u/YourCuteStarBoyyy

So I am gonna share a lil bout my story,which I have posted before,but yeah just a mindset change,so I was fat before,which is unrelated,but I went on an aggressive cut and received many compliments,but yeah I was frequently called a "femboy" and "gay",so Obv out of curiousity i researched about the femboy word,and basically it was like when boys wear feminine clothes,so i discussed and confronted my friends(not the bullies),about how they perceives them,and for them it wasn't offending or anything,they found it endearing,and my mindset actually changed,i don't want to have toxic masculinity,i actually have tried on feminine clothes after that(skirts and all coz I have two older sisters and they are pretty cool with it),not like I am a femboy,but I have no problem in wearing that clothes,coz at the end it's just clothes,enjoy the moment, that's all I wanted to say,period...( And guys please this is not a fetish thing, it's for pure enjoyment),you should try it as well

So I am gonna share a lil bout my story,which I have posted before,but yeah just a mindset change,so I was fat before,which is unrelated,but I went on an aggressive cut and received many compliments,but yeah I was frequently called a "femboy" and "gay",so Obv out of curiousity i researched about the femboy word,and basically it was like when boys wear feminine clothes,so i discussed and confronted my friends(not the bullies),about how they perceives them,and for them it wasn't offending or anything,they found it endearing,and my mindset actually changed,i don't want to have toxic masculinity,i actually have tried on feminine clothes after that(skirts and all coz I have two older sisters and they are pretty cool with it),not like I am a femboy,but I have no problem in wearing that clothes,coz at the end it's just clothes,enjoy the moment, that's all I wanted to say,period...( And guys please this is not a fetish thing, it's for pure enjoyment),you should try it as well

I just want to know your thoughts on this.

I've often heard people say that parents should simply be happy whether they have a boy or a girl. I understand that perspective, but I wanted to ask: is it really wrong to have a preference?

Personally, I don't think having a preference is necessarily a bad thing, as long as it doesn't affect how you love or treat your child. I've seen many people say they'd love to have a baby girl, while others dream of having a baby boy.

What's your opinion on this?

I have two older sisters, and I hate seeing them eat last. I always want to help in the kitchen—whether it's cutting vegetables, cooking, or serving food. My grandmother doesn't let me cook, but she does let me cut the vegetables because I'm actually better at it than everyone else.

The frustrating part is that whenever I'm in the kitchen helping, I keep hearing, "Are you a girl?" What's wrong with helping your own family? And the people saying this aren't even men—they're women.

If I say I'll serve food to everyone first, they refuse. If I don't eat before them, they won't eat either. I've heard "Are you a girl?" so many times just because I want to do household work, and it's honestly infuriating. Helping your family shouldn't be treated like it's tied to your gender.

I posted here coz girls only sub pe to remove krdege posts, god knows why r the mods actually mods there)

I am 17 and I am already in my 2nd yr of college now, I have missed my 2 weeks already, and I don't really wanna go to college, I am scared idk why, I feel I don't deserve happiness,I have not did anything remarkable after class 10th that will make my parents proud, moreover I am scared of bullying, in school I was fat and was bullied severely, and now in college, I did some aggressive cut, and I somehow looked good to me, but then in my college I was called names, most common were "femboy" and "gay", personally i don't feel being a femboy and gay is wrong, but them calling me that hurts me, i don't really wanna go to college, i want to be in my sweet home, I have gapryong kim as my pfp, a character from the manhwa "lookism" because I think I can and will save the world. Ik it sounds childish but I think I can influence the world, if I set my mind to it, but but but again, i don't wanna go to college, sorry for the rant, but writing while crying feels so comfortable, ik no one will see it coz ig my accnt is shadow banned or somewhat ig, but I really feel comfortable here alone

I am 17 and I am already in my 2nd yr of college now, I have missed my 2 weeks already, and I don't really wanna go to college, I am scared idk why, I feel I don't deserve happiness,I have not did anything remarkable after class 10th that will make my parents proud, moreover I am scared of bullying, in school I was fat and was bullied severely, and now in college, I did some aggressive cut, and I somehow looked good to me, but then in my college I was called names, most common were "femboy" and "gay", personally i don't feel being a femboy and gay is wrong, but them calling me that hurts me, i don't really wanna go to college, i want to be in my sweet home, I have gapryong kim as my pfp, a character from the manhwa "lookism" because I think I can and will save the world. Ik it sounds childish but I think I can influence the world, if I set my mind to it, but but but again, i don't wanna go to college, sorry for the rant, but writing while crying feels so comfortable, ik no one will see it coz ig my accnt is shadow banned or somewhat ig, but I really feel comfortable here alone

