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Pilan Anku's ' Adaptive Immunity ' 'healing code '

I want to begin to describe what it means to be a true healer. A real healer is a person who embodies and practices love and light. A healer is someone anyone can go to, and that person will be able to treat that person,regardless of race or ethnicity, with no judgment or biasy. The energy and vibration of love and acceptance resonates from healers, the same as intolerance and biasy. Even the intentions they use making herbal formulas should be one of purity. No one is going to feel good taking something that feels discriminatory on the very label that there is a risk for the shunned group if taken. People suffering would rather take something made from love from a higher resonating , free from hatred person. You don't go somewhere or ask for help from someone who you feel threatened by vibes of intolerance or like your unwanted,unwelcomed. And products may not work for all if the person making them has that kind of hatred, biasy,or animosity in them...

It is enough as it is on how mentally damaging and depressing this virus already is, besides the countless people who claim to be "healers" and scam the desperate. The situation has already caused me great insanity, and I was given to this by a man who continually chose other women, women who were casual with sex, whereas I hardly had many partners in life,never experienced a real love, and already feel majorly ripped off in that aspect,that very sacred and special aspect that makes life less of a cold place than facing it alone and vulnerable.

I went into this healing journey with open arms,ready to try anything to rid this thing. I traveled alone to Grenada and spent big money on a scammer named Courtney (another false healer,who after i tried getting my money back when things got shady and didn't add up,actually had the audacity and balls to threaten me, all the while, she was fucking trying to scam!! Like the narcissistic fake she was ,with words of malice and spite)I believe this dumb b**ch also knew the autistic "doctor" ( who i investigated was a massage therapist) who did metatron treatments and didn't seem to like me for no reason other than being myself or who knows,for being the only white person there, let's be honest..now that I recall certain instances.. on some pseudo science machine (you can find for cheap on ali baba)that did nothing but cause anxiety to see if my "number" made it to " clearing the virus." What a bunch of utter bull shit.

Thank god I got my 200.00 In cash back from her after telling her she never took me to the 1st consult with the fake "doctor" who seriously seemed autistic or learning disabled,which was included in the payment I gave her prior to the trip,which she never took me to...and stopped the afirm payments that kept charging me long after the treatment that not only didnt work for me but didnt work for ANY of the people I met there going for the same thing

They claimed this treatment, along with the detox, would get rid of the virus, guaranteed. Dragging the sick to another country promising freedom from a demonic virus. Saying things like, "i wouldn't have people get tickets and travel this far if it weren't true and the treatment weren't successful. He has cured so many things, from herpes to autism, " blahblah bs. This "doctor" ,that is what she called him.. even though he was a massage therapist lmao .also didn't like to be contacted,a dead giveaway of a scammer..they dont want to be bothered once they get your money or service and dont want to respond to if things arent progressing or even simple questions on what to do ,etc I am always courageous but feel like an outcast no matter what,which has been a major theme in my life.

I've tried it all. Goddess, healingoil co,naturalherpescure.org that followed Dr.Sebi's way..etc. I saw this man's reels on Facebook or Instagram and thought the product looked legit since he was one of the only people describing that in order to cleanse hsv,one has to take something nano sized and in lipid formula to get into the nerve plexus etc where hsv hides and everyone is scammers etc,if the igg doesn't fall its a scam. I agree with his theory that whatever you take to try and clear hsv has to be lipid formulated and nano sized in order to pass the blood brain barrier and somehow get to the neucleus where hsv resides in,that is why I was enticed by his product and knew all along whatever I take,has to be something similar.

So,I booked a consult w him

A video consult. I felt he made sense, but I could see he jumped back as if surprised when he saw me. That was just weird,as if he wasn't used to consulting with people like me.The video consult was expensive ..$250 . But I optimistically bought all the stuff required..I received my products in the mail,and immediately saw the waiver of liability, "these indigenous herbs are only meant to treat indigenous and tribal peoples" i got a little weirded out and jaded, even scared some kind of harmful side effect might happen if people like me aren't meant to be treated with this product.

