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miwasae doodle

miwasae doodle

my partner recently got into the series so I had to celebrate a little by doodling them, will have more fanart to show soon :)

u/MaxAizawa — 5 days ago

Is Tamaki actually asexual or does she just have a very low sex drive ?

This has been something I’ve been wondering about since I read the manga. She tells Saeko that she does have a sex drive, at least a little one but then goes onto explain that she loves kissing and making out and stuff. She also talks about loving to see Miwas body and everything.

At first I had just assumed she just had a low sex drive because she talked about not wanting to have sex every single time she stayed with Miwa and Miwa was constantly pushing for sex which I can definitely see as very annoying since I’ve been in a very simalar situation with my ex.

When she blows up at Miwa, she just says “why is it always sex with you” or something like that which made me thing she was just tired of it constantly happening but then again, she never really seemed into it when they did have sex. She always got tired and stopped halfway through like it wasn’t enjoyable to her which makes me thing she’s probably asexual. She is the one who initiated things at first so she does get turned on I assume, but obviously that doesn’t equate to enjoying sex.

Then when she confronts Miwa about Miwa not inviting her over anymore she says “I only wanted to have a little less sex” which is most likely a lie but what if there was a little true to it? I feel like Miwa cutting off sex completely wasn’t the right move when they could’ve just discussed things together. I was so sure she just had a low sex drive until the final sex scene where she says something along the lines of “the more turned on she got, the more turned off I got” or something along those lines which made me think she’s asexual but I’m still wondering lol. Anyone else have any thoughts ?

Tamaki is my favorite character because I relate to her a lot. I have a very low sex drive and my ex partner (I’m a lesbian) always wanted to have sex, literally every single time we hung out, it always had to end with that and it felt like an obligation and I began to find it annoying and eventually hate it but I put up with it long enough until I eventually blew up like Tamaki did.

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u/hissymiker — 5 days ago

she blinked

first time trying whatever this is called 😭

im so tired i so tired im so tired im o tied im so tired im so tired im so tured im so tired im so tired i dont wanna go to uni i dont wanna take my exams i dont wanna do my lab experiments i dont wanna study i dont wanna talk to my parents i dont wanna do anything i dont wanna do anything at all

u/Kayosour — 6 days ago

Yet another appreciation post

Have you ever happened to be so invested in a media (Manga, Anime, whatever) that you just have to tell about it to someone, or you would explode?
That’s how it is, I just finished this manga, and holy moly if I enjoyed it! It raises quickly and easily to my to favorite works ever! I was so invested in the characters, and the story, the drawings, the topics were so good that I basically rushed the last 3-4 volumes because I couldn’t stop reading more and more!
I loved the balance between drama and fun, I went from joyful to miserable following our heroines’ ups and downs, and for once I felt so satisfied and fulfilled that I’m not even devastated by the fact that it’s over (well, I would have loved just a bunch of extra chapters, ngl, just to savor a bit more those sweet feelings, but that’s just me being greedy…). I can’t wait to let this sediment a bit on my soul and go back reading it once again (taking the due time for it instead of devouring it)
Well, that’s all, not adding any fruitful insight for the community, but I had to post this anyway!
If you have suggestions on how to live through the “post-HDWR”, please share, because I’m afraid this calmness I’m feeling is just a facade

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u/ivanhoe1024 — 5 days ago

Random doodles

i love hdwr so much idk about u but this is my entire life rn. i love miwa, i love saeko, i love tamaki, i love yuria, and i love this community. WHEN I TELL YALL IM GONNA GET A HDWR RELATED TATTOO WHEN IM OLDER, IMBEING FR. THATS THE LEAST I CAN DO SINCE I CANT INJECT IT INTO MY VEINS. my casket finna be HDWR themed, I SWEAR.

ive also wrote a bunch of analysis on yuria as an individual, tmfly’s portrayal of how and why relationship fails through Miwatama and Yurisae, and more, so if anyone’s interested i’d deffo post that too soon enough when i find the motivation zzzz

u/Kayosour — 8 days ago

Any thing happy in this series ????

I m like 76 chs deep and every page just makes me hold my head in pain and fear like holy fuck does this have happy parts or should i take a break ?

Edit: good lord this series is so fucking good, fucking sobbing rn, the character growth was so phenomenally done

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u/Pretty_Share_9727 — 8 days ago