
r/sultanateofwomen

Kösem in MYK 🪡
Why do people act like Kösem was some sort of innocent martyr of a woman who got murdered for doing absolutely nothing?
She never made peace with the fact that Murad grew up and that he was more than capable of being a sole monarch.. he warned her more than once about her meddling in his business, yet she never listened and kept on being involved in politics, making him more and more paranoid than he already was.. which led to Kasim's assassination and Ibrahim becoming more mentally unstable out of fear of being killed...
And when Ibrahim became Sultan, she did the exact same bs, and at the end, she literally let the janissary execute him even though she promised him that she will protect him (Salule for Atike and Ibrahim for calling her out on her bullshit btw).
Then, during Mehmed's reign, she created for herself a title that never existed, kept on being involved in politics till the point of kicking the sultan from the Divan and sitting in his place .. And of course, she ended up planning to kill her own grandson simply because she wanted Dilaşub who was more obedient than Turhan to become the new Küçük Valide, so she can keep on acting like the power-hungry that she is ..
I'm sorry, but she is the one who caused this upon herself. She was way too consumed by Power/Politics/ruling that she was willing to just kill a freaking kid HER OWN GRANDSON... If I were in Turhan's place, I would've done the same thing...
What did the mothers of the Sultans look like?
Do we have a description of what the mothers of the Ottoman Sultans looked like?
I've always wondered about it, especially when it comes to the less known ones like Nilufer, Saliha Dilasub, Mihrisah, Pertevniyal etc
The concept of Iddah
So, days ago, I learned that there is a concept in Islam called "Iddah", a mandatory waiting period that a woman must observe after divorce, the death of her husband, or the dissolution of a marriage before she can legally remarry (roughly 130 days in the case of a widow).
My question is: was this also applied to the women/concubines of a deceased sultan? For example, did the wives or concubines of deceased Ottoman sultans who later remarried also have to observe ʿiddah, meaning that they had to wait roughly 130 days before marrying again?
Is there any evidence that the fight between Mahidevran and Hurrem was Navagero's invention?
I remember reading that Leslie Pearce wrote something about this, but I can't find the exact quotes and sources
Valide Nurbanu Sultan appearing in Murad III’s dreams
Some more interesting notes about Nurbanu:
Thanks to “Kitâbü’l-Menâmât”, or Book of Dreams in English, we have the records of visionary dreams, mystical experiences, and spiritual letters of an Ottoman Sultan, Murad III to be specific. He mainly corresponded with his spiritual advisor Sheikh Şüca Dede through letters.
His mother Valide Nurbanu Sultan also made several appearances in his dreams and this post will be mainly about her appearances.
It is evident from Murad III’s letters that, following the death of Valide Nurbanu Sultan in 1583, Murad’s “correspondence” with his mother continued through his dreams. In one of his letters, the sultan states that he saw his mother in a dream and she told him, "You are closer to me than my own relatives” and that this had left him utterly distraught.
Recounting another incident, Murad III notes that during a time when he was distressed, his mother came to him and tried to sit in his chair, but he refused and said, “For God’s sake, go away.” The sultan likely perceived his deceased mother as a messenger, or perhaps, even a summoner from the afterlife, and that this caused him anxiety.
In another letter, Valide Nurbanu Sultan whom he had seen in a dream asks Murad III, “My son, is it the time for afternoon prayer yet? I’m not even finished with the noon prayer yet!” This statement shows just how devoted the Valide Sultan was to her Islamic prayers.
From another letter, we understand that Sheikh Şüca Dede was concerned by the gossip about him among the sultan’s inner circle and he must have priorly complained to the sultan about it. Sultan Murad III consoles him in this letter and advises him to send his letters directly to himself (Murad III) without even showing them to his mother Valide Nurbanu Sultan. This letter suggests that Valide Nurbanu Sultan did not always hold a favorable opinion of Sheikh Şüca Dede when she was still alive.
