Demoted
Need to vent. For context, the UK now has a trial scheme for BJJ players to earn a Judo grade as a conversion (i.e stop sandbagging by using ne waza in our competitions please). I posted about this a few months ago too, the response was negative but I went along to the first trial as it was run by Ray Stevens and I’ve wanted to train at his place, I thought a seminar that covers both sports would be a good learning experience.
I got promoted from 6th kyu to 2nd kyu which I personally believe is much too high considering I only started Judo in November, but the guy who independently graded us is a 7th dan and works for British Judo so I’m not going to argue.
I spoke to my coaches and they were surprised as well. I explained that I’d like to keep the belt as an ‘honorary’ belt and carry on with standard gradings until I’m ready for the next belt a few years down the line. Anyway they asked me some questions about my BJJ and Judo competition performance for evidence of my crappiness, contacted British Judo to get them to put me back to 6th kyu without informing me, British Judo said ‘no’, so they called their friend who used to work there to pull some strings and I’ve been demoted to 6th Kyu again.
I’m not happy with this as I didn’t ask them to do this. Their reason was I won’t do well or get hurt in competition but I had to find out through an Instagram comment that they also think I’ll make their club “look stupid” by wearing a blue belt if I train at other gyms and that I’m only allowed to grade at their gym. They said they’d cross out the signature in my grade book which I personally think looks WAY worse than doing poorly in a competition, it looks more like sandbagging to me
It doesn’t matter that they or anyone else disagrees because I was given that grade legally under the BJA. I’m more annoyed that it was taken away without my permission as it also means I can’t attend green belt and above training sessions such as Kata and officiating. Their reasons that I won’t be able to hang with green-brown belts is bs as well as I’m holding my own in randori with others that level who are actually trying to throw me. It just reads like an old-school macho ego play that’s normally reserved for middle-aged BJJ black belts. I would much rather look shit in competition than a sandbagger.
Ultimately to me it’s just a belt, I don’t really care about chasing grades, and I’ve trained with blue belts who couldn’t do anything to me in tachi waza and blue belts who made me look like it was my frist day walking. Just very disappointed that my gym is doing crazy politics over this
TLDR: got legally fast-tracked, coaches didn’t like it, did some bullshit to demote me without even asking me first