“Debt payoff + wealth building — realistic approach?”

I am 28M with in-hand salary of 1L per month, sole earner of the household (4 members including me) . I had taken some loans for restaurant business but it didn’t go well and had to close it last year, I have tried to close as much loans as possible within last year and currently the amount is close to 16L. Now I don’t have much savings at my hands and I am looking to increase my wealth as much as possible and trying to close the debts along side.. I do have a pressure to buy home from my parents for marriage but I do not have anything with me for down payment.. we have a small land in village which might go at 6L… it is not enough for down payment at the moment.. So I am thinking about investing my money at the moment and not going for any big home loans and alongside reduce my current debts as much as possible..

**Current situation:**

\*\*•\*\*	Salary: ₹1L/month    
\*\*•\*\*	Monthly expenses: \\\~₹65k (rent(25k), food(20k), other expenses (10k) , loan interest (10k))    
\*\*•\*\*	Current investments:gold ₹15k(first instalment was paid last month only) , indian stocks 5k    
\*\*•\*\*	Existing holdings: ₹1.3L in Indian stocks.,                  

₹80k in UK shares
**•** No emergency fund yet

**Debt breakdown:**

\*\*•\*\*	₹9L personal loan (interest-only, ₹10k/month, can negotiate repayment timeline)    
\*\*•\*\*	₹7-8L gold loan (low interest \\\~1-2%, no deadline)

Question-

\*\*•	where can I invest my remaining 15k and how to create my emergency fund at the earliest?\*\*    
\*\*•\*\*	Should I prioritize debt payoff over investing, or both in parallel?    
\*\*•\*\*	Any red flags in my current approach?

Open to suggestions and feedback. Thanks!

TL;DR: ₹1L salary per month, ₹16L debt (mixed, some personal, some gold loans), currently investing ₹30k/month. Looking for a solid wealth-building strategy.

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u/Adorable_Toe_3369 — 2 days ago

“Debt payoff + wealth building — realistic approach?”

I am 28M with in-hand salary of 1L per month, sole earner of the household (4 members including me) . I had taken some loans for restaurant business but it didn’t go well and had to close it last year, I have tried to close as much loans as possible within last year and currently the amount is close to 16L. Now I don’t have much savings at my hands and I am looking to increase my wealth as much as possible and trying to close the debts along side.. I do have a pressure to buy home from my parents for marriage but I do not have anything with me for down payment.. we have a small land in village which might go at 6L… it is not enough for down payment at the moment.. So I am thinking about investing my money at the moment and not going for any big home loans and alongside reduce my current debts as much as possible..

**Current situation:**

\*\*•\*\*	Salary: ₹1L/month    
\*\*•\*\*	Monthly expenses: \\\~₹65k (rent(25k), food(20k), other expenses (10k) , loan interest (10k))    
\*\*•\*\*	Current investments:gold ₹15k(first instalment was paid last month only) , indian stocks 5k    
\*\*•\*\*	Existing holdings: ₹1.3L in Indian stocks.,                  

₹80k in UK shares
**•** No emergency fund yet

**Debt breakdown:**

\*\*•\*\*	₹9L personal loan (interest-only, ₹10k/month, can negotiate repayment timeline)    
\*\*•\*\*	₹7-8L gold loan (low interest \\\~1-2%, no deadline)

Question-

\*\*•	where can I invest my remaining 15k and how to create my emergency fund at the earliest?\*\*    
\*\*•\*\*	Should I prioritize debt payoff over investing, or both in parallel?    
\*\*•\*\*	Any red flags in my current approach?

Open to suggestions and feedback. Thanks!

TL;DR: ₹1L salary per month, ₹16L debt (mixed, some personal, some gold loans), currently investing ₹30k/month. Looking for a solid wealth-building strategy.

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u/Adorable_Toe_3369 — 2 days ago

Movie in Marina Mall

Anyone going alone for Spider-Man BND movie at 12:40 show? I am going alone and looking to meet people and talk about the movie, we can have some chit chat and some snacks.

Hit me up if you are interested👍

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u/Adorable_Toe_3369 — 21 days ago

Stranger wants to be in virtual relationship with me for a week🫣

Yes you heard that right, I met a girl in random app and she is asking me to be in a relationship with her for a week and wants to see where it goes.. we haven’t shared anything yet, no photos yet … and I asked why would you do so? And she said naanum serupadi vangitu vandhuruken, neeyum oru serupadi vangiren, yen namma rendu perum idhu try panna kudadhu? Ennaku indha dealing konjam pudichu pochu… we had a good conversationso far without sharing anything personal, nalliki pesuvom nu solli ippo than chat close pannunom, I created a account in signal and had the chatting over there…

I know it looks to be scam … please tell me what should I careful about? Anyone went through same scenario before? Any advice to me on what to do and what not to do ? We are both from Chennai, I am thinking about meeting her to verify that it’s a girl… will not share anything yet money and won’t get attached 🥲… already vanguna adi apdi😅… bayam enga na mobile hack pannira kudadhu.. I have iphone so I think I am pretty much secured but irundhalum please suggest what not to do😅

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u/Adorable_Toe_3369 — 2 months ago

Strangers aa parthu smile panna, avangalum smile pannuvangala?

Inniki kalaila 570 bus le poitu irundhen, it’s my usual bus than but inniki I went way too early and it was crowded.. naa door pakathula ninnutu irundhen, and our beloved conductor was casual aa avaroda velaiya parthu irundharu ana gap kedaikura time le lam smile pannitu irundharu, enna nu partha oru ponnu, and avangalum smile pannanga, seri therinjavangala irukum or daily pora passenger aa irukum nu partha, andha manashen ella ponnungala parth smile panraru and in response to that those girls were also smiling, he was above 30 years old average looking guy and also looks like married.

So smile panna ippadiyum response varum nu inniki than purinjuchu, I used to afraid ki it might look creepy but that guy was doing it casually. It’s kind of new lesson learnt today, chumma share panlam nu indha oru post😁

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u/Adorable_Toe_3369 — 2 months ago

M28: What should I do next?

I had balding since childhood, like no hair since 5 years old, with help of a dermatologist, I was able to grow some hair on my head but couldn’t continue the oil and tablets due to financial issues.. the grown hair stayed but there were many balding patches in scalp which never grown…

Last year, I was in good condition to go to dermatologist and I regularly applied the oil and taken tablets prescribed by him… I did see some improvements but bald areas are still not growing anything, after like 8 months, my dermat just informed me that he had done everything using tablets and injections but there’s no signs of any growth, only option is to do transplant. But I have seen people who had done transplants and the response doesn’t looks good..

He just gave me minoxidil + fin 10% solution and dusteride tablets… and asked me to visit after 6 months…

Now I am not sure whether to continue this tablets for six months or go to ayurvedic or a different doctor?

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u/Adorable_Toe_3369 — 3 months ago