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[IIL] movies like Her and Eternal Sunshine where the loneliness feels weirdly comforting, what else would i like?

Looking for movies that feel emotional, quiet, and a little melancholic without being completely depressing. I really like movies where the atmosphere and conversations stick with you after watching. Doesn't have to be romance only, just something with that late-night lonely vibe.

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u/thisonehits — 17 hours ago

[IIL] Low Place Like Home by Sneaker Pimps; Heaven is Wide by Garbage; Dissolved Girl by Massive Attack; Army of Me by Björk; Limbo by Kylie Minogue what else i would like?

Basically, I'm hooked on music with that 90s trip-hop vibe, with distorted guitars and electronic sounds. Like a mix of alternative rock and electronica? Female vocals and dark introspective lyrics. I don't know many recent songs in that style. I'm open to suggestions for songs in that vibe.

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u/leviskyy — 17 hours ago

IIL community, himym, raising hope, Brooklyn 99,. Or Adult cartoons like bojack, family guy, South Park etc any recommendations for anything alike?

preferably something that has more then 3-4 seasons I hated how abruptly raising hope ended, that's why I don't wanna start my name is earl because I heard it dies on a cliff hanger on season 4.

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u/kiidkief_ — 1 day ago

[IIL] Moment of truth by Gang Starr & Black Girl Lost by Nas, what else should i listen to?

unsure of how to describe it, but i think the best i can do is just that nostalgic, introspective feeling the beats of those two songs have. i dont really know of anything else like them to give examples unfortunately, however i'm mainly looking for things from late 90s to late 2000s as thats the era i associare with the sound of these two mainly.

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u/kaurii3586_ — 21 hours ago

[IIL] Lost in Translation, Before Sunrise, and Past Lives, what other movies have that quiet emotional vibe?

Looking for movies that feel calm, emotional, and a little lonely in a good way. The kind where not much "big" happens but you still get attached to the characters and atmosphere. Could be romance, drama, or even coming-of-age.

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u/thisonehits — 1 day ago

[IIL] Jeepers Creepers, but can't stomach rewatching?

Hey all! I used to love Jeepers Creepers a lot, but can't stomach rewatching it because of Victor Salva's criminal history.

I want something to fill the void, but despite having watched a lot of horror, Jeepers filled a very particular niche that nothing else seems to, so I need suggestions!

What I like about the movie in broader strokes,

  • It's not a teen slasher.
  • Doesn't have a romantic pairing as the lead, although I don't mind romance if it's more than just the F13 teen raunchy stuff.
  • Has a slow burn to begin with, with mystery and the curtain slowly drawing back.
  • Is a creature feature, I enjoy the presence of one lone monster outside of the slasher setting.
  • Doesn't have a happy ending, but isn't grim and miserable. The Descent is an example of a monster movie with a bad ending, but just felt depressing, like I'd been punched in the gut by the ending. Jeepers has a melancholy to it, but it doesn't take itself too seriously and as a result I didn't feel like I'd been pulled through the emotional wringer.

Stuff I really don't want,

  • By the numbers slasher. I've seen a hundred of these. Teens exist, guy kills teens, teen kills guy. They're fun, but I don't need another to add to the collection.
  • Lots of monsters, whether they're zombies or animals or whatever, gotta keep it small scale! There's a place for this stuff, but it won't fill the Jeepers void.
  • "Torture Porn", I like a bit of gore, but I can't stomach stuff like Hostel.
  • I really do like monsters, so something supernatural, alien or "science gone wrong" is a must! I wouldn't want something that's just one normal guy or psycho without a supernatural twist.

Out of what I've seen and can think of, Pumpkinhead gets pretty close. It strays close to slasher territory, but toes the line. It has a lone monster, the leads are split between Ed Harley and the Teens enough that it doesn't feel like a teen slasher. It's got a slow burn, with an ending that doesn't go well for everyone but isn't grim and miserable, there's a little light there.

The Last Voyage of the Dementer was also very close. I enjoyed that a lot, and naturally it felt like the modern evolution of the classic Universal movies. Probably the closest I've felt in terms of vibes. Howl (2015) hit some vibes of the 2nd movie, had a slasher bodycount without the slasher tropes.

Naturally, Alien is the cream of the crop for slow burn but exciting creature features, but it's Alien. I've seen it a trillion times, and will forever love it!

I've seen a lot of horror that's well known, so I may be asking for some deeper cuts here, but I won't turn my nose up at anything even if you think I might've seen it! I'm no snob either, so don't feel like you have to suggest only the stuff the critics dig.

Thank you in advance <3

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u/ElementalBucky — 1 day ago

[IIL] Grimey Tom Waits vibes

Starting to get into Tom Waits, so far I really like Rain Dogs, Underground, and Big In Japan. I'm looking for more music with that kind of grimey gravely vibe. The only thing I've found besides Tom Waits is specifically I'm Your Man by Leonard Cohen. Stuff off of Violent Femmes' Hallowed Ground is similar (and amazing, I adore VF) but the vocals are too off to fit exactly. Would love some recommendations!

