u/Additional_Pipe6459

Hey so I know this look super long but I’ve been depressed and shit about this and it would mean the world to me if I could just get a little feedback, I don’t have many people in my life I would like to talk to this about and I’ve been using Ai to express my feelings about this, please if anyone could give me feedback or advice I would greatly appreciate it.

Hey there, basically there’s a girl I had a crush on for months in school. I’d think about her all the time and one day I had to courage to go up to her and talk to her. I just asked if she needed me to grab her a math book, she said yes and I just grabbed her a math book and that was pretty much it. Later that day she added me on snap and instagram and we were snapping back and forth and stuff like that. Eventually it evolved into something this March and we were talking in school and texting all the time and everything like that, I was ontop of the world I don’t really get that many girls and to have a THIS girl talking to me was a dream come true. I mean she is great she’s drop dead gorgeous, actually pretty funny and is very easy to talk to. She is the one that mostly initiated it over snap and everything but that’s not to say I wasn’t doing my part. Fast foward a month into this things are getting a little slower but we were still texting and everything. One day I was chilling in my Bio class with my friend let’s call him Snake. Me and the girl were texting and stuff at the time since she wasn’t at school that day and we were talking about her birthday that was the day before. (This is around April 9th) The girl sends me a mirror pic of her in a bikini and my friend Snake sees this on my phone without me knowing and calls it out. I play it off like it was not that and it was just a normal snap and that’s when the convo ended. A little thing to know about snake is that he is decently friends with the girl, they have been before I was talking to her and still, he has told me multiple times he has no interest in dating her and he seemed pretty genuine about it and I do believe him on that part. After that whole thing I see that I was unadded from Snapchat on my phone by her. I didn’t understand what happened so I texted my friend snake and he said that she was just being weird or something. The next day I dm’d her on instagram saying how I’d never show that pic intentionally and stuff and just trying to clear my name because my friend snake kinda told me what she thought I did but he was defending me. A week after I sent that she finally reads it and we text back and forth about it. Apparently my friend Snake told her I showed him and everyone around me the bikini pic. I explained myself and we agreed not to talk to Snake about this because he’s going to be annoying about it. She added me back but things just weren’t the same we kinda snapped for like a week and she randomly asked me some question about school and I was left on opened for like a week until I sent a snap and we’ve been back snapping. We’ve been snapping but it’s not the same, we send face pics and stuff and sometimes she’ll save one of my snaps in chat but that’s it. She’ll leave my on delivered for up to a day (I’m on delivered for a day as I’m writing this). I’m just at a lost, I really enjoyed my time talking to her and I really miss what we had but I don’t know what the move is now. I would like to pursue a little bit but I don’t know how I can respark what we had. If anyone had any feedback or questions I would be happy to answer. I left a lot of the nitty details out to try to keep it short in the hopes of someone reading what I have to say. Please if anyone had anything to say I’d greatly appreciate it. Do you think I still have a decent chance with her?

Hey so I know this look super long but I’ve been depressed and shit about this and it would mean the world to me if I could just get a little feedback, I don’t have many people in my life I would like to talk to this about and I’ve been using Ai to express my feelings about this, please if anyone could give me feedback or advice I would greatly appreciate it.

Hey there, basically there’s a girl I had a crush on for months in school. I’d think about her all the time and one day I had to courage to go up to her and talk to her. I just asked if she needed me to grab her a math book, she said yes and I just grabbed her a math book and that was pretty much it. Later that day she added me on snap and instagram and we were snapping back and forth and stuff like that. Eventually it evolved into something this March and we were talking in school and texting all the time and everything like that, I was ontop of the world I don’t really get that many girls and to have a THIS girl talking to me was a dream come true. I mean she is great she’s drop dead gorgeous, actually pretty funny and is very easy to talk to. She is the one that mostly initiated it over snap and everything but that’s not to say I wasn’t doing my part. Fast foward a month into this things are getting a little slower but we were still texting and everything. One day I was chilling in my Bio class with my friend let’s call him Snake. Me and the girl were texting and stuff at the time since she wasn’t at school that day and we were talking about her birthday that was the day before. (This is around April 9th) The girl sends me a mirror pic of her in a bikini and my friend Snake sees this on my phone without me knowing and calls it out. I play it off like it was not that and it was just a normal snap and that’s when the convo ended. A little thing to know about snake is that he is decently friends with the girl, they have been before I was talking to her and still, he has told me multiple times he has no interest in dating her and he seemed pretty genuine about it and I do believe him on that part. After that whole thing I see that I was unadded from Snapchat on my phone by her. I didn’t understand what happened so I texted my friend snake and he said that she was just being weird or something. The next day I dm’d her on instagram saying how I’d never show that pic intentionally and stuff and just trying to clear my name because my friend snake kinda told me what she thought I did but he was defending me. A week after I sent that she finally reads it and we text back and forth about it. Apparently my friend Snake told her I showed him and everyone around me the bikini pic. I explained myself and we agreed not to talk to Snake about this because he’s going to be annoying about it. She added me back but things just weren’t the same we kinda snapped for like a week and she randomly asked me some question about school and I was left on opened for like a week until I sent a snap and we’ve been back snapping. We’ve been snapping but it’s not the same, we send face pics and stuff and sometimes she’ll save one of my snaps in chat but that’s it. She’ll leave my on delivered for up to a day (I’m on delivered for a day as I’m writing this). I’m just at a lost, I really enjoyed my time talking to her and I really miss what we had but I don’t know what the move is now. I would like to pursue a little bit but I don’t know how I can respark what we had. If anyone had any feedback or questions I would be happy to answer. I left a lot of the nitty details out to try to keep it short in the hopes of someone reading what I have to say. Please if anyone had anything to say I’d greatly appreciate it. Do you think I still have a decent chance with her?

