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I don't belong here. I'm not disabled enough.

1. Which surgical method did you choose (penile inversion, peritoneal pull-through, etc.) and why did you pick it over the others?

2. How did you know you chose the right surgeon to perform your bottom surgery?

3. What was the most unexpected and absolute hardest part of the first 3 months of recovery?

4. Realistically, what is the truth about the long-term dilation schedule? Does it become a minor chore or a major time commitment?

5. How long did it take for you to start experiencing sexual pleasure after recovery?

6. How does the tissue handle penetration and sex toys once you are 100% healed? Do you feel safe doing it? What rules do you use to protect yourself?

7. If you could go back in time to give yourself any advice about bottom surgery before you actually got it, what would you tell yourself?

Thank you to everyone who answers any number of these questions.

Neurodevelopmental disabilities like autism, SPD, and ADHD aren't just something that exists in someone's consciousness or something, they are physical differences in how somebody's brain is structured. So why is there a separation? It seems arbitrary to me because all disabilities have the same thing in common: they have real physical consequences and affect how disabled people live their lives. I am sorry if this take is offensive. Genuinely please correct me if I am just saying a bunch of ableist nonsense and I need to shut up.

I am not physically disabled. I do, however, have severe ADHD that makes it impossible for me to function without being medicated and accommodated by my school/workplace. I also potentially have autism but I do not have a diagnosis of it yet so I'm not going to say I have that for sure. Do people like me who have a severe mental disorder but are able bodied belong on this subreddit? I understand if the answer is no.

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