The very definition of a waiver of liability is this: " liability waiver is a  legal document that a person who participates in an activity may sign to acknowledge the risks involved in their participation. waiver of liability is a legal contract where an individual acknowledges the risks of a product and agrees not to sue the provider. For products restricted to specific demographics, it legally protects manufacturers if someone outside the intended group uses it or experiences adverse reactions"

I am Caucasian,mostly Balkan,and yes,I did test my dna, and yes,I also tested my raw dna on an ancient tribes site just to find out what actual tribal people I come from after this fucked up situation that motivated me to find out my background and see whether i had any "indigenous and tribal peoples" in me so i could be "included" in this very knclusice amd secluded lil program. The ancient tribes that were shown on my report proved that mainly I am Illyrian. And I am extremely proud of that. Some of the bravest,fiercest warriors of the Balkans. The original people of the Balkans. That is where I get my fighting spirit and courage. I am actually grateful to that discriminatory liability label because i found out who I really am,and how i come from a very resilient people.Three different branches of rribes from the Illyrian Paleo-Balkan tribe in fact.. along with other Indo-European tribes and some Germanic tribes,all extremely ancient peoples from a very conflicted area of the world on the Adriatic coast of southeastern Europe. In fact, that specific area and island has a lot of dark traumatic history of nations trying to control and conquer the people,looking down on them as peasants,even during the Ottoman empire days,taking them as slaves, and later on under venetian republic control,forcing them to even change their names and assimilate and the people overcoming and fighting for their identity. Fighting for respect. True survivors and the real Phoenixes leaving their legacy in the Balkans. And here I am,a descendant of the very same Indo-European tribal people who fought for their identity and worth,going through the exact same thing.but it doesn't matter.. they are still European tribes where I have dna. I refuse to be treated as unworthy,as the outcast, when i am a rarity in a world of cowards and fakes. Also,i noticed his reels mostly talk about African or native people's body composition or certain ways of eating that benefit only them, etc, and are different from Europeans.

I am so sick of society and all of this dangerous,hurtful,toxic shit this fucked up situation has subjected me to. It has shown me the ugly side of the world and people. This entire situation forced me into a very vulnerable position where I refuse to be anymore . It caused me to lose money, raise my liver enzymes to dangerous levels, become malnourished due to only fruit/vegetable diet months on end, as well as injest mms that severely injured my stomach for more than a year where i drove myself to the e.r many times (bleach advised by lunatic extremist people in groups promoting that poison as a "cure all" )My ex put me in a horrible situation...yet he is the biggest scammer of them all. I no longer trust anyone. That is what this situation taught me. I am so done with this situation. I am burned out and done even talking to people about hsv in general. Life is not meant to be lived like this . We could die tomorrow.... All the overboard protocols that pose risk to one's body,the expensive products and supplements..the lying,selfish scammers taking advantage of a horrible situation. It all makes me physically ill. I have suffered greatly because of this virus.

This entire thing has made me lose part of my sanity. It is so sad

I have no problem with other people, but I felt almost worried about taking the product and as if it already wouldn't be successful since it literally was in writing that it was not meant to be taken by people like me. It even said "waiver of liability "on the very fucking bottle and business card included in the package it came in.

I felt hurt,confused, and more alone in this entire situation brought on by betrayal..as if things couldn't have been more isolated. I was given a consult that was expensive and bought expensive products I had no idea had a "waiver of liability" that were in writing I had to look at on the bottle and that I was supposed to take day In and day out that read in typed out lettering it wasn't meant for people like me. I had no idea I was buying products that would later warn me that they posed a risk if taken by people like me The whole thing, to me, is very unprofessional and racist.

I had at one time sent him some photos of the notes I took during the consult, and he seemed to scream at me through a text and replied, "dont send me all that through my phone. Send me an email, " but the thing is,I had, and he never responded

He would also take days to reply to questions.

I later, through someone I know in this battle, received a text with another person's experience with this man and how rude he is,how he swears at clients,doesn't reply to texts and ...that the products don't work. Another friend is on his program, and his program is very intense . Their igg didn't budge, and they still experience outbreaks.

Like I said,I didn't take his stuff or do the program because that waiver of liability struck a nerve and rubbed me the wrong way. It seemed to have some weight on it I didn't like, and I put it in my refrigerator.

Oh I forgot, he had done jail time in the past for smuggling Marijuana across states when it was illegal Lol

This entire long drawn out post is entirely true and not my imagination. I can sense people's intentions and energy/vibes by what they do or say. This situation made me a pro at that,at least.

