My wife and I have an extremely blessed marriage and we couldn’t be any happier. I like to follow and ask for success stories from couple who have made it 20+ years please share!
We are at 11 currently
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Hello! We just had our 10th anniversary, which was a very happy and celebratory occasion. We’ve had a hard 10 years, both together and just the world handing us shit pie after shit pie. However, the past 1.5 years or so we’ve really been hitting a stride and I think we feel the best we ever have together. It’s almost like circling back around to the honeymoon stage feelings, but with deep history and knowledge of one another….it feels really special. These 10 years the theme has felt like learning and GROWTH. We are still in the little kid phase, but just had a new baby at ages 39 and 43 (we also have an 8 and 5 yo), so life is hectic but very sweet.
Anyway - I’m wondering, what happens during this next decade? For those at 20+ years, how does your marriage feel different at 20 years than it did at year 10? 10 feels like a lot and it’s hard to imagine what more growth feels like, you know? Does it plateau at some point and just feel “the same” for a while? Not saying that would be bad, we would welcome predictability. But does that start to feel like a rut at times? I just can’t imagine it…I’m curious though!
Thank you for your wisdom!! 🙏
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So my husband and I have friends of the opposite gender and I oddly feel very safe and thankful? Knowing that he has people in his corner that will help him if he needs it. All of his friends are married with kids. My question is it healthy that I feel this way vs being jealous and worried..
After more than a decade together, we still had such a lovely day out in JB.. an awesome lunch, great coffee, a massage together, and he even sat patiently through my 2-hour manicure just to accompany me.
What made it even sweeter? He paid for my manicure 😅 and I paid for our favourite lok lok dinner in return.
Sometimes, your favourite days aren’t about doing anything extraordinary. It’s simply having your favourite person beside you, enjoying the little things and choosing to spend time together.
Reconnection is important, especially after so many years together. Keep dating each other, keep appreciating each other and never stop finding little ways to make each other happy.
Feeling very grateful for my person today ❤️