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Folks with stage 4, how would you feel if your loved ones reminded you of happy memories you had together?
Would you feel happy or sad?
Cat parents, do you have a litterbox in your bedroom?
reddit.comConverting from United Methodism
Hi all, I was born and raised United Methodist. A couple of years ago I started attending an Episcopalian church but I wasn’t a member. I only stopped going because my sleep schedule no longer allowed me to wake up in the mornings. I agree with Episcopalian beliefs and practices.
Can I casually call myself Episcopalian or must I undergo a conversion process?
What’s your personal view of the Virgin Mary?
I know the Episcopalian Church doesn’t officially believe she’s Queen of Heaven, but I heard some Episcopalians privately disagree. I am wondering how common that is.
ETA: “To/with” is intended to mean “to and/or with.” I know there’s a theological difference but I didn’t have enough options to include on the poll. Please choose one of those options if you pray “with” her
Methodists in the US, what’s your personal view of Virgin Mary?
I know the Methodist Church doesn’t view her as Queen of Heaven or pray with/to her, but I was wondering if some Methodists do it privately
ETA: “To/with” is intended to mean “to and/or with.” I know there’s a theological difference but I didn’t have enough options to include on the poll.
Do some saints punish sinners?
I came across the following blog post about Saint Marina of Antioch which says:
“In the collective consciousness of Sozopolians St. Marina is both revered and feared as the one who spreads justice first and benevolence second; she is highly regarded and respected as the only saint who would not just help and answer their prayers, but who would **first punish the sinner for their misdeeds and only then offer them help.”** https://apolloniapost.wordpress.com/2016/01/24/st-marina-and-the-great-goddess/
I’m not sure the accuracy of the blog post since I can’t find information on the topic elsewhere.
So is this true of Marina or other saints?
What was the process of entering a relationship like for you?
There are a lot of questions about where you met your partner but I’m curious what the process was like as you went from being strangers to being partners.
Who made the first move? Did they start flirting? Did you? Who asked out whom?
Did you start out as friends and one of you confessed feelings? If so, how did you become friends in the first place, and who confessed feelings first?
Etcetera
What are your feelings about subreddits that upload images of random people from social media to mock/bully them for their physical appearance?
reddit.comDo you upvote/like comments on social media that make fun of innocent people’s physical appearance?
reddit.comDo you comment on innocent people’s social media to make fun of their physical appearance?
reddit.comDoes Black Madonna behave differently from other titles of Mother Mary?
I hear a lot about dark goddesses or saints being more intimidating. I’m curious if this applies to Black Madonna compared to other titles of Mother Mary. What’s your experience?
ETA: I’m also curious about Mary titles like Our Lady of Sorrows, Empress of Hell, etc
How would you feel about an Instagram reel mocking a clip of a woman being tripped down an escalator and injured? (Ages 25+)
A video like this got 10 million likes so I want to know if most people really think these sorts of videos are funny
What do you think of people who date their friends’ abusers?
reddit.comDoes Mary behave differently depending on her title?
I believe they’re the same spirit regardless but I’m curious if Mary behaves differently in her different titles (e.g. Queen of Creation vs Stella Maris vs Black Madonna).
Being skinny and still being ostracized despite the stereotypes
For context, I was always fairly average-looking. I was underweight for most of my life and now at 29 I’m on the slim side of a healthy weight.
Whenever I see discussions about how skinny people have it so much easier socially, I get sad because I grew up very skinny & I was the lowest on the social totem pole. The (neurotypical) overweight kids were low, but I was even lower. I would try to hang out with them but they would run away from me like I was plague so I ended up sitting alone.
I spent a lot of time isolating myself because I was socially traumatized. I finally decided in my mid-20s to try to make friends. I went to probably 50 different events at a variety of different groups over 2 years before I made a friend. Most communities excluded me.
Oftentimes I would go to events and end up crying afterwards because I was excluded.
I’ve made a few friends at a local pride center but aside from that, the only communities that were welcoming to me turned out to be run by known sexual predators who were trying to prey on me (as well as their enablers).
It feels like I’m invisible unless someone wants to exploit me sexually.
I’ve never been in a relationship or kissed anyone.
Anyway, what’s really bothering me lately is that people argue skinny people have it easier socially. I am coming up on 30 now. I’m worried that as I get older, gain weight, and age (therefore becoming less conventionally attractive), I’ll be even more invisible and isolated.
Can anyone relate or offer words of comfort or advice?
Isis and Christianity
In the Greco-Roman era, Isis was considered the All-Mother Creator Goddess “of 10,000 Names” - all other goddesses were seen as faces of Isis. There are parallels between her, Mary, and Sophia.
Has anyone syncretized Isis and Christianity? Is Isis the same being as Sophia and/or Mary, in your experience? If not, does she mesh well with the Christian Godhead, or do you worship separately?
I’m curious if anyone has encountered saints in their near death experiences.
Cats and Mary (and other Christian figures)
I want to venerate a Christian figure with explicit associations with cats.
I know that Mary has some folklore surrounding cats, namely that tabby cats’ “M” markings are a blessing from Mary because a tabby cat kept baby Jesus warm, & that a virgin cat gave birth to a kitten the same day Jesus was born. I also know that some historical artwork of Mary included cats.
I was wondering if anyone has personal experience with cats and Mary, or any other Christian figure (saint, angel, face of God, etc)?