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A group of students started threatening to r*pe my mother and were already bullying me. They made a false narrative that I s*xually harassed a girl and they all mass reported me to the registrar Virender Sharma. They framed a perfect narrative that portrayed me as evil

I told my side of the story to Registrar Virender Sharma on how they threatened to rape my mother and hence I slurred at them. Instead the Registrar withdraws my admission without a proper hearing and does not even lift my calls nor reply tonny mails citing that I broke disciplinary violations.

Further the registrar alleged if I do not withdraw in my terms I will be trailed under POSCO act for s*xually Harrassing a minor girl and my fees confiscated. He made all these statements over whatsapp calls which couldnt be recorded and not provide any supporting evidence. In my end, I never made contact with minors.

So threatening to r*pe my mother isn't a disciplinary violation? Regardless of my will to speak to him, he is not lifting my calls. I hate this blatant behaviour. He must resign at any cost possible, if he protects the r*pe-mentality instigators that too being a registrar, the university is set to be doomed.

The vice-chancellor isn't intervening in this situation, he seems to be in an abroad destination as I called up his office directly.

My admission is officially cancelled on an unfair basis, my family especially my mother is facing great distress.The dignity of my mother matters more than my life. The registrar must resign or I must die.

already forwarded this to UGC anti-ragging cell, and registered a National Commission for Women complaint

This Is FLAME University, Pune.

Please show your support by mailing

registrar@flame.edu.in, Vc@flame.edu.in

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TL;DR: R*PE THREATS, PERPETRATORS PROTECTED, VICTIM FALSELY PUNISHED TO KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT.

I can tell with 100% certainty 99% of these kids believe exactly this.. That's the whole of their religion

Just because someone know English doesn't make him intelligent and cool.

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This country is beyond repair

RIP society and their mindset

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I’m confused about whether I should leave my boyfriend, and I genuinely want honest outside opinions rather than people automatically taking my side.

For the past couple of months, our relationship has become extremely conflict-heavy. I used to pick fights with him throughout the day, and then he would study during the night and sleep in morning and we'd end up fighting again at day It became a cycle, and eventually both of us became emotionally exhausted.

What makes me confused is that he wasn't always like this. He used to be a very calm and patient person, but after months of constant fighting, he became much more irritable and rude.he told me that if someone who is being going through like him for 6 months of fighting would have left me

We're both CA students. However, I never really studied properly or consistently, whereas he was extremely serious about his preparation and genuinely wanted to succeed. He's also an only child, so I think he feels a lot of pressure to build a successful career and make his family proud.

I understand that he had a lot of pressure, but I also wanted his attention and would sometimes start arguments when he was trying to study. Looking back, I can see how exhausting that must have been for him.

During arguments, he has sometimes used profanity, but I feel that it was often directed at the situation/frustration rather than specifically at me. For example, he once said, “Nhi baat krunga bc. Tumne saala dimag khrb kr diya hai koi understanding nhi hai.” I don't know whether I should consider this abusive or simply rude language used during heated arguments.

At the same time, I know I've made mistakes too. I've hurt him as well, and I don't want to make this sound like everything is his fault.

The biggest issue is that now I feel emotionally numb. Sometimes I genuinely feel like I don't love him anymore. Other times I wonder whether I'm simply emotionally exhausted after months of constant fighting.

I've thought about leaving, but then I remember how he used to be, everything we've been through, and everything he's done for me, and I start questioning myself.

Would you leave in this situation? Do you think I've fallen out of love, or could this just be emotional exhaustion from the constant conflict? Can someone become this different because of relationship stress, or is this a sign that the relationship itself has become unhealthy?You can phrase that part more neutrally:

This topic made me look little subtler that what makes a human being blind to see another human being; no baby is born brutal isn't it ; there is a kind of normalised environment, gender based norms, the differences , rituals around men and women , whole idea of what a women is based on history we see a lot of cases, dowry death , marital rape , and what not !

All this doesn't stop , infact we see it's increasing day by day and that means the diagnosis , the root of the disease is unseen till date .

Only question is are we willing to see through what it really is ?

Man I am a boy, and I took 1 hours to shave off all of my body hair, man tf it's so hard, body remove cream are scam man