r/TwoParentsAndAPawn

So I just listened to their podcast episode from Friday where they talk about their “buckets” and how they split duties. Alex admitted that for instance when she’s breastfeeding, Harrison does morning and night duty with the kids. This is INSANE to me. I breastfed for a year so I understand how much work it really is but how is she not nursing before bed or in the mornings? Maybe she does it differently than my friends or myself but I always breastfed before bed and then in the morning when my son would wake up… like I swear she just pumps when she feels like it and tells Harrison how hard it is. Again, I know pumping does take a toll but not waking up with the kids or doing bedtime because of it is ASININE!

Just saw her instagram reel “what’s up!!!!!!!” answers. Someone had said “struggling mentally and I’m 5 months postpartum…why?” And she has the AUDACITY to say

“…like last week I had no energy. I was sleeping 12 HOURS a night...”

Does she realize how out of touch she is? And how privileged to have all this help? 12 hours a night with a 5 month old and a 2 year old and you’re complaining about how hard things are??? You spend 4 hours a day with your kids be for real.

Just had to vent about that 😂

I saw a clip from the podcast where they said Tate got a leotard and tutu from someone and wore it to dance and was so proud of it. Alex said everyone else in class always wears them, but Alex just hadn’t gotten around to buying them for Tate. Why? I can’t imagine sending my baby to a class where everyone is dressed appropriately except for her. How hard would it be to order her something? We know they are constantly spending money on themselves.

Alex’s last two tik toks are a pick an outfit for her date night with Harrison and then them road tripping with Diana (the night nanny turned travel / daytime nanny?) truly wild how little time these two spend with their own kids ALONE. Can’t even go out of town without a third adult. I wonder if Alex weaponizes the mental health “bucket” and that’s how they justify having a nanny so they can have their little dates. HOW do they have fans!!

I only like her contributions lol. I’m kinda new to their world, did I hear her say she’s LGBT? Who is Zoey, her gf?