Hello, my name is Jess. I'm 30yrs old and a mama of 3. Happily Married. Looking for genuine friendship and someone who makes my days less lonely as I mostly am at home with kids and don't have many adult conversations because of this. 😅 So hmu if you are interested in being my friend. Preferable that you live in the U.S. so we are in similar time zones. 😅
According to some of the posts I've seen here, I think this is a thing. In case you haven't heard of the term:
Epistemic loneliness is a distinct cognitive form of isolation that occurs when you are profoundly unable to share, explore, or mutually develop complex ideas with others, even when you possess the requisite communication skills.
I've experienced this and also know people who have.
Maybe social difficulties are more of an environment thing rather than a personality trait, day by day I lean more into the environment hypothesis.
Sure some people could use a boost in their social awareness or confidence, but it takes time especially if you're stuck in an evironment that feels unstimulating or draining, or if you feel alone in how you see the world.
Also of course, people waste a lot of time in small talk missing opportunities for connection based on the things that make life a strange and precious adventure.
Following the environment hypothesis I think this demands an architectural solution rather than addressing the problem psychologically or individually.
So I came up with an architecture for good conversations based on interests (you'd say this is very intj?).
The strucrtural answer I reached is Pollen. People's topics of interest are taken, then, a question that connects them is posed to start a temporary group conversation.
So what do you think, through your life have there been environments that made you feel comfortable, like people cared to get into topics that were interesting to you and moved away from small talk?
What made them work? What was missing?
Hewwo everybody ;3
I been learning how to draw anime and manga. I am huge about world building and lores and story writing. I am hoping to meet some people and make some new friends. I am real chatty, I'll say that. Well hope you like the taste of my art :P
Hello! I’m looking for friends around my age that live in the new england area! Specifically massachusetts or new hampshire! I’m super friendly and cool! I really love fashion specifically jfashion and my favourite animal is a rabbit! I’m opened to getting to know anyone (but ofc being my age lol) Thank you 🩷🩷
Hi everyone. I'm a 22-year-old woman from India and lately l've been feeling that making genuine female friendships has become harder compared to school days.
Back then it felt natural because you met people every day, but now everyone seems busy with their own lives, careers, or studies. My circle has become quite small and sometimes I wonder if other women also feel the same way.
For those in their 20s, how did you meet your close female friends? Did it happen naturally or did you have to actively put yourself out there?
Would really like to hear your experiences and advice.would love to have some good indian female friends.
I’m generally more of an introvert and might take a little time to open up, but once I’m comfortable, I really enjoy meaningful conversations. I’m into gaming, especially League of Legends, and I’m a huge movie fan, especially the MCU. I’ve also recently started getting into K-pop, so I’m still discovering new artists and songs. 😅 I like having regular conversations, sharing random thoughts, and seeing where a good friendship naturally goes. I’m pretty easygoing.
Hii I’m 28F, was wondering if anyone wanted to be friends on snap/insta as I’m not that active on here :) I love reading, music, going out 🫶🏼
Recently went through a breakup, and honestly, it made me realize I’d like to meet some new people and build genuine friendships.
I’m from India. I enjoy movies, music, random late-night conversations, learning about different cultures, and getting to know people beyond the usual “hey, how are you?” 😅
Not looking for anything complicated or forced. Just hoping to meet a few good people, have some real conversations, and see where the friendship goes.
If you’re also looking for a genuine connection, feel free to say hi. Tell me something random about yourself I’ll do the same. :)
Hey everyone! I’m 25M and I’m here to meet new people from different parts of the world.
I’m into traveling, exploring new places, sports, movies, music, and just having interesting conversations about life and different cultures. I’ve traveled a bit and really enjoy hearing about other people’s experiences and where they’re from.
I’m open to chatting with anyone, whether you’re looking for a casual conversation, a friendship, or just someone to exchange stories with.
Feel free to DM me
Hi everyone! This is my second post here, and I wanted to share a little more about myself. I’m a 19-year-old student from Hyderabad who enjoys interior design, café hopping, exploring new places, and going to the gym.
I’m hoping to meet kind, respectful, and genuine people who are also interested in building new friendships. I’m comfortable making friends with both girls and guys, and I’m also open to long-distance friendships with people from different cities or countries.