Hey so I know this look super long but I’ve been depressed and shit about this and it would mean the world to me if I could just get a little feedback, I don’t have many people in my life I would like to talk to this about and I’ve been using Ai to express my feelings about this, please if anyone could give me feedback or advice I would greatly appreciate it.

Hey there, basically there’s a girl I had a crush on for months in school. I’d think about her all the time and one day I had to courage to go up to her and talk to her. I just asked if she needed me to grab her a math book, she said yes and I just grabbed her a math book and that was pretty much it. Later that day she added me on snap and instagram and we were snapping back and forth and stuff like that. Eventually it evolved into something this March and we were talking in school and texting all the time and everything like that, I was ontop of the world I don’t really get that many girls and to have a THIS girl talking to me was a dream come true. I mean she is great she’s drop dead gorgeous, actually pretty funny and is very easy to talk to. She is the one that mostly initiated it over snap and everything but that’s not to say I wasn’t doing my part. Fast foward a month into this things are getting a little slower but we were still texting and everything. One day I was chilling in my Bio class with my friend let’s call him Snake. Me and the girl were texting and stuff at the time since she wasn’t at school that day and we were talking about her birthday that was the day before. (This is around April 9th) The girl sends me a mirror pic of her in a bikini and my friend Snake sees this on my phone without me knowing and calls it out. I play it off like it was not that and it was just a normal snap and that’s when the convo ended. A little thing to know about snake is that he is decently friends with the girl, they have been before I was talking to her and still, he has told me multiple times he has no interest in dating her and he seemed pretty genuine about it and I do believe him on that part. After that whole thing I see that I was unadded from Snapchat on my phone by her. I didn’t understand what happened so I texted my friend snake and he said that she was just being weird or something. The next day I dm’d her on instagram saying how I’d never show that pic intentionally and stuff and just trying to clear my name because my friend snake kinda told me what she thought I did but he was defending me. A week after I sent that she finally reads it and we text back and forth about it. Apparently my friend Snake told her I showed him and everyone around me the bikini pic. I explained myself and we agreed not to talk to Snake about this because he’s going to be annoying about it. She added me back but things just weren’t the same we kinda snapped for like a week and she randomly asked me some question about school and I was left on opened for like a week until I sent a snap and we’ve been back snapping. We’ve been snapping but it’s not the same, we send face pics and stuff and sometimes she’ll save one of my snaps in chat but that’s it. She’ll leave my on delivered for up to a day (I’m on delivered for a day as I’m writing this). I’m just at a lost, I really enjoyed my time talking to her and I really miss what we had but I don’t know what the move is now. I would like to pursue a little bit but I don’t know how I can respark what we had. If anyone had any feedback or questions I would be happy to answer. I left a lot of the nitty details out to try to keep it short in the hopes of someone reading what I have to say. Please if anyone had anything to say I’d greatly appreciate it.

Hey so I know this look super long but I’ve been depressed and shit about this and it would mean the world to me if I could just get a little feedback, I don’t have many people in my life I would like to talk to this about and I’ve been using Ai to express my feelings about this, please if anyone could give me feedback or advice I would greatly appreciate it.

