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I’m 19 years old and I’m looking for advice from people who have been through something similar.
For the past 6 years, I’ve been watching porn a lot and masturbating around 2–4 times a day. I also tend to use a very tight grip.
The confusing part is:
I get normal morning erections.
I can get fully erect when I masturbate.
I can also get aroused by sexual pictures.
I can orgasm when I masturbate by myself.
However, I’ve been with two different sex workers, and both times I had the same problem.
At first, I got an erection. One of them gave me a handjob, but I couldn’t orgasm. After a while, my erection started getting weaker. When I tried penetration, I felt very little sensation and couldn’t maintain the erection.
Because I can get erections normally when I’m alone, I’m wondering if this is performance anxiety, if it’s related to years of heavy porn use and masturbation with a tight grip, or something else.
Has anyone experienced the same thing? If so, what helped you recover?

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I used to work with a girl, and at first she seemed very interested in me. She would tell me things like “I love you” and “Do you miss me?” We followed each other on Instagram and talked a lot through messages.
Over time, things changed. She still seemed comfortable around me in person. Sometimes she would look at me, try to be close to me, and once on the way home from work she even leaned her head on my shoulder in a taxi. We would joke around and have good conversations.
The confusing part is texting. Many times I would message her, she would reply, I would respond back, and then she would leave my last message unanswered. This happened multiple times. Sometimes she reacts to my stories, but she rarely starts conversations herself.
Now I no longer work there, so I don’t see her every day. The last time we talked, I messaged her, she replied, I replied back, and then she never answered. I decided not to double text because I’ve already been the one initiating most of the time.
Do you think she was genuinely interested and lost interest? Was she just being friendly and enjoying the attention? Or am I overthinking the texting and reading too much into it?
I’d appreciate honest opinions.

I used to work with a girl, and at first she seemed very interested in me. She would tell me things like “I love you” and “Do you miss me?” We followed each other on Instagram and talked a lot through messages.
Over time, things changed. She still seemed comfortable around me in person. Sometimes she would look at me, try to be close to me, and once on the way home from work she even leaned her head on my shoulder in a taxi. We would joke around and have good conversations.
The confusing part is texting. Many times I would message her, she would reply, I would respond back, and then she would leave my last message unanswered. This happened multiple times. Sometimes she reacts to my stories, but she rarely starts conversations herself.
Now I no longer work there, so I don’t see her every day. The last time we talked, I messaged her, she replied, I replied back, and then she never answered. I decided not to double text because I’ve already been the one initiating most of the time.
Do you think she was genuinely interested and lost interest? Was she just being friendly and enjoying the attention? Or am I overthinking the texting and reading too much into it?
I’d appreciate honest opinions.