31F living in Spain looking for a serious man

Only for serious men who also live in Europe, since I don’t plan on going to Morocco anytime soon. And I want someone my age or older than me (pls don’t message me if you are younger than me)
I am a simple girl, very calm, introverted and shy, who enjoys spending time alone, I don’t have a lot of friends and I chose wisely my circle of people, I like to workout and to stay lean, I adore nature (I love hiking) and I love traveling and discovering new cultures and places, reading is another thing I love, learning languages too ( currently trying to learn italian and Catalan), and I like deep conversations.
I like confident men, who know what they want, who take the lead and respect their partner, I care more about the personality than the physique but I would like someone taller than me (165cm).
I don’t like superficial and lustful men.
I want to build a real and meaningful connection with someone who is like me tires of being alone and want someone to share this journey together and make the best out of it.
I’m not very religious so hopefully the person won’t be but I know my limits and I respect myself.
I don’t use dating apps and my circle is very limited which makes finding a partner hard for me especially when living abroad. So hopefully I can find a good match here.

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 2 days ago

What is this in our Sahara

I just saw a video of. Spanish guy saying that we have a wall in the sahara and I went to google maps and it turned our real or maybe im not sure and that we have a military base there.
Can someone confirm this

u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 3 days ago

I have been placed in Ceuta but now I am afraid to go

I accepted my placement in Ceuta but after what happened there I am concerned about the situation, is there a possibility to contact nalcap to change my placement? ceuta was my second option

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 12 days ago
▲ 22 r/Morocco

Finally we got an answer from the government regarding the Ceuta incident

Here’s the video on youtube since I couldn’t upload it here
What do you think of this speech

Isn’t it weird that he is not referring to Ceuta as mohtala not even once

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 17 days ago

Should we renew our tie in the same comunidad we were in?

Im a first year renewal I was in Madrid ( I got my tie there), now I got a placement in Ceuta and Im a bit lost where should I submit the prorroga and where should I do my toma de huellas ? I changed my padron to Tarragona because Im staying here till November and now Im a bit confused

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 27 days ago

31F looking for a partner

Only for men abroad especially in Spain since I live in Spain.
Im 31 introvert a little nerdy and I look younger than my age so don’t worry
I am shy and quiet and a bit awkward so if you think it’s boring just ignore this.
I love travelling and exploring new places ( history, churches, authentic local hidden places, walking 20k steps a day and getting lost) , especially hiking and nature so be ready because we will backpack and hike a lot hh
I have been by myself since I can remember so I really don’t know how to date or how this things works but let’s try
I don’t care a lot about physique as long as you are taller than me (166) we are cool,
I like manly men with values, family oriented and someone intelligent. With whom I can
To me a relationship should be my peaceful space

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 2 months ago

Commenting as a moroccan girl in social media has become hard

I think every girl sharestge same struggle on social media. Whenever we comment a dozen of moroccan guys insult us literally for no reason, as someone who loves to comment I always get insults maymknch ant ir’s always moroccan men comment after another calling me ugly whore bent 9 non virgin expired no man will want me bla bla and a lot of other things literally for no reason just for expressing my opinion on stupid reels that have nothing to do with men. On the other hand when I comment on other videos of other nationalities no one is insulting or being disrespectful.
What is wrong with those men? Are social media becoming a non safe place for us women too? Is this how they wished to treat us irl but they can’t for just expressing ourselves without even mentioning them?

And I’m not playing the victim card because kaneqi lihom wednihom but I just feel like it’s too much toxicity, and I’m usually someone who doesn’t like to get into unnecessary drama, I don’t pay for internet to be treated this way or to be exposed to such low profile people and their toxicity.

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 3 months ago

Being with a non Moroccan

As a 31F who spent most of her life single, I don’t date and I never was approached by Moroccan men, I now live abroad and it’s been the same, sl I started feeling lonely and decided to put some effort into meeting men, I ended up meeting an American s spanish guy and an Egyptian born and raised here, all of them don’t believe in 50/50 I never pay when I’m with them, they are respectful towards me and my religion, the American is catholic the spanish is atheist, lmohim I’m afraid to take this any further with them ( obviously I will chose one but I don’t know I’m afraid of being with someone that is not from the same culture as me)
Apparently I don’t attract moroccans because Im too boring or too calm and physically as a guy told me Im not beautiful according to Moroccan men not feminine or beautiful enough o meandich lmo2hilat

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 3 months ago

Am I desperate for meeting strangers from reddit days after talking?

I 30F live in Spain and it was so hard for me to make friends my age 30 plus, finma katlaqa chi hed soit bent or guy kikon way younger than me and I don’t enjoy the conversations. So I posted on reddit in the city I livein and a lot of guys and girls reached out. Daba wahd l couple iallah dwina l barah tomorrow ghadya netleqa bihom. Is it a desperate thing to meet people after a day or two of talking to them? ( it’s just for friendship and hanging out, nothing more especially that I live in very social and big city with a looot of things to do with people)

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 3 months ago

As a 31F who was never liked or approached by a guy I always felt unwanted by men, I even sometimes notice a disgusted look on men’s face when we make eye contact by accident, I always knew that men find me unattractive and uninteresting and that’s why I never even thought about dating or having a partner in fact I never even had a situationship or a talking stage and never went on dates, and since no one ever asked me out or liked me I just stopped caring about the whole thing. But why would men feel disgusted when I look at them or when we make eye contact they look the other side .. and sometimes guys make comments about my looks and it hurts me sometimes. any advice on how to build endurance and to stop being hurt by men’s comments and looks?

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 4 months ago

As a newbie who went to very few and easy hikes, I’m planning on hiking in Madeira and I want to know what are the most comfortable shoes that offer good support for hiking?

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u/3ayla-d-riwaya — 4 months ago