r/herpes_dating

I am a 26 f! If we start talking now we can watch doom and demon slayer together 🫶🏾

I am open to have conversations with anyone tbh I’m pretty open to long distance as well. I am new to anime so don’t judge me okay! Huge marvel fan and a big Disney fan so trips to Disney world is a must for me. Sundays are NFL days around here 🖤💛I’m looking for some genuine connections that could be friends outside of this app. I consider myself spontaneous and outgoing. I love traveling to new places and learning new things. I’m on the chubby side so if that’s not your preference then keep looking 💚

Will share pics and other socials if we connect!

Female friends welcome 🥰

The last post got taken down because the mod in the original page i posted in didn't like the fact i called out men for their creep behaviour under WLW posts

so here it is AGAIN

I've personally observed that the reddit HSV community is nothing but straight people and horny ass men.( Take it from me i'm talking from 3 yrs of experience here) NO one ever if rarely inquires about F4F/ WLW/ Lesbian women. Time and Time again i have posted spanning over 3 years over 5 different accts on these reddit pages. Every time a WLW post gains traction it's taken down because the Subreddits about herpes are filled w nothing but horny men( there needs to be A lesbians HSV reddit!! but every single time a Man always want to violate the space with their stupid ass question " hAvE yOu TrIeD mEn" even if no women reply and even if they do trying to defend the space, then the comments always end up being a dick measuring contest of who dated the most "Bi girls" like ugh can't there just be a lesbian space for once the last mod told me i was violating his guidline with this same post like make it make sense

I’m looking for a relationship ONLY & a man that is preferably 40+ that wants marriage & kids.. yes I would travel for the right man & relocate :)

honestly I’m in such a place of wanting to find my person; and be a wife and a mom. I do feel like being with someone who also has herpes is best. I have my degree, but I also want to be a stay at home wife and mom 🙏🏼 any advice welcome/dms are open ✨

I found out My ex bf gave me HSV 2 on May 15th
Ofc I dealt with my emotions around it and I have no
Problem disclosing it. Sometimes I do feel a stigma around it or me. I hesitate with who I share that part of me with. Ofc I disclose any information before going to second base lol. I just wish I had more people to talk to that understands what Im diagnosed with instead of trying to educate everybody about what it is and what it is not.
I feel like I cant have my fairytale ending because ofc I have herpes. I’m just ranting but I would love to talk to people who understands other than my therapist.

Last February as I walked into the gym I said to myself “you know what I don’t need a relationship. I’m good if I stay single forever.” During my workout, that same day-the most gorgeous/handsome man came up behind me while I was on an exercise mat. I could see in his face that he was thinking about talking to me. I was on my last set and I thought “should I just linger and see if he talks” then I thought “na I just said I’m not dating” and started getting up. As I was getting up he was trying to talk to me but I couldn’t hear what he was saying because I had headphones on.. he was gesturing towards the mat though. Maybe he saying “are you done here” I will never know. I left my glasses over there so I came back to get them and he was waving his hand near my face, hard to get my attention .. I took off my headphones and said “hmm?” He smiled , said hi and I said hi AND RAN! 💀💀💀😂 I think about that interaction and I regret it so much . I have not seen him since . I wish I could be more open to dating ..the idea of being loved is so nice but the reality of it has been nothing but painful and traumatic. I just thought I’d share my story. I don’t even think it’s the herpes alone that makes it feel like dating is impossible for me . I always felt unworthy or less than for so many other reasons. Since I’ve stopped drinking and smoking I find it hard to socialize. I’m an attractive girl but I’ve had a dark life and trying to reinvent myself and build myself up. So it’s ok that I missed this opportunity but I just wish I would’ve stayed and talked instead of running. Anybody else experience this ?

Looking for a date for Halloween
I have genital HSV2
I’m in Arcadia, California