u/Alert_Narwhal_4673

Like literally nothing else 😭😭

I'm 25 so I'm not sure if I should've figured this shit out by now or if it's too early in life to know. Anyway, I'm kind of a mess across the spectrum when it comes to attraction to different genders

In terms of sexual attraction, I lean way more heavily towards women than men and I'm generally way more picky with which men I find fuckable purely off looks than girls tho at the same time Ive noticed in recent years that I find cocks more visually appealing than vaginas funny enough.

However in terms of romantic attraction I lean WAY more towards men, all my genuine crushes have been men, I also generally seem to have chemistry with women once in a winter solstice and that's after showing them a heavily curated and highly inoffensive version of myself designed to hold and keep their attention and keep them entertained at all times. It often left me burnt out and tired, feeling like street performer trying to hold a fleeting audience whereas with guys things feel a lot more relaxed,the idea that I can actually be myself and still keep someone happy was a foreign concept to me while living as a "straight" guy. Even a man that I'm not attracted to can become someone whose guts I want to rearrange and vice versa if we hit it off and have strong enough feelings for each other.

The only problem is that my "ideal" relationship in my head at least is still a straight one. I attribute this bias to my conservative upbringing in an African Christian household and much of the media I consumed in my formative years giving me heteronormative expectations of romance tho I'm sure it's probably deeper than that tho I can't afford a therapist rn so I'm ranting on reddit lol.

So yeah, is anyone else confused like this? Is it normal to be like this as an adult or am I just wierd?

One minute it's niggas saying his new music sucks and only white theatre kids listen bump his shiii then the next it's that his older music should be treated as an actual crime. Y'all will say he doesn't call out his wierder fans but when he does y'all say he's turning into a grouchy old man and always complaining. Like bruh pick a lane

He's my favorite character personality wise but he often feels like the most drastically underpowered one. Half the time it feels like his only use is to distract enemies by mildly annoying them with bullets. I get that he's supposed to be the "batman" of the team and I'm not saying he should go back to being all edgy like he was in s1 but at least have him upgrade his guns or something for Everlight's sake. I often have to genuinely pause to remember what he contributes everytime I finish a season of the show while the others all have cool moments that I can easily recall.

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You can also find my YT Jobs profile here👇🏿

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It has examples of my editing work and all my contact details if you'd prefer to connect there.

Hi,I'm looking to take on a few editing clients. I edit short-form videos for creators and businesses, I cover everything from captions to smooth transitions to sound design to motion graphics and all the little details that make videos more engaging. If you're interested, send me a DM and I'll show you some of my work. I'm also open to doing a small test edit if you'd like to see what I can do first.

You can also find my YT Jobs profile here👇🏿

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It has examples of my editing work and all my contact details if you'd prefer to connect there.

It sounds dumb but they should canonically be heavy hitters

My family got indoctrinated into his cult and I've not been allowed to hear word since 😭😭and I'm not even exaggerating when I call it a cult, they treat that man like the second coming of Christ himself, he's gone on record saying he doesn't go for casual jogging in the streets anymore cuz ppl will see him and start bowing down and praying, I've seen ppl straight up leave services when it was revealed he couldn't be there to preach in person and most of the women in the church, including the ones I'm related to, fawn over him to a concerning degree.

Now I don't really have anything against him as a person nor his followers, ppl can do as they like. My issue is the fact that I was roped into being an unwilling cult member by virtue of family association. Masking as a religious person around my folks used to be soooo easy man, I had to go to church on Sundays, pray before meals and read my morning devotional, shikena. Now I'm stuck listening to 3 hour prayer sermons at 6:30 in the morning while doing my chores, participating in annoyingly long fasting programmes not being allowed to sleep until 3am due to either late night prayer sessions or rewatching the older ones. I'm genuinely so tired man...

I'm a animated series only fan(for now) so forgive my ignorance but Scanlans crashout in s4 where he says "How old am I?" got me thinking,how old are any of these ppl? Like I assumed they we're all somewhere between their mid twenties to early thirties but considering their all different species it's likely some of them could be 50,60 or even a 100 in human years but young by their standards. So are their ages ever revealed in the campaign?

I really wanna try bottoming for someone or to just know what pleasure on the receiving end feels like, figured I'd practice on myself with fingers and toys first since I'm kind of a wimp about it and have little in terms of sexual experience despite being in my 20s but I always seem to chicken out cuz I'm worried about all things that could go wrong or the ways it could get "messy" ya know? There's also the internalized homophobia from my conservative upbringing which causes strong negative feelings like shame of doing something "sinful" or "losing my manhood" and all that crap. So does anyone have any advice on how to get past all that? I understand I'm overthinking way too much about taking it up the ass but bear with me pls lol

Edit: Thank you all very much for the helpful advice♥️🙏🏿

Specifically after season 2. They leaned too much into him being the straight man of the family who reacts to the craziness. This made his personality a lot more dry and stoic and caused him to lose his own quirky and satirical character traits. He's damn near a completely different character in the last 2 seasons. Couple that with how he got pushed more and more into a supporting character role as time went on. All in all the show really fumbled with him