Source:
Devrinden Seyrine Sultan III. Murad’ın Kitâbü’l-Menâmât’taki Mektuplarına Dair Bazı Tespitler
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Why do historical dramas keep turning Haseki into a generic “favorite consort” title?
Sooo I recently started watching Mehmed: Fetihler Sultanı, and one thing that immediately annoyed me was hearing Hüma Hatun referred to as Başhaseki, and it got me thinking about how often Ottoman dramas seem to use Haseki as though it were simply the Ottoman equivalent of “the sultan’s favorite woman.”
The Haseki position that developed around Hürrem was something genuinely exceptional. Before Hürrem, the structure of the imperial harem was specifically designed to prevent one concubine from becoming the kind of permanent, exclusive partner she became. The one-concubine/one-son pattern, the departure of a prince and his mother to the provinces, and the absence of a formalized chief-consort position all meant that even a sultan’s favorite wasn’t necessarily going to become the central woman of his household.
Then Süleyman elevates Hürrem in a way that breaks with that structure on multiple levels. She remains with him after bearing a son, has multiple children with him, remains in Istanbul instead of following a prince to a sanjak, is eventually married to him, and acquires an unprecedented degree of wealth and political influence.
And that’s what I find particularly irritating about the way historical dramas use Haseki. It’s not just that calling Hüma a Başhaseki is anachronistic. It’s that by treating Haseki as a generic title for “the sultan’s favorite consort,” they completely flatten the historical development of the position and, in the process, make Hürrem’s elevation seem much less unusual than it actually was.
Of course, earlier sultans could have had women they personally favored. But personal favoritism is very different from creating a position in which one woman was singled out and elevated within the structure of the imperial household.
The interesting part about Hürrem’s position is that it represented a departure from the existing structure of the imperial household. Haseki wasn’t simply a fancy Ottoman word for “favorite.” Its significance came precisely from the fact that this woman was being singled out and elevated in a way that hadn’t previously been institutionalized in the same manner.
And then, much later, when multiple women could simultaneously be Haseki and you start getting distinctions like Başhaseki, the meaning of the title had changed again. So applying that later hierarchy to a woman living under Murad II isn’t just a small terminology issue, it makes the whole evolution of the institution disappear.
What I find particularly frustrating is that this is something that could be avoided so easily. If the writers simply wanted to establish Hüma as Murad’s most favored or politically influential consort, they could have conveyed that without retroactively applying a title whose meaning and institutional significance developed much later.
More broadly, I wonder why Ottoman dramas so often present titles and institutions as though they were static throughout the history of the empire, rather than acknowledging how their meanings and functions evolved over time. Haseki is perhaps one of the clearest examples of this, because treating it as a generic, transhistorical rank ultimately obscures precisely what made Hürrem’s position historically significant and unusual in the first place.
From a historical perspective, what was the reason behind Suleiman’s actions that increasingly emphasized his special regard for Hürrem?
There is no doubt that he loved Hürrem with all his soul and heart and was completely obsessed with her. Of course, she herself did a great many things to earn respect - she was educated, engaged in charity work, and, of course, raised Suleiman’s favorite son, Mehmed.
I’m certain that all of this is what made Suleiman appreciate and respect her more and more. But also, is there any historical evidence, rumors (just no misogynistic tales about Hürrem having bewitched him), or unconfirmed but plausible theories as to why Suleiman increasingly wanted to set her apart, rather than follow tradition?
Creating the title of Haseki just for her, to elevate her above Mahidevran (and at that time, only she and the Valide were higher in status than Mahidevran), and later, an official and very luxurious marriage to her. What was the reason for this, if he could have simply chosen not to do it?
I often notice in Suleiman’s biography his penchant for favoritism: his favorite friend, his favorite wife, his favorite son.
It was as if he were not able to keep subordinates around him; instead, he wanted to single out his favorites in every way possible amidst all the “unworthy” ones.
Was it precisely this habit of favoritism - and not something else - that led to the title and the marriage?