u/AcquisitionPro1102

I just wanted some other perspectives. I am a very experienced Contracting Officer with 20 years of acquisition experience. I just recently started a new position in a new organization and I submitted a package to management for review and they heavily edited/corrected my package. Not trying to sound arrogant, but it was a little bothersome to me because of my experience level and there wasn’t anything overly wrong with my package, they just wanted it in a different format and written in a different way. Am I being too sensitive? Has anyone ever dealt with this? Everyone is nice, it was just a little bothersome to me.

My ex gf and I had a very contentious relationship at the end. She was pregnant and eventually had a miscarriage. I told her initially (before pregnancy) that I wasn’t in a rush to get married and I wanted a prenup and she went off about me not marrying her and her mom talked to me about her daughter being a single mom, and she said her friends were appalled that I said I didn’t have a timeframe for marriage. Things started off great, but as time went on, I saw things in her that were a huge concern of mine and didn’t want to jump into marriage with her. Shortly after, she started dealing back with her ex and I started dealing with a former partner. I now have a new woman in my life. She was still very hostile with me after the fact. We went a long time without speaking. She was frequently still viewing my social media stories up until recently and it was taking a long time for us to exchange items that we left at each other’s place. Recently, she has been super nice and smiling when I saw her and seemed to really want to engage in conversation. Why does she act like that and why so hostile and then nice and frequently view my social media and still follow me, especially if we have moved on with other people? I have been trying to get her stuff back to her and had asked for my stuff back as well. I finally was able to exchange items and then she said that there was something else of hers at my house. She never mentioned it before. When I opened the bag of stuff that she gave me, another guys underwear were in there. Lol. I thought it was pretty funny. I nicely mentioned that some of the boxers that were in the bag were not mine and she went off and started calling me names and saying that they were mine. Did she give me another man’s boxers on purpose or was it an accident? If it was on purpose, why would she get so upset when I told her nicely that they weren’t mine. Thoughts? We are both college educated and professional and she’s in her 30s and I’m in my 40s.

My ex gf and I had a very contentious relationship at the end. She was pregnant and eventually had a miscarriage. I told her initially (before pregnancy) that I wasn’t in a rush to get married and I wanted a prenup and she went off about me not marrying her and her mom talked to me about her daughter being a single mom, and she said her friends were appalled that I said I didn’t have a timeframe for marriage. Things started off great, but as time went on, I saw things in her that were a huge concern of mine and didn’t want to jump into marriage with her. Shortly after, she started dealing back with her ex and I started dealing with a former partner. I now have a new woman in my life. She was still very hostile with me after the fact. We went a long time without speaking. She was frequently still viewing my social media stories up until recently and it was taking a long time for us to exchange items that we left at each other’s place. Recently, she has been super nice and smiling when I saw her and seemed to really want to engage in conversation. Why does she act like that and why so hostile and then nice and frequently view my social media and still follow me, especially if we have moved on with other people? I have been trying to get her stuff back to her and had asked for my stuff back as well. I finally was able to exchange items and then she said that there was something else of hers at my house. She never mentioned it before. When I opened the bag of stuff that she gave me, another guys underwear were in there. Lol. I thought it was pretty funny. I nicely mentioned that some of the boxers that were in the bag were not mine and she went off and started calling me names and saying that they were mine. Did she give me another man’s boxers on purpose or was it an accident? If it was on purpose, why would she get so upset when I told her nicely that they weren’t mine. Thoughts? We are both college educated and professional and she’s in her 30s and I’m in my 40s.

My ex gf and I had a very contentious relationship at the end. She was pregnant and eventually had a miscarriage. I told her initially (before pregnancy) that I wasn’t in a rush to get married and I wanted a prenup and she went off about me not marrying her and her mom talked to me about her daughter being a single mom, and she said her friends were appalled that I said I didn’t have a timeframe for marriage. Things started off great, but as time went on, I saw things in her that were a huge concern of mine and didn’t want to jump into marriage with her. Shortly after, she started dealing back with her ex and I started dealing with a former partner. I now have a new woman in my life. She was still very hostile with me after the fact. We went a long time without speaking. She was frequently still viewing my social media stories up until recently and it was taking a long time for us to exchange items that we left at each other’s place. Recently, she has been super nice and smiling when I saw her and seemed to really want to engage in conversation. Why does she act like that and why so hostile and then nice and frequently view my social media and still follow me, especially if we have moved on with other people? I have been trying to get her stuff back to her and had asked for my stuff back as well. I finally was able to exchange items and then she said that there was something else of hers at my house. She never mentioned it before. When I opened the bag of stuff that she gave me, another guys underwear were in there. Lol. I thought it was pretty funny. I nicely mentioned that some of the boxers that were in the bag were not mine and she went off and started calling me names and saying that they were mine. Did she give me another man’s boxers on purpose or was it an accident? If it was on purpose, why would she get so upset when I told her nicely that they weren’t mine. Thoughts? We are both college educated and professional and she’s in her 30s and I’m in my 40s.

My ex gf and I had a very contentious relationship at the end. She was pregnant and eventually had a miscarriage. I told her initially (before pregnancy) that I wasn’t in a rush to get married and I wanted a prenup and she went off about me not marrying her and her mom talked to me about her daughter being a single mom, and she said her friends were appalled that I said I didn’t have a timeframe for marriage. Things started off great, but as time went on, I saw things in her that were a huge concern of mine and didn’t want to jump into marriage with her. Shortly after, she started dealing back with her ex and I started dealing with a former partner. I now have a new woman in my life. She was still very hostile with me after the fact. We went a long time without speaking. She was frequently still viewing my social media stories up until recently and it was taking a long time for us to exchange items that we left at each other’s place. Recently, she has been super nice and smiling when I saw her and seemed to really want to engage in conversation. Why does she act like that and why so hostile and then nice and frequently view my social media and still follow me, especially if we have moved on with other people? Thoughts? We are both college educated and professional and she’s in her 30s and I’m in my 40s.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. I found out she started reaching out and talking to an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. We agreed to take space and I told her I wasn’t going to marry her and there were too many issues and I found out later she started reaching out and seeing an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. I found out she started reaching out and talking to an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. I found out she started reaching out and talking to an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. I found out she started reaching out and talking to an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

Does anyone know how pay increases work under Acq Demo (NH pay bands)? For instance, if you get a fully successful, do you get a percentage or do you get nothing? I know it’s not like under the GS pay scale where you automatically get a step increase with satisfactory performance.