Moved from Triangle area to Ocean, NC. Regretting it bc of humidity, driving distances & extreme bug invasion in our new construction house. Help me feel better abt this as I'm stuck. It's not going to sell as new ones adjacent aren't selling. I'm so homesick even though I hated the old town just before leaving. Now I feel like it was much better.
I want to take my cat & leave.
Moving to better work area, getting new house for way less. Getting away from toxic sibling who hates my guts & whose family shuns our family. Like we don't exist & don't get invited to stuff. It upsets our kids. Doesn't know birthdays, doesn't care at all abt niece & nephew.
Moreover, I get harassed nonstop in a mean, demanding tone to always help with elderly parents. We help a whole lot & have helped a lot for many, many years. I call them daily also. But if occasions come up when we can't help, we're treated like we are horrible for it.
Now am being treated much worse due to moving and sibling blaming 100% on me. Have not shared reason for going or new location as they are so angry, they may take a bad action against me or make false accusations. We mind our own business & give polite answers but extreme harassment continues.
Parents say "you all should get along" when I'm doing nothing but keeping to myself and getting harassed. And when we get excluded from events, parents still attend with us left out and talk abt them & upset all of us.
Have even been told parents will pass away bc of my move upsetting them. Huh? And also that it's my job to do xyz like moving parents to rest home before we leave. We say we are sick (true) and trying to pack up (true), but it's invalidated. The parents don't want to move to rest home btw.
In the new place, other side of family loves us. It seems a no brainer to leave here. Parents here do also love us and kids, but don't stop sibling from harassing or blaming and poo poo it, telling me to keep talking to them.
We are Christian and we forgive. But are we sinners for leaving? I have severe PTSD from all this & it's not okay. But parents crying, making me feel guilty every time I call or visit.
Was abt to move to house in Peletier, but realised it is 2 mi from the speedway & the owners are moving after only a short time. Wonder if it is the noise?
Pls tell me how it is. PFAS. Specifically, newport, near the water tower. Did PFAS exceed the limit? Is Onslow Cty water better?
And is it bad to live near the water tower?
Need to make quick decision on a house.
Hi, we were thinking to buy a house in Magen's Bay, but just noticed that Carteret HealthCare is building an ER right behind it. Is that why people are moving? I'm worried to move there now.
My dad used to play a video of a happy song. It started with people sitting in a diner, depressed, as the news came on the old TV with more things to be depressed about. Then something makes them happy & they get up and start dancing with like 50s clothes. The only line I can remember is, "Let your heart be [?] like a [something something something]..:"
Very upbeat, seemed a British song maybe? Idk, was abt being happy no matter what the circumstance.
Heard this in 2015/2016 or so?
Does this sound familiar to anyone?
Haven't been asked back for the next year and we're on June 19 now. Usually have heard back by now to say if I'm interested in returning or not. Have only heard good things, no complaints.
I could log in as of a week ago. Am I sunk? Afraid to ask or check again.
Hi, looking at moving to the area. But why are there so many people in Halls Creek North moving? Is anything changing there?