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Help with training at home

Hey guys ,recently i bought the pull up bar to start training at home but I don't know where to start from now (should I just do back and abs or there is other exercises techniques to target different muscles groups using the bar)

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u/HollowStatic69 — 8 hours ago
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feel a bit left out

Before we start, I want to say, I’m very grateful for my results. Alhumdullilah, my family and everyone else is also, but I just don’t want to fall in the na shukra pan wala cycle, but I still want to validate my feelings and exist.

I got an A in Islamiyat and a B in Urdu First Language in these CAIEs.

Islamiyat:
B to A to A to A* (concluded O1 with an A)
A to B to A (concluded with a B in O2)
CAIEs: A

U to A to U to B (concluded with a C in O1)
D to B to B (concluded with a C in O2)
Ended up with a B in CAIEs

This was my school exam trajectory, from O1 till O2.

When I found out that some of my ex friends ended up with straight As/A*s whilst here I was, who ended up with this… I don’t know honestly.

Like good for them mA, but idk I just don’t want to be ungrateful, or cause resentment because alhumdullilah Allah gave them their desired but that Urdu A threshold was especially very crappy with A being at 87 and B at 80, and I haven’t gotten a hold of my scripts yet, but I swear to God if its only one or two marks for both subjects, I’ll lose it.

I know this comparison isn’t fair but those people were also balancing three subs. I’m not a academic star, I have failed a lot, I didn’t get a single A except that one in O2 in Islamiyat, rest B C D U

I don’t know 😭😭😭😭😭😭

ya Allah forgive me 💔

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u/presmos — 9 hours ago
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I want to leave

I weirdly want to leave. I want to leave from all social media and disappear and live a quiet life. But if I leave from everywhere, then how will I help people? Like is it possible to live without social media and that sort of validation?

Like I know I can do good, but these doubts come a lot every month.

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u/presmos — 11 hours ago
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The more I try, the more I fail.

Try and try, yet fail always.

When will the symphony rise?

When will I be able to taste absolute triumph or that my shortcomings will follow me for life?

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u/presmos — 11 hours ago
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Need advice on a confusing relationship

Need advice on a confusing relationship

I’m a 17F and I’ve been in a relationship with a 19M who is also a close relative. We first got together when I was 14, but I ended things about a year later because his family and mindset were pretty different from mine.

A couple years later, when I was 16, he randomly saw me somewhere and reached out again, and we got back together. Over time, he found out more about my past, and it really hurt him. Since then, he’s started seeing me in a negative way and constantly compares me to other girls, saying they’re better than me. He also says he doesn’t feel that “special connection” with me anymore like he used to.

We’ve broken up and gotten back together SO many times. Either he comes back or I convince him to give it another chance. But now it feels like neither of us has the same feelings anymore.

The weird part is that whenever we’re apart, we miss each other and end up coming back. But as soon as we’re together again, it’s the same exhausting, frustrating cycle. We don’t even feel happy or excited to be together anymore.

So I’m genuinely confused. Is this just a normal phase in relationships, especially since we’re long-distance, or does this sound like a relationship that has simply run its course?

Should we actually let each other go, or is there something worth trying before ending things for good? I’d really appreciate some honest advice, especially from people who’ve been through something similar.

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u/Sorry-Sprinkles-6702 — 20 hours ago
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The Value Of Distance.

Things that are far from us, beyond our reach,

are often admired by us

like a fantasy that seems unrealistic or almost magical.

But the moment we finally attain them, they no longer hold the same value they once did.

Suppose there is a person who is physically and mentally fit, has all the luxuries one could possibly imagine and is enjoying life to the fullest. But one day, he gets into an accident that completely changes his life. His health is severely affected and he becomes unable to walk. Suddenly, he realizes the true value of something as simple as walking. He can no longer do things on his own, take care of his personal needs or even help himself without depending on someone else.

And then he turns to Allah. He prays day and night, asking Him to relieve him of his suffering. He keeps praying every second, hoping that one day his prayers will be answered. But sometimes, a point comes in life when it is no longer possible to regain what has been lost.

That is when a person realizes the value of the blessings they once took for granted.

u/unknowinglypsychooo — 1 day ago
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The Human Paradox.

