Sis-in-law keeps asking for loan from wife - Should I intervene?
It goes without saying that Sis-in-law earns peanuts, and is not the wisest in managing her finances. So she keeps coming to my wife, asking for loans. Sometimes, it got paid (but never without having to remind her about it), and at other times, she 'forgot' about them completely.
When it comes to requesting for loan, she was very polite. But soonest as the money is transferred, not even a thank you! Plays the victim card - posts on her social media about how no one cares/is helping her out, sad basket case.
Maybe she lacks in adab, but what's worrying is how it made my wife feel. To the extend that my wife got stressed out and got moody.
So the question is, should I intervene? e.g. sending her loans, and told her to not ask from her sister anymore? Or is this foolish? The amount she requests are not a lot, like a few hundreds at a time, and at times some RM30 pun pernah, lol.
How would you approach this?