This is a very serious topic. These biased scammers are ripping off already struggling, severely depressed people for a lot of money. We come into this with hope,it is the only thing we are grasping onto with a sliver of a string that prevents the heaviness this virus causes, every day i wake up and realize im still being punished for trusting a snake and when we go to people with ill intentions or ugly views, actual and literal "snake oil salesmen" It's enough to push anyone to the edge. We have already been thru way too much.

It is all so gross and disgusting to me. From how I contacted this to what I've had to do and subject myself to to try to cure it and rid the constant painful symptoms. The whole thing is demeaning,shameful,and I was too sweet and innocent to realize how ugly and fake not only the person who did this to me and put me in this messed up spot was,but also the people I tried to turn to i thought would or could genuinely help me were. Im done feeling like a weak injured animal with broken wings that people prey on. Taking it in my own hands now

I have already always been discriminated against by all kinds of people. No matter where I go. Always the outsider. Im just done and over with this entire thing.like I said,I'm jaded.

I want to know if anyone has had success because he seems to tell people this never happens to his clients, and he has cured 350 ppl in 3 years...

Summary: I want to know if anyone has been on "adaptive immunity " by Pilan Anku's healing code and if it has legit worked. I had high hopes bc he said it could pass into the nerves. The waiver of liability was very discriminatory towards people like me (it even said that it wasn't meant to treat ppl like me), and then I heard some haven't had success regardless. Also,his program calls for 1 day a week to only juice and consists of a weird elaborate routine.

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u/Even_Salamander_4202 — 7 hours ago

Need more friends

Hi! I need more POSITIVE friends !!! lol literally. I'm 22 and plus size.
I would prefer if you were under 30!!! sorry 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

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u/Lost_Ekitten — 22 hours ago

🌸HSV2🌸 - Let’s Be Friends And Support Each other 🫂

F/over35 Hey everyone, I recently tested positive for hsv2 and it sucks!🫩

🌸I am or was an outgoing person, always bringing great energy around others✨, loves music and having fun, whether it’s dancing in the mirror at home alone🤭 or grabbing a bite to eat or a drink every now and then. I don’t have many friends and was super excited to began opening up more and building new relationships with others.🤗
I recently left a long term relationship and was so excited for this new chapter in my life.

🥺Unfortunately, I met this guy recently and thought he was a great person to get to know. Anyways, I decided I’ll give it a shot and BOOM, he gave me this and I feel hopeless, alone, ashamed, embarrassed, geez! I can go on forever with how I am feeling.

✨I think what I need more than anything right now is to surround myself with others who are positive as well. This was not easy for me to do because I’m not really active with social media. 🌺If anyone is dealing with this and can offer their support, advice and suggestions or need support I’d really appreciate it and I’m here for you as well! 🙂 We can talk and hopefully become friends and get through this together with fun and laughter. I don’t mind HSV2 positive male friends, even though I am upset with you guys right now 😎

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u/UghhLif3nyc — 3 days ago

HSV2 and dating

I've had HSV2 for almost 2 years and I just wanna say that if you recently got it, don't be scared to live life to the fullest!!

I was scared too at first, I thought "omg this is the end! No one will ever love me" but honestly it hasn't been much of an issue when it comes to dating or just sex 🤷🏽‍♀️

Since I've had it, I've been able to play around with no issues, at first it is scary but I disclose upfront so I don't waste anyone's time, I also don't do anything when I have an OB, I also take meds daily for it to lower rate of transmission

Love and sex is possible after whether that person has herpes too or not

You're going to be ok, pls reach out if you need someone to talk to

I also take vitamins too daily for my immune system, A&E

Keeping your immune system strong really helps and also avoiding whatever it is that triggers your obs, if sex is a trigger, use lube, it honestly helps and also get on a daily represent too which will help reduce obs if you get them frequently in general or after having sex

XoxoxO

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u/ChimeyaGoddess — 2 days ago

