r/Nepal_Genz

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Let’s start a Nepali version of “Am I the Asshole?” (AITA) 🇳🇵
Have you ever been in a situation where you did something and later wondered, “Was I actually wrong?” 😭😂
Maybe it was a relationship problem, family drama, friendship issue, workplace situation, money, wedding drama—or literally anything else.
Share your story anonymously and let everyone judge:
Was I the asshole, or was I right? 👀
Please don’t include real names, phone numbers, addresses, or other personal information.
Let’s hear your most unhinged, confusing, wholesome, or controversial stories 😂👇
Drop your story below!

Hi people, paisa kamaunu paryo tannaiiiiii bora ka bora

How did you people with shit ton of money earned it?? Or other people in your circle, network, family earned it? Legally or shady ways??
Want to know honest answers

im 22 i was born in nepal but grew up in america and lately my family been talking about eventually going back to nepal and living there permanently and i understand where theyre coming from because i love nepal too but i just dont think im ready for that life yet

i grew up in america and im an american citizen so i have the opportunity to stay here and actually build something for myself and thats what i wanna do while im young i wanna create stuff build a career make my own money become independent experience life and see what i can actually make out of myself here

im also almost done with my bachelors i actually wouldve finished at 21 but i took a gap year so im basically just getting to the point where i can start my career and build my own life which is another reason why moving permanently right now feels too early for me

its not like i dont see a future in nepal either my family already has land there and my parents plan on building a home and a separate farmhouse and hiring and paying people to work there so we already have a foundation for a life in nepal and wouldnt be starting from zero

honestly that sounds like a peaceful life i would actually want someday especially knowing my parents would be there but i just dont want that life at 22

i could see myself going there in my late 30s or 40s after ive had the chance to build something for myself make my own money and experience the life i wanna experience here first and then eventually be closer to my parents as we all get older

marriage been coming up too because im apparently nearing the age where im supposed to start thinking about getting married but im only 22 and i feel like im just starting my adult life

i do wanna get married someday but i wanna meet the right person and actually be ready for it not just do it because i reached some age where its expected

one of the weirdest parts about all of this is even tho i was literally born in nepal sometimes when i go back i feel like a tourist in my own country

im nepali and nepal will always be part of who i am but most of my growing up happened in america and this is where i became the person i am now so moving back to nepal permanently isnt as simple as just going home because america feels like home to me too

i love my family and i understand why they want that life and im not trying to choose america over nepal or myself over my family

i just want the chance to live my own life first spend my 20s and maybe some of my 30s building creating making money and seeing what i can actually do here

then when im older and established i can genuinely see myself going back to nepal being around my parents and enjoying the life they built there

i feel like i have two homes and i dont necessarily have to choose one forever

america now nepal later

any other nepalis who grew up abroad ever feel like this especially when it comes to moving back marriage and family expectations

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Current Nepalese Legal System treats human beings as property of whichever party is running the government. where law treats people guilty until proven innocent.

They claim restricting foreign investments, controlling prices, and limiting travel serve as compassionate measures to retain national wealth, prevent social harm, and shield vulnerable groups from abuse. They claim that the state must override individual autonomy to ensure "the collective welfare of society".

Any valid legal system must recognize the individual as an independent, rational being who owns their own life and the product of their labor.

The Nepalese state overrides ownership by forbidding a salaried worker from investing their savings in foreign markets to secure their future (Act Restricting Investment Abroad, 1964, Section 3).

It criminalizes the possession and trading of cryptocurrencies, stripping individuals of the choice to protect their wealth through voluntary mediums of exchange (Foreign Exchange Regulation Act, 1962, Section 12).

It bans adult women from traveling to specific countries for employment, legally reducing them to incompetent wards (Department of Immigration directives under the Foreign Employment Act, 2007).

The legal framework assumes guilt by default. It's like they have no conception of "Innocent until proven guilty".

Individuals must prove their harmlessness to a regulator before moving their own capital or their own bodies.

The government systematically punishes productive citizens for their ambition by imposing extortionate taxes on vehicles and banning luxury imports (Export-Import Control Act, 1957, Section 3, and the annual Finance Act).

The state guts the essence of private ownership by freezing land plotting and dictating how owners subdivide or dispose of their legitimately acquired real estate (Land Use Act, 2019, Section 4, and Land Use Regulations, 2022).

Bureaucratic interference does it best to try and block digital platforms under the guise of social harmony, denying individuals the absolute right to consume and associate with chosen information (Telecommunications Act, 1997, Section 47, and Cabinet Directives).

Arbitrary minimum thresholds on foreign direct investment dismantle economic freedom, using force to prevent a willing local entrepreneur from accepting capital from a willing foreign investor (Foreign Investment and Technology Transfer Act, 2019, Section 3).

It mandates trade operations and capping margins at twenty percent, transforming private enterprises into heavily chained servants of the bureaucracy (Black-marketing and Some Other Social Offenses and Punishment Act, 1975, Section 3).

Every one of these statutes forces the citizen to beg for permission before producing or trading.

Constitutional guarantees mean nothing when the daily operational laws systematically violate the right to life, liberty, and property.

“I’m looking for genuine, long-term friendships with people who are interested in the medical field, love studying, are career-focused, and actually care about building a good future. Basically, I want a nerdy study buddy who’s ambitious and wants to grow together.

Since the past 10 plus years I have spent my life in education (teaching and recruiting) field. I started my journey in Thailand and came to nepal and continued it. I also have experience in corporate and start up world in over three countries (USA, Thailand and Nepal). I have had 7 to 8 years of running my own start ups (its not a resturant).

I am baffled to see the type of information that is being floated in the market. Students are promised one thing, and are given something else. So I thought of starting a channel / community where we can share our experiences. If you also would like to know more about any education related things in nepal, comment bellow. I will fully give my opinion.