u/Alonewolf000

Once a Nepo darling, but she is not having a good time lately, and missing out on projects.

Alia Bhatt being defensive about everything is not helping her image right now. It is a good tactic when it comes to the media and public, but it is backfiring on her when it comes to her work.

She could use a break, but I don't think that is going to happen since she has work commitments. But she needs to understand the difference between safe PR and negative PR when it is about association. If you are having a good time in the industry, people want to work with you, but if you are not, people change. She is trying so hard to be something bigger than her, and people inside and outside of the industry can see it. She has lost herself somewhere along the way.

Alpha really needs to work for her. She needs a hit, and just like that, she is going to be back on top of her game, which is unlikely in this current climate of big Pan-Indian films but betting on things going her way.

It is my first time here, and I hope it is okay for me to post. Otherwise, do let me know.

I am still freaked out by this and even considered telling my sister today, but she was asleep when this happened, and I thought she would just look at me like I'm crazy.

The lights are always turned off in our house before going to bed, and I don't understand why they were on by themselves when no one else in the house was awake.

I literally had to get up from my room annoyed to turn it off since my room was the closest to the living room, and the light was coming to my room through the unlocked door. I thought it was strange enough, but when I came out to turn it off, I found out it wasn't the only one on.

The lights were also on in the kitchen too, which is weird because we do not use it or even the living room.

In fact, no one in our house turns on the lights at night or walks around to turn any light on, and I would know this due to years of having insomnia and being the only one awake at night in this house that goes to sleep super late.

My only explanation for this so far is maybe this was caused by the electricity going out since it did, but I can't remember exactly what time the electricity went out and if it had the lights turned on upon its arrival when it (electricity) came back. This is unlikely because we are used to the electricity going out during the day or at night (even with no lights on at night, I can tell by the socket outlet lights dying in my room) but I have never seen it turning on the lights in the house that weren't already on.

We have known each other for a year and a half.

My sisters do know about him, but I haven't introduced him to my parents yet, and which we are working towards. Insha'Allah

We live in different countries, but that was never a problem since relocation is an option for me.

Our issues are mostly about finances as he is not financially stable. He keeps asking me for my assurance that "if I would ever ask for a divorce or leave him in the future" if he wasn't working anymore and lost his job and couldn't get one. Yes, he asked me this.

I can see that he worries a lot about this because of his health since he has a back injury and can't hold a job for too long. He also recently left his job that he had for a few months, but no one knows what happens tomorrow, let alone 10-20 years from now on. I don't know what he wants me to say that would make him feel better? What can I do to assure him that when I don't know what the future holds for us? I want him to stop worrying about this and be confident when it comes to me and that life will not always be like this.

The one time we check in on each other, he always circles back to this topic when we could talk about other things happening in our lives. I am in university, and he is also studying for a second degree right now. There is uncertainty, but we really want to be together and get married. What would you do if you were in my place and this was the person you see a future with?

I could use all the help I can get.

I feel stuck because I don't know if I want to study 4 years of university starting in 2 months when I have depression and anxiety, which is undiagnosed, or should I just bail out of it?

I have never been diagnosed and could really use medication, but it is not happening because of where I live, and that's why I don't have any confidence when it comes to starting university.

The thing is, I don't know how to get out of it because my dad is pushing for it. I am really not ready for 4 years of this shit. I am struggling mentally and emotionally and physically, and this is not helping.

Genuinely, I could use some advice.

I am hard-of-hearing and 25 years old.

I am thinking of getting married to an older man (30s - 40) for financial stability.

I am tired at this point, and this may be my way of getting out of my current situation.

I have physical health and mental health issues, and my parents can't afford medical treatments abroad, but I think having a supportive husband who can afford that may make my life easier.

Please, no judgments. It took me years to be where I am today, and I have gone through a lot to come to this decision.

I am starting university in August, and I have been thinking of studying business administration, but I found out from someone that it is not worth it.

I am not familiar with public administration because it is something that came up in a conversation with my dad a few days ago, who is helping me with admission and the searcing process and has been hands-on throughout this whole thing. I am hard-of-hearing and have terrible anxiety, and weighing my options is making me feel worse.

He asked me, "What about public administration?"I said that I would have to read about it since I have no idea and since then, I have spent reading about it. I actually seem to like it since I have always wanted to work in non-profit and love volunteering, and this seems like something I would love to study.

I am learning as I go on, but I think it may be worth the next four years of my life. I don't know what else to study???? Or to do with my life?????

I would also appreciate any other recommendations for similar degrees since I think public administration relies heavily on networking and doing presentations, and talking to people (presenting your ideas).

I wish I could find a degree that doesn't require networking/talking and being around people, but what do I know? I appreciate any help I can get. Thanks