My beautiful sweet baby Scorpio moon man. Although I don’t have his time of birth yet to know for sure his moon sign, he is not a libra moon. This man is as deep and troubled (💛) as the tumultuous ocean itself, sweet little water monster. I say this with love. He is actually very evolved and self aware, he’s the best dating experience I’ve had so far. He was out of a long term relationship last year, which he admitted to me was very difficult and toxic, his ex has a lot of serious issues. I asked him what he wished he would have done differently in the relationship and how he contributed to the problems, and he gave a very thoughtful answer which I appreciated. I asked this as a way to screen if he only points fingers outward or can own up to his faults (because a lot of people in the dating world cannot). We’ve been dating 4 months, we haven’t had any fights, but the way he has navigated difficult conversations has been really healing for me. He is so affection and understanding and validating of all my feelings and deeply cares for me.

He opens up to me a tiny tiny bit here and there about his deep emotions, but he holds back. He’ll start to say something and change courses and say “don’t let me do that,” or “never mind we’re not gonna get into that,” or “I can tell you more about this another time.” But he will tell me when he’s sad or feeling off, and recently he had a really rough patch, he was feeling very depressed, and I offered to come over and lay with him. He let me, and I comforted him mostly physically, he mentioned a couple things about being very anxious and overwhelmed, and I just listened and hugged him. Eventually we got out of the house to go to an event we had planned weeks earlier, and when we got back home he said he was really glad we went and I had helped him feel a lot better.

He’s confided in me that he’s struggled with substance abuse and addiction his past, feels like he was always chasing a high and running from demons, he stopped doing most drugs years ago but does rely on THC quite a bit, nicotine, caffeine, maybe occasionally alcohol but I’m kind of straight and narrow and pretty much don’t do anything, except for on occasion and I have experimented a little in the past. I’m just sensitive to most substances.

He is a sweet soul. I know Scorpio moons have a tough reputation, but I see you guys and I know you all deserve grace and respect for how much depth you have. I just want to support him the best I can.

[TL;DR] Those of you who have experience reading charts, am I astrologically set up to help support him? Those of you who are not so familiar with chart reading, generally speaking what advice do you have for me to support him mainly in his addictive tendencies, how do I create a safe space for him? If any of you have significantly reduced or stopped dependence on substances I would love to hear your perspective on what helped (I don’t think there is anything inherently wrong with the substances I listed, like, caffeine I know sounds ridiculous to mention lol just wanted to paint a picture of the highs and lows of nervous system regulation with stimulation vs depressants, these aren’t dealbreakers and I don’t judge him I just want to create a safe space for him to feel steady and to feel his best).

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We will find that person who we can fully trust, we got this Scorpio moons ❤️‍🩹🫂

It’s more of a mix of sadness and yearning honestly.