u/AccomplishedLeg2354

I(21F) want to build muscles and lose fat, I go to gym 5 times a week. Help me out

I’m 5,5 and 59kg. I wannna lose weight and become really muscular and strong.
I workout 5 times a week but I can’t even do a push up or pull up.
Help me out, what can I do????
I have developed some muscles but it’s not very significant.

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 3 days ago
▲ 93 r/delhi

Wtf is wrong with the men of this city???? Why do they have a staring problem!!!!

I went for a walk to the nearby district park, wore a very normal tank top and joggers. But literally a group of guys stared at me for good 5mins and then followed me around the park. I had to go and stand near a group of people who were playing badminton because I felt very unsafe.

I noticed so many men staring at me, it was creepy af. It’s exhausting to be on guard 24/7.
How do the girlies go for walks and runs in this city????

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 4 days ago

I(21f) want to talk about something I have been struggling with a lot, please help me out 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

So I dated a guy for almost a year. The relationship was toxic and everything that could go wrong in a relationship was there like cheating, verbal abuse, lying,etc.
my ex shamed me for having a pubic insta account which I made private then, he shamed for hanging out with boys, if I wanted to go on a trip with friends he would slut shame me, if I wanted to try clubbing he would slutshame me, even though he used to go clubbing.

He used to say”ACHE GHAR KI LADKIYA YE SAB NAHI KARTI”
he called me loose, shamed my body parts, my private parts,etc. and due to that my view on men and sex has turned extremely negative.
I get triggered now even if someone makes a sexual joke, I feel like it’s intended towards me and that they are slutshaming me. I get really triggered.

I want to get out of this situation as it is very hurtful and is killing my self esteem.

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 5 days ago

I keep having dreams about my ex and they are disturbing me a lot mentally 😭😭😭

Wtf do I do?? What does these dreams mean. He has moved on and started seeing other people but I am sad and miserable.

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 11 days ago
▲ 8 r/Dreams

I keep having dreams about my ex and they are disturbing me a lot mentally 😭😭😭

Wtf do I do?? What does these dreams mean. He has moved on and started seeing other people but I am sad and miserable.

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 11 days ago

I’m (21F) unable to move on from my ex(22m), he appears in my dreams. I hate him too much yet I hope he will reach out to me. I’m cooked 😭😭😭

He cheated on me, verbally abused me. Was a hypocrite, he was on a dating app but slutshamed me when I went on one after our breakup.
I just hate him sooo much, wish I could slap him hard.
Wtf is wrong with me. I dreamt of him where he was lying to me and talking to other girls.

I really want this to stop now 😭😭😭😭

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 12 days ago
▲ 340 r/delhi

I wanted to try doing hip trust with a rod for the first time so I asked for help from a gym trainer. He helped me in loading the rod and putting it on my waist.
But while doing this his crotch was very near to my face and it must have looked really inappropriate to all the people present in the gym.

I’m disgusted with my self honestly idk why.
I saw the gym owner notice this and he called him and kind of gave him a warning.
I now feel everyone in the gym will think I am a disgusting girl who likes all this, my image is ruined in the gym. I’m ashamed so much 😭😭😭😭
I don’t want to step in the gym ever again now
I did feel uncomfortable but I thought that is how it’s supposed to be. Wtf I am so dumb and idiot

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 15 days ago

The delivery took almost a month, for a single top to arrive.
Then when it was delivered it came without a tag, so I can’t even return it. The costumer service is so unhelpful, they don’t reply to texts or call back. It’s stupid.

u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 16 days ago

I miss having someone I can tell about my day, the excitement, having a best friend you can talk to at anytime about anything.
I miss all that. Going on dates, spending time together. I am happy being single, it’s very peaceful, don’t have to deal with someone’s mood swings and I don’t get anxiety.
But I do miss the intimacy aspect of a relationship (not physical intimacy).

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 17 days ago
▲ 18 r/delhi

Appetite has completely gone and energy levels have fallen. I just keep sleeping in my ac room and am unable to stay outside at all.

My blood pressure levels are low too in this weather.

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 19 days ago

He reached out after the breakup like a maniac, he begged me and everything. He said he wants to marry me and bs.

Then he today told me he doesn’t think we are compatible, he said we both are immature.

He said marrying me was a baseless ambition he had

Wtf is this ????? 😭😭😭

I think he genuinely ended things.

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u/AccomplishedLeg2354 — 25 days ago