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Sometimes, I randomly feel this cold feeling which makes me suddenly move my shoulder to my neck, like a shiver or if someone was trying to tickle my neck (idk how to explain in English lol). It isn’t triggered by temeperature or anything, like I could be really hot and suddenly get this cold feeling that triggers my shoulder movement. I don’t have any sort of diagnosis or disability thingy, and no one else in my family has it.

I have it like 2-5 times a day, it rarely happens at school, or when doing activities, only when I’m sitting/ standing and relaxed. (Tho more common when sitting)

So I wear glasses when reading or screens since my eyes get really tired, but they also make me feel very confident, and I look like a dude with them, so I started wearing them everywhere even when not needed. I think people don’t notice my flaws when my glasses are on my face. Problem is that it also makes me feel like a fraud, since I don’t really need them like some others do, and it’s hard to explain to family since I haven’t come out yet.

Is it ok to wear them for passing, and how do I explain this to family without sounding like a bigot?

I have them on my neck, both legs, my abdomen. It makes it difficult to walk up the stairs :(

I don’t understand why since all I did was a simple downwind, but I’m doing another one today and I can’t do it with my legs like this.

How do I get rid of them fast?

I’ve recently started socially transitioning at 14 and I really want to start T soon. I think 15 or 16 y old would be perfect but I don’t know if I need to wait need some special requirements or that I can’t start as a minor… etc. My parents are pretty supportive so that’s good.

Every time I think about my body or what I am, I start crying, I don’t know why. It just feels like a distant dream to actually transition, and for everyone to accept me.
Only 3 people know I’m trans, my mom and 2 friends. As I’m with my dad for this month of the vacation it’s hard to tell him.
I need to do tennis and a surfing camp next week but I feel so uncomfortable in the clothing, especially the surf suit, as it highlights my chest and I hate that. Im also terrified of the big waves and open sea but my dad doesn’t seam to care.
Thankfully my period cramps have helped me skip the beguinning of my tennis lessons, but now I’ll have to to go, the worst part is I’m doing it at the prime time the sun is blasting on the pitch. How do I avoid these situations without explaining my dysphoria and telling him my fear?
My dad’s obviously not open for discussions, he doesn’t believe me when I ask him to postpone an activity since I am a lazy bed rotting person.

So I use to be really good friends with this person, but she suddenly switched up after becoming closer with the some toxic people, and they were constantly harassing me and stuff, texting me spam calling me. I told them I was at my grandfathers funeral and they didn’t believe me, I then could bring my phone, to scared they would spam call me. The never bullied me, made fun of my boyfriend, made me scared to go school, cry and cut slits in my arm from the stress. She was definitely the worse of the 3. Then I snitched and we had a really long talk in the principals office. People started a rumour about her, she lost her friends became a sad b*tch and I felt nothing for her.
Until she started to get harassed by the same “toxic friends”. Karma? But then she came back to me apologised and shit tried to be friend. I let her cuz I honestly felt bad, but I regret. She’s quite annoying. She’s always with a friend group that don’t really like her. She’s still lying. And over dramatic. But she’s also still getting harrased and she’s also really funny, and nice most of the time.

Is this manipulation or like an actual new character arc?

So 2 years ago my parents separated, a year ago they started the divorce process and my found out my dad cheated on her for 4 years. Now my dad invited the woman he cheated on to stay 2 days in the house. I hate her. And she’s just there, like she lives in the house and I can’t stand it. She talks to me like we are friends, and I refuse to look at her, or go down stairs to see her unless diner. The problem is that I don’t want her to feel welcomed by me, but yet at diner k had small conversations with her (no eye contact) or went it to deep stuff and didn’t mind her chiming in. I don’t know what to feel about her. I’m also suppose to keep this a secret from my mom, and I really don’t want to hurt her feelings, she has panick attacks from these kind of things.

Does someone have a similar experience or have tips to this. As I’m a minor I can’t really do anything for my parents and I’m kinda hopeless.

So weird thing I’ve discovered when my dad massaged my head after a brutal night of studying, is that when he massaged behind my head near my ears, I felt a pulling sensation on my hip. I have no idea what it is, and what it means.

I just want to make sure it’s something I should check on. Every time he does it again, I feel it, just not when I do it, like remote controlled tickling.

I feel a sort of weight pressed on my forehead, when something is of proximity of my forehead, which is sometimes annoying. Does anyone relate or is it just me?

I don’t just see myself in 1st person, but also in 3rd person, in the perspective of someone looking at me. It’s like a double vision of sorts. I see 1st and the 3rd person vision at the same time, and it’s not annoying or distracting. It’s weird since it’s constantly updating itself as well, for example when I got glasses, my other vision took a while before updating it to have my glasses. And it shows myself pretty well, including my top body and a blur of my bottom body. Does anybody else experience this?

I live in Geneva and want to bring my boyfriend to go swimming at Lake Leman, but want to go somewhere quiet with not a lot of people, and charming. I normally go to Baby Plage, but there are a lot of people. Any recommendations?