I spent a week trying self-promotion and cold DM. But complete failure.Here's what I did wrong
I spend at least one week trying to find first users or our upcoming product through cold DMs and self promotion, but it didn't work well. Here’s what I did wrong and what I learned from it.
- As a newcomer on reddit, I did first comment actively on relevant topics like other suggested. But I am too eager to get noticed, so most of my commtents were just emotional suppot, not detaild or genuinely useful thoughts. I Iearned that useful comment matters much than just emotional support .
- I also posted introductions of our product related to pain point and beta invitations, but almost one one saw it. What did i wrong ? I think it was maily a trust problem. There are lots of new products popping up every day. Why people try your products before konwing who you are and how you built the products.
Also, I relied too much on AI to help my polish posts. I cared too much on perfection, while ingorning the genuine story and real thought. I think most people can feel it.
So I learned that before gaining attention, we should build trust first. Share your thoughs detaily and genuinely. It 's important to konw how to tell a real story in the AI era. - I know that DMing those who have the paint point is more efficient than posting to a huge audience. So I started finding the targeted users in some related posts and trying to understand what they are compalning about in the first week. Then I send DMs inviting beta test or telling them that our product might help them . But no one replied to me. Maybe they thought it was spam.
Then I realized maybe the order was wrong. Maybe trust should come fisrt. Before sending a DM, maybe I shoulds join the convetstation naturaly on their post or comment to build familarity and trust.
Overall, I think trust is very very important in the cold start stage. It takes much more patience and time than I expected. Only have we built trust, people will listen to what we are building.
These are some reflections from past week. Maybe it sounds a bit stupid, but I hope it might be useful for other newcomers in the colde start stage.
Thanks for listening to my long story!
Have you experienced something similar? Happy to hear what worked (or failed) for you in the cold start stage.