Long story short

Hey, so I was diagnosed a year ago and I’ve been keeping it a secret from friends and family and trying to deal with it on my own.” I constantly spiral and fuss at myself in my head for days, maybe weeks at a time, for being so careless with my body. I’m 22 and in college, and people are so mean, so I decided I would just not like anyone ever again or until I at least get done with school, but I have always been in love with love. I know this boy well; I work with him, and we’ve started flirting and seeing each other outside of work. (Backstory: I would experience a Bartholin cyst and had never heard of HSV-2, but the cysts are super uncomfortable as well. I don’t even know when the symptoms started, so like a lot of people, I was completely blindsided. Also, before I found out, I hadn’t had sex with anyone in forever, so when I went to the doctor, I went for a UTI and got a call saying I have HSV-2.) Back to today the boy I’m talking to now is so sweet and I wanna tell him so bad but I’m scared people my age are cruel not saying he is but I just don’t know how I could ever trust someone with this information when I can barely look at myself. I haven’t had an outbreak in months and I’m having one right not it’s not painful but I know it’s there.The boy keeps trying to make advance and flirt and is trying to get to know me but I’m scared. The boy who I originally got this virus from didn’t even know he had it so I just feel like it’s even more my fault and I should’ve done better for myself. I’m having my first therapy session in a few days because I’m literally super fragile I cry at anything relating to love not because I love it but because I feel like it’s not a option for me anymore. I try to talk to my mom about it but she doesn’t get it and my friends keep telling me my diagnosis could be a mistake but I know it’s not. I just want my old life back .

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u/Green-Team3289 — 2 days ago

Woooooo

Posting again cause im bored!

39/Missouri

No hook ups, no emotionally unavailable men

Relationship seeking men only

u/Raptorfox86 — 3 days ago
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Looking for 22 or 23F

Looking for a roomie for co-living in Hongasandra, Bangalore

Hi everyone, I am looking for a clean, respectful roommate for a co-living setup in Hongasandra, Bangalore.

Details:

Location: Hongasandra

Type: Co-living / shared accommodation

Preferred person: neat, friendly, and respectful

Budget: 7500

Move-in date: 15/07/2026

Room type: [single/shared]

Amenities: [Wi-Fi, kitchen, washing machine, etc.]

I am looking for someone who keeps the place tidy and follows basic house rules. Serious replies only.

Please DM me if you are interested.

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u/GVK_007 — 2 days ago

32 F4M NO FWB- West coast

Looking for Man, 29-37 (strict age range), no kids, West coast only, kind, caring, communicates effectively, trust worthy, sturdy and who will treat me like a human who has value.

HSV2 G/O

u/OGRadkitty — 4 days ago

44m M4F in Los Angeles

I’ve posted on here before but I took it down after a day. I really would like to meet someone who was dating with intention out here.

u/Shhh_wasting_time — 3 days ago

Ladies beware

There’s an account on here that is pretending to be someone that he’s not and has messaged multiple women including myself and he pretends to be from the same state as you. Please be careful with sending pictures especially someone who is very persistent (not saying everyone has bad intentions) just be careful. If you get a message from ErrorGreen7613 please block him. If you are scared of being exposed please practice caution with who you interact with and please be smart.

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u/Water-lily-lilacs90 — 5 days ago

32F Houston

Hey! Single lady here, looking to meet future bae, 32f, single, no kids, great career, homeowner, athletic, love to travel. This diagnosis hasn’t changed my dating life much, but hey why not try it out on here as well. Message me 😌

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u/Remarkable_Bag74 — 5 days ago

Are there any people on here who are negative?

I was contemplating just posting a picture of myself and that I’m looking for women to talk to because I’m kind of sick of people just trying to get my pic to make sure I’m not their ex or whoever gave them HSV. I’ve sent my pic about 2 or 3 times and simply got left on delivered or read each time. It’s already frustrating enough having this, it kind of makes more annoying when people are pretending to be interested in the same thing as me only for them to completely flip the script.

I only want other people with my diagnosis seeing the post but I feel like there’s definitely people who are negative on here for whatever weird reason… 😩🫠

I’m in Az btw

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u/HSVmale1-2inPhx — 4 days ago

M4F High Sex Drive

Looking to find a female friend with high sex drive.
Preferably 3-5x per session.
I’m 6ft 225lb
Long hair
Facial hair
Tattoos
Some muscle
I’m told I have large penis

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u/MaDmaDron3 — 5 days ago