Hey there, basically there’s a girl I had a crush on for months in school. I’d think about her all the time and one day I had to courage to go up to her and talk to her. I just asked if she needed me to grab her a math book, she said yes and I just grabbed her a math book and that was pretty much it. Later that day she added me on snap and instagram and we were snapping back and forth and stuff like that. Eventually it evolved into something this March and we were talking in school and texting all the time and everything like that, I was ontop of the world I don’t really get that many girls and to have a THIS girl talking to me was a dream come true. I mean she is great she’s drop dead gorgeous, actually pretty funny and is very easy to talk to. She is the one that mostly initiated it over snap and everything but that’s not to say I wasn’t doing my part. Fast foward a month into this things are getting a little slower but we were still texting and everything. One day I was chilling in my Bio class with my friend let’s call him Snake. Me and the girl were texting and stuff at the time since she wasn’t at school that day and we were talking about her birthday that was the day before. (This is around April 9th) The girl sends me a mirror pic of her in a bikini and my friend Snake sees this on my phone without me knowing and calls it out. I play it off like it was not that and it was just a normal snap and that’s when the convo ended. A little thing to know about snake is that he is decently friends with the girl, they have been before I was talking to her and still, he has told me multiple times he has no interest in dating her and he seemed pretty genuine about it and I do believe him on that part. After that whole thing I see that I was unadded from Snapchat on my phone by her. I didn’t understand what happened so I texted my friend snake and he said that she was just being weird or something. The next day I dm’d her on instagram saying how I’d never show that pic intentionally and stuff and just trying to clear my name because my friend snake kinda told me what she thought I did but he was defending me. A week after I sent that she finally reads it and we text back and forth about it. Apparently my friend Snake told her I showed him and everyone around me the bikini pic. I explained myself and we agreed not to talk to Snake about this because he’s going to be annoying about it. She added me back but things just weren’t the same we kinda snapped for like a week and she randomly asked me some question about school and I was left on opened for like a week until I sent a snap and we’ve been back snapping. We’ve been snapping but it’s not the same, we send face pics and stuff and sometimes she’ll save one of my snaps in chat but that’s it. She’ll leave my on delivered for up to a day (I’m on delivered for a day as I’m writing this). I’m just at a lost, I really enjoyed my time talking to her and I really miss what we had but I don’t know what the move is now. I would like to pursue a little bit but I don’t know how I can respark what we had. If anyone had any feedback or questions I would be happy to answer. I left a lot of the nitty details out to try to keep it short in the hopes of someone reading what I have to say. Please if anyone had anything to say I’d greatly appreciate it.

Hey so I know this look super long but I’ve been depressed and shit about this and it would mean the world to me if I could just get a little feedback, I don’t have many people in my life I would like to talk to this about and I’ve been using Ai to express my feelings about this, please if anyone could give me feedback or advice I would greatly appreciate it.

Hey there, basically there’s a girl I had a crush on for months in school. I’d think about her all the time and one day I had to courage to go up to her and talk to her. I just asked if she needed me to grab her a math book, she said yes and I just grabbed her a math book and that was pretty much it. Later that day she added me on snap and instagram and we were snapping back and forth and stuff like that. Eventually it evolved into something this March and we were talking in school and texting all the time and everything like that, I was ontop of the world I don’t really get that many girls and to have a THIS girl talking to me was a dream come true. I mean she is great she’s drop dead gorgeous, actually pretty funny and is very easy to talk to. She is the one that mostly initiated it over snap and everything but that’s not to say I wasn’t doing my part. Fast foward a month into this things are getting a little slower but we were still texting and everything. One day I was chilling in my Bio class with my friend let’s call him Snake. Me and the girl were texting and stuff at the time since she wasn’t at school that day and we were talking about her birthday that was the day before. (This is around April 9th) The girl sends me a mirror pic of her in a bikini and my friend Snake sees this on my phone without me knowing and calls it out. I play it off like it was not that and it was just a normal snap and that’s when the convo ended. A little thing to know about snake is that he is decently friends with the girl, they have been before I was talking to her and still, he has told me multiple times he has no interest in dating her and he seemed pretty genuine about it and I do believe him on that part. After that whole thing I see that I was unadded from Snapchat on my phone by her. I didn’t understand what happened so I texted my friend snake and he said that she was just being weird or something. The next day I dm’d her on instagram saying how I’d never show that pic intentionally and stuff and just trying to clear my name because my friend snake kinda told me what she thought I did but he was defending me. A week after I sent that she finally reads it and we text back and forth about it. Apparently my friend Snake told her I showed him and everyone around me the bikini pic. I explained myself and we agreed not to talk to Snake about this because he’s going to be annoying about it. She added me back but things just weren’t the same we kinda snapped for like a week and she randomly asked me some question about school and I was left on opened for like a week until I sent a snap and we’ve been back snapping. We’ve been snapping but it’s not the same, we send face pics and stuff and sometimes she’ll save one of my snaps in chat but that’s it. She’ll leave my on delivered for up to a day (I’m on delivered for a day as I’m writing this). I’m just at a lost, I really enjoyed my time talking to her and I really miss what we had but I don’t know what the move is now. I would like to pursue a little bit but I don’t know how I can respark what we had. If anyone had any feedback or questions I would be happy to answer. I left a lot of the nitty details out to try to keep it short in the hopes of someone reading what I have to say. Please if anyone had anything to say I’d greatly appreciate it.

