I thought things were supposed to get better this August? My sleep is ruined, career problems and my Taurus ex keeps stalking me but has made zero effort to fix things if ever lol. Though I've met few women after her, things with her felt special.
Can I ask how you guys are feeling with the moon currently in Scorpio?
I like having deep conversations. I get passionate about these conversations. I don’t have depression. I’m just moody and brood a lot. My mom has been persuading me for years to go to therapy.
I go to therapy. I have an open mind. I’ve been to a few therapists, I’ve gone to multiple sessions, I’ve been as honest and vulnerable as possible.
It’s NOT the therapists, for the most part, they’ve all been great. The techniques of contemplative behavior therapy can totally work for example, but it’s also something I’ve cross-examined multiple times in simple online PDFs before even attending in-person therapy. Like, I understand this stuff.
I can totally see how meetings with a therapist can be beneficial for certain people, but I don’t think it works for me. I can read a book or google advice that’s more in depth and unique to my situation than talking to a stranger. I feel like a therapist is only there so you can pay them $100+ a session to hold you accountable every visit.
I am one also. Something about her is off, and I couldn’t put my finger on it. Not off in a bad way just a bit reserved and maybe masking a bit. Obviously it’s a job and I work in customer service so we mask a bit but now I feel like I can be myself around her more. Or like just be more open. To an extent I mean obviously it’s still work. But she hired me on the spot because I was completely and authentically 100% honest with her about my career change and how I finally found out what is it I want to do with the rest of my life and now it definitely makes sense why she hired me right after I said that, also my birth chart has placements that say things work in my favor if I come as myself authentically. Still though her being a Scorpio moon makes me nervous. She’s an Aries sun Scorpio moon, I forgot her rising. What would you do if you had a boss with these placements to get in good with them?
I am a Scorpio Moon and when someone asks me “who are you?” it becomes a complicated answer in my head. Was curious to see if it happens to you all too or how you would answer that question.
What is a schema?
Schemas are deep, relatively stable patterns that are usually formed in childhood and adolescence and can influence our feelings, decisions, and relationships into adulthood.In schema therapy, 18 main schemas have been identified.
One of them is the abandonment schema.
The abandonment schema is the deep fear that the important people in our lives will leave us, be lost, or no longer be with us.
So sometimes a small behavior from someone we love can activate this old fear. For example, our spouse acts just a little colder than usual, but our mind immediately says:
Sometimes our reaction today is not just about today's event;
it may be an old wound that has been reactivated.
Has a small event ever caused you to have a big fear of losing someone?
Schemas can be changed and improved.But this improvement doesn't happen overnight. It takes time and practice.
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I read that Scorpio Moons tend to be suspicious and guarded in relationships. How do you decide someone is trustworthy enough to pursue a romantic relationship with?
asking for research purposes 🧐
I’ve realized that my partners and friends were all Cancer moons, Capricorn moons, and fellow Scorpio moons.
And somehow, I ended up marrying a Leo moon. 😅
I laugh about this to myself a lot because of how different his chart is compared to my past relationships and even my friendships. But he truly makes me the happiest. 🖤
My chart is a mixture of Aquarius and Scorpio, and the constant back and forth between head and heart is destabilizing. It literally affects my health. Oftentimes it can feel like I'm going insane. Are there any other folks that have this problem, lol.
I recently ended an on/off online relationship with someone I had developed strong feelings for. We are both Scorpio moons. And despite all the chemistry, affection and countless hours talking on the phone, there was always this strange feeling in my body that something was off with him.
I could never quite explain it.
He could be incredibly sweet, funny, affectionate and intense. He told me he missed me, couldn’t get me out of his head, had strong feelings for me etc. But emotionally, I never felt completely safe with him. I always felt like I couldn’t quite reach him.
Whenever things were good, they were really good. But whenever I brought up something difficult or told him I was hurt, I felt like I hit a wall. He would become defensive, focus on explaining himself, ignore parts of what I was actually saying, or simply try to move past it and return to normal conversation.
That pattern was actually what triggered our final argument.
Something had happened that made me uncomfortable, and I tried to address it. Instead of engaging with what I was saying, he essentially skipped over it and tried to continue as if nothing had happened. When I pointed out that he was ignoring what I was trying to communicate, he did it again.
