u/4VentingOnli

How do I find the strength to look for a job again?

Hi.

Nawawalan na akong ng gana. This is the first time in a while na instead of doing something productive I just ended up bed rotting because of depression.

To give a brief context, I applied to a company and nakuha ako. I passed the interviews, completed the requirements, and signed their contract.

I was just 30 minutes away from being onboarded when I received an email na ni rerevoke daw yung job offer sakin due to "unforseen circumstances" and "decisions by the upper management". I was devastated.

Nawalan na ako ng gana, kasi na realize ko ganito lang naman pala ang kinalalabasan ng efforts ko. Putang ina I was so proud pa naman, I shared the news na may job na ako to my friends, former co workers, family, and my mom who is currently in the hospital, tapos ganito pa yung mangyayari?

I feel so crushed and worthless. Feeling ko di na ako makakahanap ng disenteng trabaho. I can hear my former toxic boss taunting me na wala na daw ibang jobs na katulad nila so I might end up going back to them.

Napakamalas ko naman putang ina.

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u/4VentingOnli — 3 days ago

Gigil ako sa company na tinanggal ako 30 mins bago mag onboarding

Nakaka putang ina talaga. May kontrata na, pumirma na ako. Pasado ako sa lahat ng mga interview at pinapa follow up pa nga ako sa mga putang inang requirements nila tapos ganito lang???

Literally 30 minutes bago ako i-onboard saka lang nila to sinend. MGA HAYOP KAYONG LAHAT.

Tapos after ko tanongin yung co-founder kung bakit to nangyari, wala na daw say jan kasi yan daw decision nung founder. BITCH, co-founder ka and kayo nag recruit sakin, why not protest and talk some sense into your founder na I ALREADY WENT THROUGH THE ENTIRE APPLICATION PROCESS, NAKAKAHIYA NAMAN IF BIBITAWAN AKO KUNG KAILAN MAG SISIMULA NA.

Ang tatanga niyo, nakakagigil putang ina. Sana pumalpak yan putang inang startup niyo. Good luck competing with Hubspot, I doubt you guys will make it big anyway.

u/4VentingOnli — 3 days ago

26 [M4A] My job offer was terminated 37 minutes before my onboarding.

Hi! Gusto ko lang ng kausap kasi nawawalan na ako ng pag-asa. Lahat ng friends ko may work at hindi rin available yung therapist ko.

Anyways, I just received an email na ni reverse yung job application ko, 37 minutes before my onboarding. I am sk devastated, di ako makapag isip ng ma ayos, at di ko na alam next steps ko.

Sinugal ko na mga prev job offers ko and some of my savings kasi pumirma na ako ng kontrata at akala ko sure na.

Now Im left with nothing. I feel so defeated. Parang ang worthless ko. After hyping myself up for finally landing a job after 3 months, ganito lang yung mangyayari.

Idk kung anong lesson ba dapat matutunan ko dito? Parang nakaka sobra na eh. Anyways kausap lang talaga, please. Thanks.

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u/4VentingOnli — 4 days ago

Are there any IT/CS graduates here taking law?

Hi! I'm just looking for someone with an IT/CS undergraduate like me that is currently in law school.

Moreover, I just want to ask you guys what study tips and strategies you can offer for someone who is currently working as an IT professional, or how you were able to adapt during the adjustment phase given how different our fields are.

That's pretty much it. Cheers!

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u/4VentingOnli — 9 days ago