I am 17 and I am already in my 2nd yr of college now, I have missed my 2 weeks already, and I don't really wanna go to college, I am scared idk why, I feel I don't deserve happiness,I have not did anything remarkable after class 10th that will make my parents proud, moreover I am scared of bullying, in school I was fat and was bullied severely, and now in college, I did some aggressive cut, and I somehow looked good to me, but then in my college I was called names, most common were "femboy" and "gay", personally i don't feel being a femboy and gay is wrong, but them calling me that hurts me, i don't really wanna go to college, i want to be in my sweet home, I have gapryong kim as my pfp, a character from the manhwa "lookism" because I think I can and will save the world. Ik it sounds childish but I think I can influence the world, if I set my mind to it, but but but again, i don't wanna go to college, sorry for the rant, but writing while crying feels so comfortable, ik no one will see it coz ig my accnt is shadow banned or somewhat ig, but I really feel comfortable here alone

So in the recent 6 months, I went through a crazy weight loss, one things that's frequently been into my ears is that i look like a f.mboy be it offline or online, and now to be clear, i don't have any kinda fetish or anything, I really am neutral about it and I don't care bout it if I look like that or not,(ik f.mboys r those who wear girl clothes which i definitely not but idk why they call me that,not that anything is wrong with it tho) but I am curious how are f.mboys viewed in our society, and what does one think when they say you look like a f.mboy?? Both from the boys and girls pov??

https://preview.redd.it/u4tntfino6fh1.png?width=713&format=png&auto=webp&s=f05a7b9a6c63f59200ca7fba6de8fa354f2c93f5

Like i posted something related to wearing choker in college on teen india,it feels like they r literally bullying,isn't it just a fashion accessory??Why am i feeling ragebaited....

big fan of regression manhwa with plot like "Devil Returns to High School Days" and "Medical Returns",do suggest ,i m craving that shit

Yesterday evening, I went out for my usual 1.5 to 2-hour run. Because I recently moved to a new state and don't know the area well yet, my family was already on edge about me being out late.

As I was heading back, my older sister called her phone—which I had borrowed to listen to music—and demanded I come home immediately in a really harsh tone. When I got back, my mom was in tears from worrying about me running in the dark, and my sister immediately started scolding me.

Usually, I just keep quiet because she’s a martial artist and things can escalate quickly. But yesterday, I finally snapped a bit and told her, "I will talk to mom, you shouldn't be lecturing me." That completely set her off. Her tone got even worse, and she ended up physically beating me. The entire situation shifted from them being worried about my safety to her just taking her anger out on me. As usual, I ended up crying and apologizing to both of them just to make it stop.

It honestly felt really traumatizing, especially on top of the stress of being in a new place.

Yesterday evening, I went out for my usual 1.5 to 2-hour run. Because I recently moved to a new state and don't know the area well yet, my family was already on edge about me being out late.

As I was heading back, my older sister called her phone—which I had borrowed to listen to music—and demanded I come home immediately in a really harsh tone. When I got back, my mom was in tears from worrying about me running in the dark, and my sister immediately started scolding me.

Usually, I just keep quiet because she’s a martial artist and things can escalate quickly. But yesterday, I finally snapped a bit and told her, "I will talk to mom, you shouldn't be lecturing me." That completely set her off. Her tone got even worse, and she ended up physically beating me. The entire situation shifted from them being worried about my safety to her just taking her anger out on me. As usual, I ended up crying and apologizing to both of them just to make it stop.

It honestly felt really traumatizing, especially on top of the stress of being in a new place.
hr bar mai hi maar khata hu,mere dost to maarte h,pta ni m hi kmjor reh gya

Guys don't be around negative people ever,who puts blame on you,treats you like a dog,always leave you alone,make you a clown in front of others,i was a fatty so i was treated like one,and i absolutely hated it,never be insecure and have unreal self belief than you can do anything and please never ever give up dude,only one life you have there soo make full use of it

Guys don't be around negative people ever,who puts blame on you,treats you like a dog,always leave you alone,make you a clown in front of others,i was a fatty so i was treated like one,and i absolutely hated it,never be insecure and have unreal self belief than you can do anything and please never ever give up dude,only one life you have there soo make full use of it

Guys don't be around negative people ever,who puts blame on you,treats you like a dog,always leave you alone,make you a clown in front of others,i was a fatty so i was treated like one,and i absolutely hated it,never be insecure and have unreal self belief than you can do anything and please never ever give up dude,only one life you have there soo make full use of it