Trashy? Ik it is. Pet tax at the end. Toilet is sediment, not shit I swear. Tv for attention. :)
Sure, it doesn't look great, but I can't really complain. Plus, I love not having roommates.
Stop waiting for the perfect reset.
Pick one small standard and keep it today.
No speech.
No announcement.
No dramatic new identity.
Just one promise kept. Tell us what you chose in the comments.
Tl dr: persong who helped me out in tough times became bitter and made me uncomfortable due their personal legal battles with the company I still work at.
Moved out of my current living situation, I've always had bad spending habits food wise, and credit management and got roped into payday loans abyss when my old car started giving me trouble, got this used car on a loan with not so great credit but not terrible apr, moved out due to legal issues the person whom I was renting from started to seep into my personal life, (they got fired from the place I currently still work at 2 years ago and they're seeking comp trhough wrongful termination) it just became uncomfortable being pressured and asked to inform from the inside, and saying he mentioned me directly in court as someone still living under his roof,
He rents from a landlord and i was technically not even supposed to be allowed to rent a room in their home trhough him, but they've helped me so much from helping me aquire my first car trhough a payment plan with him for a couple of years and offering me a roof when I needed it after freshly moving in from mexico with nowhere else to go, along with expedited hiring when he was still a manager, the pressure and attitude and comcofrotableness staying in their home only climbed when I was asked to share what was going on imfrom the inside and I declined.
Now im living out of my car, waiting on a room for rent to be ready for me in September 6th, so in the meantime for the next two months focusing on clearing my payday loans debt, and some credit cards, fucking off on the medical debt since it can be more manageable trhough payment plans later on,
I found a safe overnight parking program so im not looking for stealth camping spots in my car,
I'm employed full time but got no savings or emergency fund basically living paycheck to paycheck and doing uber on the weekends when im not too depressed to get out of bed on my Fridays off, this is more of a rant of my current situation, and coming to terms my bad spending habits and my undisciplined ass for not saving put me here
Go easy on me fellas. Sometimes I worry my place looks to “childish” if that makes any sense.
It’s not much or the best but it’s home (yes that’s the last of us about to play it for the first time)
What yall think
A buddy of mine and I are going back for graduate school soon. Here’s my room:
He got a little bit of everything in there!
I hope this is welcomed and not deleted. I’m new to Reddit and a lot seems to be screened out and deemed not appropriate by moderators.
I am 40F and I know this is a men’s space which I highly advocate and I don’t mean to intrude. I just wanted to spur on each and every one of you who are starting over and reading the support and solidarity for one another is so incredibly heart warming.
I am a huge advocate for Men’s Mental Health, especially in a society where masculinity does appear to sometimes be criticised as being toxic. I condemn that.
It’s hard starting over and I’ve been in the same situation with a lone mattress on the floor of a room and everything which goes with it. I was embarrassed to allow people to visit.
Although it can take a huge hit to your ego, there is light at the end of the tunnel. And you all have the perfect makings of a den/cave.
Just keep going and doing what you’re doing. 🙌
Wife and I just separated and I moved into my own apartment today
Buy my taxidermy fish heads so I can finish my home.
Don't know if you can tell by the photo, but I made the mistake of letting a lady trim my mustache a little. Safe to say we are no longer talking. But it'll return to it's bushy state in no time. Also if you're curious why faces are not shown, I can't let the Exs track me down.