Translation: “Then suddenly… an existential crisis.”

Questioning existence.

Questioning its purpose.

The “Who am I?” question.

And knowingly putting ourselves into situations that cause problems for us, even though we could have simply lived, adapted, and focused on the things that could make our lives more meaningful.

But we humans are never truly satisfied with any situation. Our desires can never be completely fulfilled and even when they are we still somehow struggle to be happy.

Suppose there is a child who is rich and has all the luxuries one could possibly think of. Everything is just a step away. They only have to ask and their wishes are fulfilled. But they have constant differences with their family. They can't talk to their parents the way they should because their parents are abusive and never treat them the way they deserve to be treated.

That child feels alone and longs for a family that actually feels like a family; where there is love, care, warmth and even arguments, because what family doesn't have disagreements? Just not the kind that can shatter a person.

Now imagine another child who doesn't have those luxuries. They may not even have a proper home or a roof over their head, but they have a good and healthy relationship with their parents. They love and care for one another, and there is happiness within their family.

In one situation, the first child longs for a loving and understanding family, while the second child longs for enough money to simply live a decent life.

We can't say that one of them is living the perfect life. Both are facing problems; problems that may be unseen by the other person or may not even be considered a problem by them. But that doesn't make those struggles any less real.

Everyone has their own battles, even when we can't see them.

So, live your life to the fullest. Appreciate what you have, because somewhere, someone might be dreaming of the life you're living.

(Yes yes I know again but it's the last time).

u/unknowinglypsychooo — 1 day ago
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Girl advice help

Advice on what to dooo🥺

HELLOOO. This is my first time posting on reddit so idrk. Anyhow, I need some advice dead ass. I am 15 years old and this is kinda cliche. BUT I really do like this one girl so soo soooo much, whenever I think of her I smile. Basically I need some advice on how to approach her. It's genuinely been like 5 months of us staring at each other to the point where it just seemed like we talked through our eyes. We have stared at each other for good 2 or 3 seconds which is alot for direct eye contact even so I think the feelings are mutual idrk I definitely have them. I really want to go to her and get to know her. We live in different towns but my family lives in the town she lives in so I come there very often. She hangs out with her friends mostly so I haven't really gotten a chance to go up to her and start a conversation. Thing is I am scared too. This is a big thing for me like this has never happened to me before like falling so hard for someone. One time I did see her alone but I actually froze in spot and I got so awkward I left but I look back at it and hate myself for it. Thing is she's really pretty and cool so I'm worried someone else might "strike" before me. Just need some advice from everyone on what to do and how to do it and what to do if it happens. Like I know to say hello hi and shi and all the motivation of be yourself but I feel like there's more to this. I really don't want to fumble this up 😭.

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u/Haadi_Bukhari420 — 2 days ago
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The Human Paradox

Translation: "Then suddenly… an existential crisis."

Questioning existence.

Questioning its purpose.

The “Who am I?” question.

And knowingly putting ourselves into situations that cause problems for us, even though we could have simply lived, adapted and focused on the things that could make our lives more meaningful.

But we humans are never truly "satisfied" with any situation. Our desires can never be completely fulfilled, and even when they are we still somehow struggle to be happy.

Suppose there is a child who is rich and has all the luxuries one could possibly think of. Everything is just a step away. They only have to ask and their wishes are fulfilled. But they have constant differences with their family. They can't talk to their parents the way they should because their parents are abusive and never treat them the way they deserve to be treated. That child feels alone and longs for a family that actually feels like a family where there is love, care, warmth and even arguments, because what family doesn't have disagreements? Just not the kind that can shatter a person.

Now another child who doesn't have those luxuries. They may not even have a proper home or a roof over their head but they have a good and healthy relationship with their parents. They love and care for one another and there is happiness within their family.

In one situation, the first child longs for a loving and understanding family while the second child longs for enough money to simply live a decent life.

We can't say that one of them is living the perfect life. Both are facing problems; problems that may be unseen by the other person or may not even be considered a problem by them. But that doesn't make those struggles any less real.

Everyone has their own battles even when we can't see them.

So, live your life to the fullest. Appreciate what you have, because somewhere, someone might be dreaming of the life you're living.

u/unknowinglypsychoo — 3 days ago