u/AdamSandlersBBshorts

My son is 11 and he is disabled and has a life limiting heart defect, they dont have a timeline for when. Hes on pallative care so its not going to be soon , but once he goes into heart failure unfortunately there wont be much else they can do.

I am a single mother, I can only work part time so if he passes away I cant say I would be able to afford anything, so my mom asked me if I could use my tax refund next year to preplan and I didnt know that was something I could do, but would it be worth it?

It sickens me I have to think this and when I talk to my friends they act like im depraved but I want to give my baby a good goodbye.