r/SixFeetUnder

AVM survivor here

It’s been week since I finished this show. Probably going to rewatch sooner than later because that FUCKED ME UP and I haven’t stopped thinking about it. What a show. What an absolutely perfect and thought provoking, terrifying ending. Full sobbing. Full peace. Full anxiety. I think that ending is up there with the Americans, the sopranos (which I know is controversial) etc. one or the best ever in my opinion. I love that Dexter was also a mortician. I’ve always thought this would be such cool rewarding job, but I would be terrified to be near a dead person.
Now the kicker. Biggest jump scare of my life. Nate being diagnosed with a fucking AVM! They are not common! I can’t believe one was featured on tv. It was very realistic. I felt all of Nate’s emotions throughout. I think that’s the reason he became such an asshole because a brain injury like that just changes your personality completely. Mine bled before I knew about it but I still have daily anxiety about it even though I’ve had a craniotomy, coiling procedure and gamma knife surgery. I think he had an embolism which I couldn’t get as mine was directly on my motor strip and would have left me permanently paralyzed, I spent months trying ugh partial paralysis and my hand is still very weak. I felt so bad for him walking around with one. Mine took years to fully go away and I can’t imagine what it would be like to have one that hadn’t bled but living your life in fear because it is a time bomb and a lot of people don’t survive it.
I’ve scheduled a new scan because his coming back really scared me.
Anyways back to the show. Funnily enough I couldn’t stand Nate and wasn’t really sad when he died because he was a total fucking asshole in the end. I loved the characters and cast so much.
Mostly just came on here to rant about my jump scare.
I’m curious if any of my specialist have watched and if so why they didn’t tell me because it is a really realistic depiction of what goes on. Even tho the last time in hospital he would have been in an ICU without a roommate and being checked by nurses every 15 minutes doing neuro tests.
Any other avm survivors who also watched?

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u/priyatheeunicorn — 1 day ago
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Abandoned funeral home in Chicago with everything left behind including power

u/TheScribe86 — 3 days ago

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The location where Nate & Brenda got married
Is GORGEOUS! There’s a lot of California I haven’t seen. Time to google this locations :-)

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I’m not getting married 😂

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u/FridaKlo — 2 days ago

Question about the ending

>!Just finished the show, loved it all the way. But Keith's death got me questioning. He founded a security company, so as a founder and as a 61 year old why was he doing a dangerous muscle work? When i watched it I thought things went bad and he had to found this job then I surfed on internet a bit and found out this wasnt true.!<

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u/dream_ucker — 2 days ago

Sad quote on Rewatch – S03E07

Yesterday I was watching season 3 episode 7 – “Timing and Space”, and this Margaret quote just stuck with me:

“Your father used to say living with you two was like listening to the longest sentence
in the history of the universe. And now there's no one to hear it but me.”

I always laugh at the crazy stuff Margaret always says or does, she’s so unhinged most of the times, but seeing her being honest like this… trying to connect with Brenda and Billy, them as a family missing one piece, it just broke my heart.

Idk, I guess I just wanted to share this. Anyone remembers any other quotes that probably didn’t mean too much to you in your first watch?

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u/FuzseaFlow9706 — 3 days ago

First rewatch in 20 yrs

I was reluctant to start a rewatch - it’s probably my favourite show of all time - but I’m just toward the end of season 2 when Lisa /Lily Taylor has the baby and wanted to come on here and say how much I loathe her character. She plays it soo well, such an intense, creepy, weirdo feigning innocence.

Love Brenda this time around, such a great layered character.

Dreading the final episode, it affected me so much back in the day.

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u/nothingtolose14 — 3 days ago

S3 onwards feels like a different show rant

I’m watching SFU for the first time and really enjoyed the first two seasons, it could be cringe at times but ultimately I thought the more significant moments were done well.

Now I’m near the end of s3 and I feel like I have whiplash. They are constantly setting up about four upcoming storylines at any given time, but scattered around. So they lead to nothing but then all of sudden something else happens. It feels more like 90210 than the previous series.

•Lisa randomly disappeared (and I looked up the end to that storyline bc I was like sorry what)
• Billy in love with Brenda and tries it on with her. I mean hey I get the weird psychology between them was always there but I thought it was more toxic attachment than anything else
• The mother and the apprentice. Idk i feel it’s so out of character for her and makes no sense
• David and Keith on their weekly break up edging (im over it)
• And now Claire is pregnant

Guys… what is happening anymore 😭 I will still watch to the end bc I have to finish it now but my god

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u/RecipePleasant8294 — 3 days ago

Genuinely curious why so many here loved Brenda yet hate Maggie. Brenda actually cheated on Nate with the surfers , and lies. Maggie was not a cheater, (although was the other woman.)

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u/Every-Cook5084 — 4 days ago

Two episodes away from the finale

I am two episodes away from watching the finale. I’ve loved all seasons and it’s probably gonna be in my top 5 and definitely in my top 10. Such an amazing show but i’m kinda scared that i might not like it that much. I watched Ecotone and All alone, and they did not live up to the expectations. Like sure they were great episodes but i just didn’t see the it the way people hyped them and saying they were two of the greatest episodes oat.

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u/Aggressive_Walrus506 — 4 days ago

I am finally finished and I can't wrap my head around my love for the show.

Yesterday I finished Six Feet Under. Today is the day I leave for college. Watching this show throughout the summer with my mom, who loves me more than anyone, was the perfect way to end this chapter of my life. Now about the show...

Wow. This show was just an absolute masterpiece! I have become such a fan of classic tv shows and this might just top the list. What initially drew me into the show was the general public opinion that Six Feet Under had the greatest finale ever. I knew I wanted to see the hype. What I didn't expect was to cry for the first time while watching a movie or show, and then to cry 6 more times. It is hard to put into words what this show means to me. The way the show handles grief is just simply real. Thats the best way I can compliment it. It didn't do some phony tv bs where everything worked out for everyone or everyone was basically a saint. The show preseneted us these imperfect people and made us deal with there imperfections.

Nothing im saying makes sense, because I can't put into words what I think about this show. The simple shot of Claire seeing Nate in her side mirror fading in the distance hit me so hard. I am scared that I will forget the people I have lost, and they will become nothing but a distant memory.

One thing I would like the throw out is that Everyones Waiting is not the best episode of the show. It is also not All Alone. Its Ecotone. I think the show truly peaks here. Claire finally finds a genuine person, at least we see proof of how genuine he is, we see everyone react to Nates avm problem, and we get what I think is the greatest scene in tv HISTORY, Nates/Davids ecotone.

I have about 5000 things I want to say about the show and the characters, but I will save it for another time. Yall certainly have a new active member in this sub! Im truly going to miss this experience, and much like Claire im struggling to move on from my only chapter of life.

u/TrexVFX23 — 5 days ago

4th Rewatch - Maggie…

My wife and I are on our 4th watch of six feet under, one of the all time greatest shows.. BUT.. this round we’ve decided to skip past every scene with Maggie, no matter how consequential the scene.

With a show that has some of the best characters and character development ever conceived… where did Maggie come from? Was she the directors niece? It’s just awful and kind of ruins what would be a 10/10 perfect show. Are we alone in this?

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u/r0shambeaux — 4 days ago

I just finished the show 5 minutes ago and it was the best thing ive ever seen

they perfectly concluded the show and it was a really satisfying but sad ending but there is no other ending that was fitting.

Nates conclusion was really sad but it kind of showed how people have to keep moving forward with their lives like in the final montage no matter how sad it is eventually we all have our own lives to attend to.

u/Big_Scientist_7164 — 4 days ago