r/Sri_Lankan_Dating

Almost every friend in a relationship and I am not .people say be yourself but I think I'm confidence about myself still get rejected and never had a relationship what am I missing ?

So I'm going to put a few options and I genuinely want to know what girls feel about this.

Case 01 - body count zero

Case 02 - 10+

Case 03 - less than 3 but has been with a prostitute

Case 04 - Guy has slept with a porn star

Case 05 - he has slept with a married woman in an open relationship

It's very controversial but I genuinely want to know if a guy sleeps with a prostitute, porn star or married woman with an open marriage is it a deal breaker?

i'm 20 and i've never been in a relationship.

not because i never wanted one, but because i've never been able to convince myself to settle for something that didn't feel genuine. i've had crushes, i've wondered "what if," but i've always been the type to overthink rather than jump into something just because everyone else was...I usually consider myself as a man hater but little did I know I'm just a softie with a heavy heart and a overthinking mind

i guess i've always believed that if i ever date someone, i want it to be with intention. i don't really care about showing a relationship off online or making it my entire personality. i'd rather have something that's quiet, honest, and ours.

i'm definitely more of a listener than a talker at first, but once i'm comfortable, i can talk for hours. i love rom com movies, beach sunsets, long rides , random late-night conversations, and spending way too much time with knowing each other and building a bond which is real ...

i appreciate people who are kind, emotionally mature, funny without trying too hard, and who know how to communicate. loyalty is probably the most attractive quality someone can have. And yh I like ppl around my age like 20,21,22 or 23 ...it's kinda hard having conversations with ppl who are older than that cause idk what to talk ... so obviously I can't date someone whose more than 4 yrs older than me cause it would be awkward for me ..

i'm not really looking for perfection..i only look for the height when it comes to looks cause all my family members are tall . i just think it'd be nice to meet someone who feels safe to be around. someone who makes ordinary days a little more exciting and understands that the best relationships are built on friendship first.

if you relate to any of this, i'd genuinely love to hear your perspective. tell me something about yourself anything, really.

new to Reddit

just looking for guys around my age online only

Looking for something online only
I’m 23 and a student so nothing much other than that I’ve got nothing much going on for me 😅
I like my pets too

32F looking for +30M ideally for long term arrangement

Hey everyone!
I’m Henry, a Sri lankan who spent nearly 15 years in Malaysia and I’m back to Sri Lanka again. I currently don’t really have friends here. Yes i do have my cousins but most of them are in their 30s and young Gs are taking Drugs and stuff. What I’ve noticed here is drugs are common compared to Malaysia. So yeah, back to the topic, I’m looking for making up friends with anyone. The fact i gotta learn Sinhala as well, anyone free or interested please drop a Message to this young gentleman (Me). Love ya

Hey everyone,

I’m a 25F working in the tech sector, and I’m reaching a point where I’m genuinely curious about how people in our community are finding serious, long-term partners these days.

To be blunt, the usual routes aren't working out:

Dating Apps / Instagram: Completely dominated by hookup culture. It’s hard to find anyone looking for something serious or committed.

Traditional Kapuwas (Matchmakers): My family has tried this, and while the proposals usually come from good backgrounds, physical attraction just isn't there. For me, appearance and mutual attraction are important baselines to even move forward.

The pool feels incredibly small. It feels like most guys I find attractive and compatible are either already taken, married, or just looking for casual setups.

My criteria isn't crazy complex: I just want to find a good-looking guy, ideally between 27–32, who is also in the tech industry (or at least understands the lifestyle/mindset).

I'm considering looking into modern matrimonial sites like Poruwa.lk, or even traditional Sunday newspaper ads, or speed dating events if those are a thing here.

For those who found their person:

1. Did you meet through social media, corporate networks, or matrimonial platforms?

2. Has anyone actually tried Poruwa.lk? Is it worth it for younger professionals, or is it mostly handled by parents?

3. Are traditional Sunday paper proposals still a viable option for our generation, or is it outdated?

Would love to hear your experiences, success stories, or even just some solid advice. Thanks!

Im bored at work and need buddies to chat with. share the boredom together lol. I generally prefer older guys. but im down to chat with anyone in the same boat as me.

I saw a girl in my course .looks like very introvert or shy don't talk with anyone. Sit in front of my row and she's only one in that bench .No idea how to start to talk with her any advice?

Let's talk

Hey there ! I'm a muslim girl and looking to make friends. We can chat about hobbies, food, movies or anything haha.

Just looking to have some virtual anonymous friends !

Hey everyone,

​I’m a 27-year-old guy, average build, working in the healthcare field. Due to a busy schedule, I'm looking for a strictly online, low-pressure, and anonymous connection with a female friend.

​Ideally, I'm looking for a mix of daily life sharing and casual intimacy. We can vent about our days and share memes, but also dive into flirting, sexting, and an online FWB dynamic once we build some comfort and mutual chemistry. No strings attached, no pressure, and complete privacy guaranteed.

Looking for man in their 20s for an online chat connection. Someone who’s not a dry texter, enjoys random conversations, and can keep the vibe going. No pressure and no need to get into private life

I know that there are so many girls checking on these post and I really want to know what you are thinking about them?? Love to know if you are like to talk to these men here or never want to talk??

Just be real here ladies ....

Looking for a girl who's interested in tech, science, space and systems thinking or in the design side. Who can share a vision and build it together.

I'm in tech and basically looking for someone who understands the industry. I've been learning and grinding in my 20s. Haven't been in a relationship because how everything was. There is not much time to allocate if they are in a completely different plain

The above description is messy and raw and I'm not going to correct it, on purpose 😅.