Hey so I know this look super long but I’ve been depressed and shit about this and it would mean the world to me if I could just get a little feedback, I don’t have many people in my life I would like to talk to this about and I’ve been using Ai to express my feelings about this, please if anyone could give me feedback or advice I would greatly appreciate it.

Hey there, basically there’s a girl I had a crush on for months in school. I’d think about her all the time and one day I had to courage to go up to her and talk to her. I just asked if she needed me to grab her a math book, she said yes and I just grabbed her a math book and that was pretty much it. Later that day she added me on snap and instagram and we were snapping back and forth and stuff like that. Eventually it evolved into something this March and we were talking in school and texting all the time and everything like that, I was ontop of the world I don’t really get that many girls and to have a THIS girl talking to me was a dream come true. I mean she is great she’s drop dead gorgeous, actually pretty funny and is very easy to talk to. She is the one that mostly initiated it over snap and everything but that’s not to say I wasn’t doing my part. Fast foward a month into this things are getting a little slower but we were still texting and everything. One day I was chilling in my Bio class with my friend let’s call him Snake. Me and the girl were texting and stuff at the time since she wasn’t at school that day and we were talking about her birthday that was the day before. (This is around April 9th) The girl sends me a mirror pic of her in a bikini and my friend Snake sees this on my phone without me knowing and calls it out. I play it off like it was not that and it was just a normal snap and that’s when the convo ended. A little thing to know about snake is that he is decently friends with the girl, they have been before I was talking to her and still, he has told me multiple times he has no interest in dating her and he seemed pretty genuine about it and I do believe him on that part. After that whole thing I see that I was unadded from Snapchat on my phone by her. I didn’t understand what happened so I texted my friend snake and he said that she was just being weird or something. The next day I dm’d her on instagram saying how I’d never show that pic intentionally and stuff and just trying to clear my name because my friend snake kinda told me what she thought I did but he was defending me. A week after I sent that she finally reads it and we text back and forth about it. Apparently my friend Snake told her I showed him and everyone around me the bikini pic. I explained myself and we agreed not to talk to Snake about this because he’s going to be annoying about it. She added me back but things just weren’t the same we kinda snapped for like a week and she randomly asked me some question about school and I was left on opened for like a week until I sent a snap and we’ve been back snapping. We’ve been snapping but it’s not the same, we send face pics and stuff and sometimes she’ll save one of my snaps in chat but that’s it. She’ll leave my on delivered for up to a day (I’m on delivered for a day as I’m writing this). I’m just at a lost, I really enjoyed my time talking to her and I really miss what we had but I don’t know what the move is now. I would like to pursue a little bit but I don’t know how I can respark what we had. If anyone had any feedback or questions I would be happy to answer. I left a lot of the nitty details out to try to keep it short in the hopes of someone reading what I have to say. Please if anyone had anything to say I’d greatly appreciate it.

I’m in high school and there’s this girl I used to talk to for about a month. We weren’t dating, but it felt like something was there. We snapped a lot, talked sometimes, and even talked about hanging out. Her friends knew about me too, so I don’t think I imagined it.

Then it fell off. The vibe got weird, she got slower, and eventually left me opened for over a week, so I figured it was done.

Recently she started snapping me again. At first it was dry, but now it’s mixed. Sometimes she sends full face pics, snaps back fast, and has saved a couple of my snaps. We also have a class together and small in-person interactions are normal.

But she’s still inconsistent. She’ll seem interested one minute, then leave me delivered for 5–10+ hours while still being active. There’s also another guy she’s friends with who might be in the picture, but I don’t really know.

I still like her and miss when we actually talked. I don’t want to chase, but I also feel like if I do nothing, nothing will change.

How do I get her intreated in me again?

Should I lightly try to rebuild it by talking to her more in person / sending actual messages when there’s a natural opening, or just match her energy and move on if she stays inconsistent?

I will respond to all questions and feedback you have.