I enjoy good conversations, sharing experiences, learning about different perspectives, and creating meaningful connections. If you’re also looking for a genuine friend to chat with or share interests with, feel free to message me. Looking forward to meeting some wonderful people here!!!
Hey i am from Germanyyy and i am looking for someone who i can call and spend some time with together regurarly, maybe even game with u, watch stuff together or u watch me game while we call.
I am an introverted social guy (makes no sense) but i am normalyyy more quiet in the beginning but after someee time i will openn up pretty quick and be myself by being reaalllyy Bubbly, sweet and clingy (not the toxic kind of clingy). I would say i am understanding aswell and really supportive hehehe. I longggg for human Contact but i am just to shy for that sometimesss.
My Hobbies and interests are Playing games mostly alone but sometimes with Friends aswell, listen to music, watch and play football anddd learn abt Historyyy. I really love deep songs with meaningfull Lyrics hehe.
Hii Im looking to meet new people with similar interests as me and similar age range as me, I love gaming, anime, photography, music, etc. We can chat here and if we get close enough I can drop my insta and we can call/text and game together :3! I also love picking up new hobbies so if you have anything you like doing I would love to hear about it. (I speak Spanish, English, Italian and a little Portuguese)
Hi! 🤙🏻🤙🏻 I’m 25 and from Norway.
I’m especially interested in history, although my interests tend to jump around quite a bit. Some subjects I’ve been reading about semi-recently include Hellenistic culture in Afghanistan, medieval witch hunts and demonology, Renaissance warfare, medieval disease and social identity, and various topics in paleontology and economics. I’m also interested in sharks, fungi, folklore and generally obscure subjects, so if any of those sound interesting to you, feel free to message me.
In my free time I read quite a lot, watch documentaries and films, play games, and occasionally draw. I’m particularly interested in historical films, horror, folklore and shipwrecks. I have a fairly dry and sometimes strange sense of humor, and I tend to go on long tangents about whatever I’m interested in at the moment.
Personality-wise, I’d say I’m fairly introspective, curious and open-minded. I can be a little reserved with new people, but once I’m comfortable I’m very talkative. I enjoy people who have their own interests and sense of humor, and I generally get along best with people who don’t take themselves too seriously.
I also have a somewhat feminine side to my personality and style, which I’m pretty comfortable with. I like unusual aesthetics and don’t really care much about fitting conventional expectations.
If any of that sounds compatible, feel free to say hi.
Hello im Waru I live in america (terrible spawn point) and I recently moved so I have a lot of free time.
My hobbies: Photography, Editing,Gaming, Reading and listening to music. I also really like animals, drawing,and cars.
I'm looking for people at least somewhat older than me but anyone is perfectly fine as well :p
Hello!
Musician/Engineer from Australia here and I am really looking to meet new people, explore culture and food. Talk about religion, love, peace and space. I am a bit of an introvert. I work full time, but I have set on this deadly task to find more friends and get to know more people as a part of my self development process.
Send us a dm, share a song thats been with you on repeat for the last couple of days, let's share our dreams.
just a girl who loves music, astrology, true crime, anime, cooking, and random late-night conversations i’m always down to laugh,or yap about literally anything. looking to make some genuine new friends, I have discord/instagram txt me for my user
I just got dumped and I really don’t know what to do with myself. I only talked to him so I don’t really have any friends. I’m pretty mentally ill so I don’t know if i’d really make a great friend since I sleep a lot and may not respond quickly. Idk i just want someone to send memes to and try to help me forget
Hey! :b
I’m looking for genuine friends to vibe with. The kind of friendship where we can send each other random memes at 3 AM, play Fortnite together, start a Palworld world (I haven’t played in years lol), talk about literally anything, spam each other with dumb videos, laugh at the most random things, and just enjoy each other’s company.
I used to get overwhelmed because I’m not great at talking to too many people at once, but I’m going to do my best to reply to everyone and make some new connections.
I’m a pretty emotional person and can be a little complicated sometimes, so I’d love to meet people who are patient, enjoy both meaningful and chaotic conversations, and don’t mind matching my energy. I’m also pretty hyper, so I definitely prefer calls or voice messages lol. :)
I’m mainly hoping to meet people from the US, but everyone’s welcome!
So leave a comment and I’ll message you! 💛
Just wanna make new friends.... About me I am an alien from Jupiter and my age is 716 and my hobbies are travelling Milkyway galaxy and exploring new planets ....