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couldnt sleep so was reading this manga - The Guy She Was Interested in Wasn't a Guy At All

Its actually quite good I read around two volumes in one sitting. I wish I showed same enthusiasm with my academics 😭😭

u/penguin_in_a_city — 16 hours ago

🌈 Sunday Connections Thread – Dating & Partner-Seeking

Use this space to Introduce yourself, share what kind of connection you’re looking for, start respectful conversations

Posts seeking partners outside this Sunday thread may be removed.

We hope this thread helps you find warmth, friendship, or something meaningful 🌱
Happy Sunday & take care 💖

Mod Team, r/lesbiansindia

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u/AutoModerator — 1 day ago
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don’t pick the flower

har baar phool todna zaruri nhi hota, no matter even if it was the phool you were looking for-

(even if u find a queer person /wlw person near your habitat, you should not necessarily date them)

debatable opinion but it’s true :)
don’t pick every beautiful flower you see, make friends with flower :)

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u/randomripperr — 2 days ago
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New couple in town baby <3 inframe: diya joukani and subiksha shivakumar

u/aisha1502 — 3 days ago

Are any of you out to everyone around you?

Is it even possible in India? I'm out to like 3 of my friends and I think some of my other friends may be homophobic. But we've been friends for so long, even before I realised I was a lesbian and I want to come out to them but I also don't want to lose their friendship. Idk maybe they're not homophobic, they have good political views about mostly everything but I don't wanna take that risk. I wanna be able to tell them one day. And if they are homophobic I'll break things off with them ig. I will not put up with that shit, that's for sure.

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u/heavenly_pillar_ — 2 days ago
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Not everyone got to come out at eighteen. Not everyone got to fall in love without fear. And that's okay. Your story is still unfolding, and we're honoured to witness it.

u/SirohitaIks — 3 days ago

27F from Mumbai | Looking for a female partner. Interested in the slow burn version of getting to know you <3

I think I might be fundamentally incompatible with modern dating.. I don't really understand how people look at a profile, exchange six messages and decide whether they're interested. I need lore. I need context. I need to know what weird rabbit holes you disappear into at 1 am!

But while it's possible, I don't really believe in instant sparks or at least something that helps me evaluate long-term compatibility especially if we are interested in each other romantically. I like the idea of two people gradually becoming important to each other through conversations, shared interests, inside jokes and a ridiculous amount of messages about things neither of us can explain to anyone else.

Please mention ASL in your DM.

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u/IronyAndIvoryy — 2 days ago

Am I bisexual or pansexual?

What is my sexuality? I need help figuring it out. \[F 22\] I'm 80 percent attracted to women and 20 percent attracted to men I'm mostly attracted to women and feminity in men and women. but would date all genders. What is this called? Very rarely trans and non binary people

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u/FluidTemperature1762 — 3 days ago
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Lesbian Desire in the Kamasutra (Translation by Alain Daniélou)

From a lesbian point of view, the text in the Daniélou’s translation of the Kamasutra can be understood as a rare and early acknowledgment of female same-sex desire within a structured framework of sexuality. It presents women not merely as passive participants in male-centered relationships, but as individuals capable of independent desire, including attraction toward other women. The descriptions of interactions between women - beginning with hesitation, moving through trust-building, and culminating in physical intimacy - suggest that lesbian relationships were seen as emotionally and physically meaningful, rather than incidental or inferior. Most importantly, the text defines sexual intercourse not by penetration, but by the ability to produce orgasm, thereby validating lesbian intimacy as a complete and legitimate form of sexual experience. It also includes the presence of such relationships among independent women, prostitues and courtesans. Overall, more or less, the text offers a surprisingly inclusive, pleasure-centered view of sexuality, where lesbian desire is recognized, explored, and integrated into the broader understanding of human erotic life.

u/penguin_in_a_city — 5 days ago