, their struggles, their worries. And despite being so much younger than all of them, I became the one they trusted. The one they leaned on. In a way, that means the world to me.

But sometimes… it quietly breaks me.
Because at the end of every conversation, after I’ve listened, after I’ve cared, after I’ve held space for everyone else’s pain. No one turns around and asks, “How are you?” No one wonders how my day was. No one stops to think that maybe I’m carrying something too.

And that silence? That overlooked, unasked question? It hurts more than words ever could.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Do u guys think about Shibir,

As i grow up. There is rumor about them, are these true or just rumor?

On the other day, some shibir guys reach me out and try to convince me joining them

I also watch them on FB, doing Their work...

I wanna hear about your thought about them, what’s their position in ctg,

why should i join them or not to join them!!

Is there any safe female hostel in Mirsharai? How costly these are?

Am going to be in Chittagong city for a couple of days. Other than Patenga and Foys lake what else is there to do ? Would appreciate recommendations on places to visit/ things to do from locals.

Also any decent hotel recommendations in the city near Kotwali, last time stayed in Brac Learning Center and it was affordable and good, it's not available this time around.

Things I currently have listed down,

Shah Amanat Bridge, Cathedral of Our Lady of the Holy Rosary of Chittagong, Gani Bakery, Jamal Khan, Chittagong War Cemetery, Zia Memorial Museum, DFC, CRB, Bayezid Link Road, DC Park, Akilpur, Andarkilla Mosque, Chandanpur Mosque, Dastagir Hotel(ate nehari from here last time), Ctg Court Building.

Are any of these overrated or not recommended

How's been our fellow chatgaiyas spending?

I just wanna start a Convo as this sub has been off lately with restaurant stuffs

As for me I have been into leather research, watch research,a little camera research, meeting new people, studying to at least pass in the coming hsc

What about you guys?

I'm 16 and a guy, so I recent bought a bicycle. And obviously, I was really excited to take it out in my hood. So me being me, I strode through the area, it was fun and thrilling, ya know, average biking experience.

A lot of people noticed the foam still on the bike and they were like, "How much did it cost?" and old grannies that take morning walks were greeting me. Most people just thought it looked cool so they were checking it out. I was enthusiastic, like I was happy to socialize.

Anyways as I was coming home, the gatekeeper for the apartment beside mine approached me, and he was like, "That's a pretty sweet bike." AND he started touching me inappropriately. Yeah crazy turn of events, I know.

I just started punching him and I hit him hard. He got scared shitless and was cornered up by a wall. Apparently, I ask my apartment's gate guy and he said the pedo guy is actually weird, he does this a lot somehow. And he's gotten away with it since no one's reported him yet. I gave him 4 hard punches. And he was like, "Allah dekse to, ami ki korsi." And I was like WHAT, LIKE DUDE YOU- And I just started cursing at him in Chatgaia.

If I was a girl, probably would've taken this to the cops. But I don't really feel traumatized or anything, I mean I feel proud I got out a couples punches.

I haven't told my family or the cops, since I don't want drama. Did I do the right thing?

আমি নারায়ণগঞ্জ থাকি চটোগ্রামে মুভ হতে চাচ্ছি।

yesterday i ordered a saree for my gf from a page called Nuzhat's Wishlist which is based in CTG. I made the payment in advance as it was a surprise gift for her. After confirming the payment i asked for a recorded video of the saree if possible. they didn’t reply....then i texted them this morning, no reply, in the evening still no reply!

am i being scammed? i'm having hard time processing this.

the page seemed trustworthy... what should i do?

So I tested INFP on 16personalities and then took the mistype investigator test which also confirmed it through cognitive functions — Fi and Ne at the top, which honestly explains so much about me.

Let me just describe myself and tell me if you relate:

My head is a literal cinema theatre. I don't just think about things — I experience them internally. I replay conversations, imagine future scenarios in vivid detail, construct alternate realities. It's exhausting but I also can't turn it off. I overanalyze absolutely everything. Every word someone said. Every pause. Every vibe that felt slightly off. And the thing is — my gut feelings are usually spot on. I can sense when something is wrong before anything has even been said. I just can't always explain how I know.

I don't approach people. Not because I'm scared exactly, but because small talk feels almost pointless to me. I'd rather have 4 real friends than 20 surface level ones. So I wait. I observe. Very few people make it through whatever invisible filter I apparently have.

But here's the thing that I find most interesting about myself-

I have maybe 4-5 close friends. But each one of them knows a different version of me. Like I've shown each person a different layer. None of them have the full picture. I have deep conversations with all of them — but different deep conversations. If I had a crush on someone, none of them would know. Those feelings feel too big and too personal to put into words — like talking about it would somehow make it smaller.

So even among the people closest to me, there's always a part of me watching from behind glass. Never fully seen.

And I absorb energy from people around me without trying — I can walk into a room and immediately feel tension nobody is talking about. Certain people just drain me completely.

Do fellow INFPs relate to any of this? Especially the compartmentalization thing — is that just me or is that an INFP thing?

Would love to hear your experiences 🖤

Have anyone from this community cracked iba mba? I'm a bba graduate, now want to prepare for iba mba. Is there any coaching where i can get admitted or should i continue self study?

Hey everyone,

​আমি আর আমার পার্টনার দুজনেই বেশ ইন্ট্রোভার্ট এবং আমরা নতুন কাপল। চট্টগ্রামে এমন কোনো সুন্দর রেস্তোরাঁ আছে যা একটু নিরিবিলি, কাপলদের জন্য ভালো প্রাইভেসী আছে এবং প্রাইসও রিজনএবল?

​খুব বেশি লাউড মিউজিক বা ক্রাউডেড জায়গা আমরা এভয়েড করতে চাচ্ছি যাতে শান্তিতে কথা বলা যায়। ক্যাফে বা ডাইনিং—যেকোনো ভালো অপশন সাজেস্ট করতে পারেন।

​অগ্রিম ধন্যবাদ!

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