u/AlufryNA

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Hi everyone,

I'm currently in Assam and planning a budget trip to Nagaland this coming weekend. Is anyone else planning to visit and interested in joining?

I'm also looking for advice from locals and experienced travelers:

• Best places to visit in 2 days around Kohima and nearby areas • Must-see viewpoints, villages, or hidden gems • Transport options from Dimapur/Kohima • Budget accommodation recommendations • Safety tips and things to avoid • Any permits or documents required for Indian citizens • Current weather and road conditions

I'm a student traveling on a budget and would appreciate any suggestions. Thanks!

I wish there was a dating app just for Naga people 🤣

Not exactly a matrimonial site, but something more serious than the usual dating apps. I once read about matrimonial platforms exclusively for IIT graduates and it got me thinking 😂

Imagine a platform where you could find someone with similar hobbies, work ethic, values, life goals, and faith etc.

For those of us who are introverted, not very social, or barely active on social media, it's actually pretty hard to meet people who fit the specific things we're looking for right? Or is it just me? lol

Let’s be honest, some of f us have extra filters to deal with. Maybe your parents want you to marry within the same tribe, denomination, or have some other criteria in mind 😅 but at the same time, don't want our parents choosing for us either 😭

Maybe it's a niche idea, but I feel like there'd actually be a market for it.

What do y'all think? Too much? 🤣

Having a mid life crisis. Are we millennials, or are we genz? We’re like the odd ones no? 😭

I (26F) have a close friend, "Vini" (fake name), and a larger friend group that we've both been part of for years.

A few months ago, I started noticing that whenever vini wasn't around, people would talk about her. At first it was minor stuff.. complaining that she was always late, canceled plans a lot, or made everything about herself.

But over time it got a lot worse.

People started criticizing her personality, her relationships, her appearance and even things she'd told them in confidence. Some of the comments were pretty harsh ngl

I never joined in. In fact, there were times I defended her or changed the subject because it made me uncomfortable.

But I also never told vini

My reasoning was that telling her would accomplish absolutely nothing except hurt her. I knew she'd be devastated, and I didn't think repeating every nasty thing people said would improve the situation. I also didn't want to become the group's messenger and create even more drama.

Eventually, everything blew up.

She somehow found out that people had been talking about her for months. I don't know exactly how, but she confronted several people and there was a huge fallout.

A few days later, she asked me if I knew about it

I just didn’t want to lie anymore so I said yes. She immediately got quiet and asked how long I'd known.

She said she expected strangers to talk behind her back, but not her closest friend.

I told her that if I'd repeated everything people said, I would've just been hurting her and fueling more drama.

She said that took away her ability to decide for herself what she wanted to know or something like that..

Now she isn't speaking to me.

AITA?

Edit - someone suggested me to put my reasoning over here so here it goes.

I did cut them off and that was before she found out. My only reasoning is that she was going through so much at her home and with her bf so I just didn’t want to add more to it by telling her all the terrible things people were saying about her. My thought process was that she would get more upset hearing those things because she really did consider them as good friends. But yeah, maybe I should’ve made better decisions. She is not wrong to feel hurt, I just wish she would try to understand that it wasn’t from a place of malice.