As a 10,000+hour Openfront player, you need to stop doing this (gone sexual)
Ok maybe not 10,000 hours but holy fuck this community scares me after playing so many games I am baffled by you guys.
First
Please, stop nuking cities on the frontline. It's almost never a better idea to nuke a frontline city.
Think about this now... I am fighting a guy and if I move forward say one inch on the map, I may capture his city. If you nuke this city, we both are now down a city, not terrible but if you nuke his further back city I have no chance of capping in the next 2 mins, you are helping your team immensely.
Second: I/you/we just got nuked: Don't panic. Yes 10's of thousands have horrifically perished instantly and our 3rd grade teacher was vaporized, we don't have time to worry about them though, they would want us to win the war.
Once we are nuked, I often see the panic of someone trying to regain lost irradiated land. This is worsened by experienced enemy players who will nuke you, watch you attempt to regain your irradiated land, and attack you as you pick through the corpse of your deceased as they laugh and take one of your cities. Getting nuked and not reacting is one of the telltale signs that I am playing against someone experienced... The nuke to me is now a "do you have sub 100 hours or not" bomb because once I see you don't know how to react, get ready because I am about to nuke your neighbor and see how he reacts to my warhead and you might both be deleted faster than you ever have before.
Follow these two rules and you will win more matches for team games, trust me.