Edit to add that vocals don't have to be specifically deep and gravely, but definitely unique and kind of slimey (if that makes any sense)

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u/weezerboy69 — 2 days ago

[IIL] a particular type of funky music

There’s a certain itch that’s scratched by a certain type of song, and every search engine or AI bot fails me when I’m looking for similar recommendations. I think it falls into how a tight drum beat is syncopated with a really catchy, also tight melody with another instrument over top. Some examples:

- I Wish by Stevie Wonder
- Superstition by Stevie Wonder
- Always on the Run by Lenny Kravitz
- Nothing from Nothing by Billy Preston
- Will It Go Round In Circles by Billy Preston
- Brick House by The Commodores
- Shining Star (especially the chorus) by Earth, Wind and Fire

Thanks for any and all reccos!

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u/CohnMan — 3 days ago

[IIL] Songs about change and embracing it, WEWIL?

Sometimes I have a hard time embracing change. Listening to songs about change makes it a bit easier to accept as part of life.

Wind Of Change by Scorpions always makes me tear up a little, but it doesn't have to be a similar genre, I like many. Thanks for any help!:)

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u/Yovve — 3 days ago

[IIL] If I like Mayor of Simpleton by XTC

I’m not usually into older music but I Shazamed this song at a skate shop and I’ve found myself addicted, listening to it over and over. I have no clue about the genre but would love some recs that sound similar. Thx

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u/tonysolobruhbruh — 4 days ago

[IIL] The late-night, candlelit aesthetic of Sade and Petrus van Schendel's night-market paintings, [WEWIL] for deep atmospheric music?

The moods of music and visual art often meet in fascinating ways. Many deep, psychedelic grooves carry a certain magical texture that warps a familiar rhythm into something otherworldly.

For me, listening to Sade feels exactly like stepping into a candlelit, glowing painting by Petrus van Schendel. Which album or artist do you think best captures this perfect nocturnal and mystical atmosphere?

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u/iidamusic — 3 days ago

[IIL] emotional movies with lonely/nighttime vibes like Lost in Translation and Chungking Express, [WEWIL?]

Looking for movies that feel quiet, emotional, and kinda dreamy. I really liked the atmosphere in Lost in Translation and Chungking Express.

Doesn't have to be romance only, just something with that lonely late-night feeling and memorable visuals/music.

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u/thisonehits — 4 days ago

[IIL] Songs likes “Why Don’t You Try?” by Leonard Cohen

I am unable to find any song like this. I love how it feels like he is giving advice directly to me. It feels warm and fatherly. If anyone knows songs like this (from him or another artist) I would gladly appreciate it. I’m mostly looking for some songs that will help me get through a breakup, so if you have any that helped you I would love those as well :).

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u/avitza — 3 days ago

[IIL] Family Shows

Name shows based upon the following criteria.

  1. The show must feature a family who has only 2 children when the show first starts.
  2. The oldest being a girl and the youngest being a boy.
  3. The show can also have teenagers.
  4. The show must be less than 30 minutes or less per episode.
  5. The show can be a comedy, drama or other genera but cannot contain graphic violence.
  6. The show must be from the 80s, 90s and pre 2010s.
  7. Bonus points if I can watch the show free on the Firestick without a subscription or if I can watch it on YouTube.

Examples include:

  • Alf, Married with Children, Eerie Indiana, Eerie Indiana: The Other Dimension.

Thanks, in advance.

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u/HalfblindChaos — 3 days ago

[IIL] Steam games like the 2013 movie The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

There's a lot I like about this movie. It's a very wholesome and inspiring story of adventure, life, responsibility, family, etc. I was hoping for a game that captured some aspect of this.

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u/jackadven — 3 days ago

[IIL] Media about earnestly confronting a meaningless and indifferent universe that seems beyond human comprehension

Looking for media to explore themes of:

  • Confronting meaning/meaninglessness (The Stranger, Nier Automata)
  • Finding connection and our place in this universe (The Glow pt. 2, Harmontown, Bojack Horseman, Princess Mononoke)
  • Striving for deeper connection and understanding despite difficult odds (Outer wilds, Stein's Gate, Lady Bird)
  • Exploring and reflecting on humanity's limitations and the nature of perception
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u/MediaMediiaMediiia — 4 days ago

[IIL] the song sAvioR by Heejin i love edgy rock songs with angry/emotional female vocals and the instrumental just scratches my brain right.

The rest of Heejins entire discography is classic kpop songs with this single being the only exception. I’ve tries using spotalike.com and the only thing it recommended me was cheerful kpop songs that were already in my algorithm.

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u/ashexsa — 3 days ago

[IIL] Ode to the Mets by The Strokes and Weird Fishes/Arpeggi by Radiohead, [WEWIL] for that lying-in-bed-staring-at-the-ceiling vibe, present but not really there

Looking to expand a collection of songs for a very specific moment. You know the one: lying on the bed, eyes on the ceiling, body in the room but mind somewhere else entirely. That suspended feeling where the real world fades and something more imaginary takes over.

Other tracks that hit that exact mark for me:

  • Where Is My Mind by Pixies
  • Comfortably Numb and Breathe (In the Air) by Pink Floyd
  • Exit Music (For a Film) and Everything in Its Right Place by Radiohead
  • Feed Your Head by Paul Kalkbrenner
  • What Once Was by Her's

Not looking for any specific genre. The list above already jumps from indie rock to electronic to prog rock. Ambient, classical, post-rock, slow jazz, anything works as long as it has that floating-away quality.

What would you add?

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u/soicjoc — 5 days ago

[IIL] Media that features interesting takes on Christianity, such as The Binding of Isaac or Ultrakill

Preferably video games or movies as I don't really read or watch shows.

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u/pholidotaz — 4 days ago