u/AcrobaticConstant567

Are there women who you don't see as either attractive or unattractive?

Up until recently I saw a single father I know as just that - my child's friend's father. However recently I have been seeing him as an attractive man, and I would love for him to also feel some attraction but don't want him to feel awkward or creeped out if he senses I like him in that way.

Do men often feel creeped out by a woman who they suspect is attracted to them? Or do they just ignore it?

How can a woman plant some attraction in your mind?

I'm so shy. I act normal around him, but my heart beats so fast.

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u/AcrobaticConstant567 — 20 days ago

Attracted to a single father

Hi, I’d appreciate some perspective on a situation.

I’ve got to know another parent over the last few months because our children are friends. Lately I’ve realised I am so attracted to him, but I really don’t want to make things awkward and don't want him to realise that I'm attracted to him.

I’ve been friendly, chatting, smiling, making an effort with my dresses etc. How likely is he to pick up on this attraction? I want to encourage him but not make him feel uncomfortable. If a man feels that a woman is attracted to him, does it sometimes make him avoid her or feel uncomfortable?

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u/AcrobaticConstant567 — 20 days ago

I have suddenly found myself atttacted to a single dad and have started to wear dresses more often and put a little more makeup on than before, just a subtle bit more effort. We've known each other about 3 months.

However, as I know him because our children are friends I don't want him to think I'm attracted to him in case it makes him feel uncomfortable, but at the same time I can't help wanting him to also feel something.

How can I tell if he could be similarly attracted to me and if you were in that situation as a single father, what would you do or think? I don't want him to feel creeped out anyway.

Thank you for reading.

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u/AcrobaticConstant567 — 20 days ago