u/Alarmed_Somewhere791

Hi this is my first post in this group. This post is about the flair I used and also a second flair of relationships.

Now I'd like to make myself clear on my understanding of relationships.

I believe a relationship is something almost 100% of use have whether it's an Intimate relationship or a friendship or with a family member or a distant relative, we are all in that since a relationship.

Now let's get to my mental health issues.

I have a close friend who disrespects me on purpose when we spend time together, the form of disrespect comes in the form when we spend time together we share stories, we take turns talking about our life experiences since the last time we visited each other,

now sometimes this one individual responds to my story of what I experienced the last time we visited was a couple weeks ago. Well one year ago I had an accident and got an injury that caused me to lose my job and force me to move into a different profession wich I'm still struggling with, but so during this last year after my injury I was going to physical therapy and one of the therapists hurt my injury extremely bad worsening my recovery conditions made fun of it and laughed over it, at that point I controlled myself well and left with no escalations, that was about 11 months ago now and my injury recovery made a very good recovery in the last two weeks since the last time we visited each other.

When I was telling the part of my injury making a strong amount of recovery unexpectedly in the last two weeks my friend responded against my recovery to protect what the physical therapist thinks of my friend, understanding I'm holding the therapist accountable for the actions causing my injury to severely worsen.

I'm no longer friends with this person as a result, and to give more closure to this friend of mine it is my dad.

My dad often tried to teach me that the biggest priority in life is caring about what others think about you

I think it is important to care what others think about me however that care for your thoughts about me don't go really far at all, no disrespect but if we care so much about what others think about us we will loose 100% of who we are as an individual and others will not make us happy or do what we want.

My dad is crying sorry now and I'm ignoring him.

I know this hurts him an overwhelming amount but I can't afford myself psychologically or emotionally to spend any of my time sharing life experiences with through story mode of a conversation and get disrespected to protect what anyone thinks about the person I'm speaking to based off of no reality but from the imagination that someone who was never met is a priority over respect to my life experience that I like you enough to share the information of what I have experienced and I am going through.

What do you guys think?

Am I wrong for being so strick with my interpersonal core values against my friends/ dad's nonsense.

Is my dad's nonsense actually nonsense or am I going overboard.

Your input means everything thanks in advance.

What's up everyone I'm looking for feedback on my style of music if you like jazz and rap this is a song for you.

I'd love to hear everyone's opinions on my style let me know what you think, I've got multiple songs some are just rap but some are Jazz Rap.

This is a Jazz Rap track I think it's 🔥 and I want to know what everyone else thinks of this song/ my style and my lyrics.

I'd also like to return the gratuity and listen to your music and let you all know how I like your style.

Thanks in advance

ocfogger.

eBays managed payments ruin a lot of things and pose a risk that is not necessary.

I've been on eBay for ten years buying and selling, I got scammed a couple of times when eBay used PayPal to process payments once as a buyer and once as a seller. Those two times it was what it was which was annoying anyway they got resolved, other than that no problems ever, but now I forget when exactly I think around 2018-2019 eBay stopped using PayPal and since then I've had several in counters involving eBay's actions and how eBay controlling so much more now then eBay ever has and most of its just done with automated systems thinking they can out smart money its self, but creat complications instead.

I have yet to have a positive experience with eBay managed payments. Now I get my money instantly as eBay notices I received a payment from a buyer on the account eBay screwed me on miss delivering a vintage piece of jewelry and I threw a huge fit a complete rude AH to eBay over it they never compensated me for the financial damages they caused me by miss delivering my item to me from the authenticator.

Has anyone had a good experience with eBay managed payments? At best I have zero control over the funds from a sale until it hits my bank account, which is now in my bank before 99+% of the items I sell get delivered.

I hate eBay. I believe that eBay believes it can control everyone's experience through automation and ignoring anything decent in the form of a business practice.

I'm making some small cement home decor in silicon molds, I'm having trouble with the cement not curing properly some are coming out good but I'm not happy because most of it is crumbly like hard packed dirt rather than cement. I've worked with cement before but with regular stone and block wall building, I'm using the same mortar type s but idk what I'm not doing right I'm making sure to let the cement flash for 15 minutes before mixing again before filling molds.

I was thinking maybe uneven curing due to uneven or to fast dehydration, maybe I should put plastic over the wet pour to insure better hydration= better curing.

Hi everyone I'm making this post because I have read so many repetitive posts about the same topic of hater disapproval for AI music or AI assisted music.

Crazy I think is, I think of this group, I would love more conversations not so much analyzing Suno's structure and how to promt it and AI assisted music In general. I see so many repetitive posts revolving around haters and the adoption of AI software used in the production of music.

I would love to hear some of your AI assisted music tracks, and read your posts bringing my attention to the details you fancy of your work finished product, choice of AI software in your work flow, how it helps your production, and how it favors your personal life/ music project balance.

I love getting into discussions in depth to specifics shearing each other's work and learning from each other AI assisted music production experiences.