r/lesbiansindia

It's hard to date when you don't even know the sexuality of the other person. I would see girls liking wlw content but then dating a homophobic guy, it feels like an act to me because most of these girls would be disgusted by the thought of even kissing a girl in real life. I have many personal life examples of seeing straight girls reposting and commenting on exclusively wlw content and it just rubs me the wrong way. One time i had a crush on this girl and I saw her liking a post about how hard it is to be a lesbian these days, after this i approached her and she immediately backed up saying she thinks dating girls is weird and it only looks good in serials or when westerners do it. I am so done atp, i think imma just spend my whole life alone rather than going through this again

So, when I was in college , this girl randomly said to me ( because we were in all girls college - there were lesbian couples) that she hates lesbian and if a lesbian girl ever even sits beside her , she will shout at her and shame her for being the one . And little she knew enemy was way closer then she thinks -lol. Also, she believed that periods are a curse given by Indra to women , that's why we should refrain from going to temples -wth!!!!!. Also , she made a project on how indian men suffer so many false rape cases- which I agree but project in women safety debate????.Just wanted to share it here !!

Genuine question!

There are two sentences I've heard from a lot of straight people whenever they find out a woman is a lesbian or sapphic:

1. Lesbians are man-haters.

2. Domestic violence and divorce rates are high among sapphic women.

Where did such things even come up from? How does loving a woman make us man-haters?

I recently understood about myself that I'm only interested in girls whatsoever. Now the question is I'm living in a area where I don't think lesbians will be there 😭 and if I ever going to find anyone then am I really going to take good care of them. I don't know.

Sorry guys Just venting out.... I don't anywhere else to do.....I seriously need a girl so I can cuddle and hug when I sleep.... Is it too much to ask.

I am 20F and I had bad experience with masc girls. Idk why but they turn out the biggest red flags. But I am only attracted to mascs. So before I leave wlw community I really wanna give it another shot yk.

Teenager
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I had been in love with this girl since high school. She changed cities just a few months after we met. It has been 3 years and I still keep on replaying our memories in my head. I tried reaching out to her via social media but received no reply so ig she has forgotten me. I cannot confirm it but I think she had feelings for me too but we never said anything. I don't know if it is just a coping mechanism but I want it to stop as I know I am not in her head as often as she is on my mind. Any suggestions to stop feeling this way and get over it?