And I snapped.
I got angry and spoke to him disrespectfully. I’m not proud of that, and I genuinely take responsibility for it.
But what happened next was almost the perfect illustration of the feeling I’d had about him all along:
He became completely focused on the fact that I owed him an apology. Meanwhile, he called me childish, incredibly self-centered and narrow-minded, told me apologizing was something you learn in kindergarten, and said I needed to “show a hint of being an adult.”
“You’re a big girl, figure it out” etc. He was so mean in his tone. Even when I told him he was hurting me.
I repeatedly tried to get us off text and onto the phone. I told him I wanted to move towards him, not away from him. I wanted to apologize for my part, hear his side and actually repair the conflict together.
But it felt like none of that registered because I hadn’t yet said the specific word he wanted: sorry.
He was like a child.
Eventually I did say sorry. I gave him a genuine apology for the way I had spoken to him and acknowledged that my frustration didn’t justify it.
His response was:
“Thank you. That was all I asked for.”
And that was the moment something in me went completely quiet.
Because throughout the entire conflict, he had demanded that I look at myself, take responsibility and understand how my words affected him, while showing seemingly no curiosity about how his words or behavior affected me.
No apology for calling me names. No “I shouldn’t have spoken to you like that either.” No acknowledgement of the fact that I had repeatedly been trying to reconnect with him. Nothing.
I almost wrote a huge final message explaining everything I thought about his emotional maturity and lack of empathy.
I didn’t.
I went to sleep.
At 6am I woke up with one of the strongest gut feelings I’ve ever had:
Get him out of your life.
So I blocked him everywhere. Finito. Never again.
And what I can’t stop thinking about now is that this feeling wasn’t new.
My body had been telling me something was off with this man almost from the beginning, even during the really good periods. I just couldn’t explain what. There was chemistry, affection, hours and hours of phone calls, strong feelings, yet something in me never fully relaxed around him. I never felt like I could truly reach him emotionally.
For a long time I questioned myself because I couldn’t point to one huge obvious red flag that explained the feeling.
Now I wonder if intuition isn’t mystical at all. Maybe sometimes it’s simply our brain noticing hundreds of tiny patterns, inconsistencies and signals before our conscious mind has found the words for them.
Have you ever experienced that with someone? Your body kept saying “something isn’t right here” long before you could logically explain why and eventually something happened that made it all click?
I just had a son and he has a Scorpio moon but me and my husband have a great relationship and a good household. We’re very supportive of each other and are great parents. I’m wondering does a Scorpio moon always mean a hard life? Anyone have had a pretty easy life in here?
I also have a Leo mars, Virgo saturn & a Capricorn pluto.
what is your life path number & how does it resonate or polarize with your scorpio moon?
And how might they relate with a (F) Pisces sun, Pisces Mars, Scorpio moon, Taurus rising, Aquarius Venus, Aquarius in mercury?
>!I am the Pisces and my mom is a Leo and we have clashed throughout my life, and she is now elderly and I’m wondering about karmic patterns and generational and ancestral healing lessons. I pulled tarot cards and got the chariot and wheel of life Inverted. My mom is the cheerleader, Christian type!< >!with debilitating, anxiety and alcoholism that she’s in denial about, getting weekly mani/pedis,!< >!and I am the bisexual, vegan, goth hippie type with hairy armpits.!< >!She admitted the other day she wished I!< >!was a normie and I feel she is aggressively normie to her own existential detriment!<!
I’m (31F) having trouble with my Scorpio moon husband and I need some insight on how to deal. I am a Gemini sun, sag moon, and cancer rising. I need freedom. Or else I’ll leave. And I’ve threatened to leave hundreds of times. I belong deeply to myself. But I really need to make this marriage work, we have two under two. He’s so suspicious of everything I do and I have NEVER given him a reason to be. I’ve never lied or cheated on him. But he’s convinced I have. No amount of trying to explain myself ever works. He’s committed to misunderstand me and it boggs me down and really turns me off. He’s crazy about me and I’m afraid if I ever tried to leave he’d try to ruin my life. I have a large inheritance coming up and when I’ve threatened to leave he’s already threatened to try and take it in court. Nothing has hurt me more than him threatening that. I’m the mother of his children…