Dear you

To the person who never hesitated.

Thank you.

You probably don’t know how much weight a single word can carry. How something as small as remembering who someone is can become something they remember for years.

Maybe, to you, it was just a word.
Just a label.
Just another sentence.

But to me, it was recognition.

I’ve spent so much of my life being corrected into someone I’m not. Explained away. Forgotten. Told that I’ll “figure it out,” that i’m “just hiding my true sexuality,” or simply watched as people chose the version of me that made them more comfortable.

So when you called me what I asked to be called—without debate, without hesitation, without making me earn it—you gave me something far bigger than courtesy.

You gave me peace.

You reminded me that being seen doesn’t have to be a battle. That my identity doesn’t need to be defended to deserve respect. That maybe, just maybe, there are people who will meet me exactly where I am instead of asking me to become someone easier to understand.

I’m bi.
Not “confused.”
Not “actually gay.”
Not “basically straight.”
Not “going through a phase.”

Just bi.

And thank you for letting that be enough.
You’ll probably never know how healing it is to exist in a conversation where you don’t have to brace yourself for erasure.

So this is for you—the stranger, the friend, the teacher, the coworker, the person behind a screen, or anyone who simply chose respect over assumption.

Thank you for seeing me before trying to define me.
The world needs more people like you.

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u/According_Money8393 — 1 day ago

Wondrfools

Am i alone in this?

I dont think ive ever watched cha eun woo on anything and im on episode 1 of wonderfools andddd first impression is pretty bad lol. Idk, something feels off with his acting. It’s like he doesnt fit in the show. Dont know how to explain it. Like they dont give him notes and just let him act how he acts. Clout? I give everyone chances but he’s just… idk dude. This show came out this year so i know hes no rookie here. I really wanna watch this show. Someone tell me it gets better

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u/According_Money8393 — 7 days ago
▲ 3 r/guam

Anyone seen marbles around?

looking as a cat toy so i dont need much. maybe even just 1 but they prob dont sell singles lol

u/According_Money8393 — 12 days ago
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Glass cut?

Anyone know if home depot cuts glass? I need a small sliding door. If so, how much was it? If not, anywhere on island to cut glass?

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u/According_Money8393 — 17 days ago
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The option to go through videos faster disappeared..?

I used to have the choice to be able to scroll by the hour it seemed like. What changed? We still have the same plan, the continuous recording

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u/According_Money8393 — 2 months ago

I loveee this hair on him (his little aegyo expression here is so cute too)

Lee Chan-Seventeen

also, can we please get every member to do Woozi's part? Dino killed it putting his own flavor into it. I'm sure the other members would be so different too

https://preview.redd.it/x1s4y10xmr1h1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=cf328312b3626c579546e6ae16699c7f25357714

https://preview.redd.it/dedxrjz1nr1h1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=7156e3d56e59cd835ba2c6d177819f4e7e659cd9

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u/According_Money8393 — 2 months ago
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Genuinely trying to understand

To whomever this may concern,

Besides making room for long vehicles or trucks turning in, what keeps you from stopping right at the line? I notice people leaving an entire car-length gap behind it. From how I see it, usually only the far-left lane really needs to leave extra space for incoming trucks (sometimes) anyway. So what’s going on here?

I want to know cause some of these traffic lights would only allow 1-2 cars to pass lol

u/According_Money8393 — 2 months ago

I just know it’s happened

I’d say I’m a pretty average-looking guy. Over the years, people have told me they used to have a crush on me, and honestly, I never noticed any of the signs. So I’d like to formally apologize to anyone who’s ever tried flirting with me — I’m just painfully oblivious when it comes to that stuff.

I think a lot about the ‘what could’ve beens.’ It kinda sucks that people rarely say what they actually feel. I’m honestly more of a ‘he fell harder’ than a ‘he fell first’ kinda guy… so maybe we could’ve had something beautiful.

Oh well

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u/According_Money8393 — 2 months ago
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I understand driving slowly and safely cause police, ambulance and whatnot but a lot of them are literally stopping to look at the commotion.

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u/According_Money8393 — 2 months ago