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My girlfriend and I live together and split bills 50/50. She was struggling mentally and discussed wanting to drop down to 4 days. She said she’d still be paying her half of the bills and that it wouldn’t affect that. 

I told her I supported her doing it as long as it was affordable. She dropped down to four days two months ago and since then I’ve noticed I’m ending up paying for more things when we go out and noticed she was expecting me to pay for one of the shopping etc. 

I pointed out to her maybe it’s time to accept it’s not affordable. She disagreed and said it was but I pointed out it’s only currently afford able because she expecting me to pay for more things despite stating that wouldn’t happen.

She disagreed with this but I just pointed out things I’ve been paying for and said it’s not fair on me that I’m now financially worse off due to her wanting to work less. She said I wasn’t being fair but I just said again it’s me that this isn’t fair on. 

I told her from now on I’ll be refusing to pay for anything extra and that I’d except her to keep to 50/50 and if she can’t then she’ll have to go back to 5 days. She called me unreasonable but I disagreed. 

AITA for expecting her to still pay her half?

My girlfriend and I are going to a festival in a couple of weeks. It’s not really my thing but she enjoys it so I agreed to go with her. The festival has a cinema tent and it’s showing some good movies so I thought it would be good to check one out, 

I suggested one and she refused as it was at the same time as an act she wanted to see. I suggested she goes to the act and I go to watch the film but she said she doesn’t want that. 

I suggested another film but she said it was too late as we need to drive back to our room and the movie wouldn’t finish until 1am. I pointed out she needs to compromise somewhere and that the full weekend isn’t just about her. 

She said it was a music festival so I should be focused on the music but I reminded her it was just her who enjoyed the music, I was only going for her so she should be willing to compromise with me. 

She refused and said I shouldn’t be leaving her alone while I go and watch a movie but I told her she’s free to join me. 

AITA for watching a movie at the festival?

My girlfriend and I are going to a festival in a couple of weeks. It’s not really my thing but she enjoys it so I agreed to go with her. The festival has a cinema tent and it’s showing some good movies so I thought it would be good to check one out, 

I suggested one and she refused as it was at the same time as an act she wanted to see. I suggested she goes to the act and I go to watch the film but she said she doesn’t want that. 

I suggested another film but she said it was too late as we need to drive back to our room and the movie wouldn’t finish until 1am. I pointed out she needs to compromise somewhere and that the full weekend isn’t just about her. 

She said it was a music festival so I should be focused on the music but I reminded her it was just her who enjoyed the music, I was only going for her so she should be willing to compromise with me. 

She refused and said I shouldn’t be leaving her alone while I go and watch a movie but I told her she’s free to join me. 

AITA for watching a movie at the festival?

My girlfriend and I are going to a festival in a couple of weeks. It’s not really my thing but she enjoys it so I agreed to go with her. The festival has a cinema tent and it’s showing some good movies so I thought it would be good to check one out, 

I suggested one and she refused as it was at the same time as an act she wanted to see. I suggested she goes to the act and I go to watch the film but she said she doesn’t want that. 

I suggested another film but she said it was too late as we need to drive back to our room and the movie wouldn’t finish until 1am. I pointed out she needs to compromise somewhere and that the full weekend isn’t just about her. 

She said it was a music festival so I should be focused on the music but I reminded her it was just her who enjoyed the music, I was only going for her so she should be willing to compromise with me. 

She refused and said I shouldn’t be leaving her alone while I go and watch a movie but I told her she’s free to join me. 

Does anyone have any advice on how best to approach this of have any other views on it?

TLdr my girlfriend and I are going to a music festival. The festival has a film tent and there’s a couple of movies I wouldn’t mind watching. I mentioned to my gf that I was planning to watch one and she got annoyed and argued I shouldn’t be doing it,

My girlfriend and I are going to a festival in a couple of weeks. It’s not really my thing but she enjoys it so I agreed to go with her. The festival has a cinema tent and it’s showing some good movies so I thought it would be good to check one out, 

I suggested one and she refused as it was at the same time as an act she wanted to see. I suggested she goes to the act and I go to watch the film but she said she doesn’t want that. 

I suggested another film but she said it was too late as we need to drive back to our room and the movie wouldn’t finish until 1am. I pointed out she needs to compromise somewhere and that the full weekend isn’t just about her. 

She said it was a music festival so I should be focused on the music but I reminded her it was just her who enjoyed the music, I was only going for her so she should be willing to compromise with me. 

She refused and said I shouldn’t be leaving her alone while I go and watch a movie but I told her she’s free to join me. 

AITA for watching a movie at the festival?