u/Ambiguous-Nyx

Okay, i think it's time to clarify some things. I'm the person who made that "i hate the concept of "normal gays" post. And a lot of people have misunderstood what i meant, so i'll try to be a bit more clear

First off, i apologize if i made anyone feel invalidated or pressured. It wasn't my intention. My post was NOT meant to judge anyone, especially those who aren't "loud" about their identity. I do not expect anyone to be a walking stereotype or have the same opinions and morals as me. Of course not! If you just want to exist as a queer person without making a fuss about it, then more power to you! My post wasn't meant to police around others and how they express themselves. Not every queer person behaves the same way and that's okay

Instead, it was simply meant to call out those queer folks who actively judge and make fun of (and i don't mean in a jokingly way, i mean genuinely mocking) other queer people who are seen as "weird" by bigots, and insist that they're "better" because they're "normal" and "not like these guys". Either because they're homophobic themselves, or want to seek the approval of homophobic people (or both) that's why i called them "pick mes". I was not pointing the finger at anyone BUT them. Rightfully calling them out for their homophobia/transphobia, towards their OWN community, only to seem better in the eyes of those who will never like them regardless. They don't like the "normal" ones, let alone the "weird" ones. All i want is for these people to stop being pricks to their own community. You're not fixing anything, actually, you're only making it worse, for yourself and others.

I'm not saying you CAN'T criticize things that your community does (that's pretty much what i was doing), but criticizing is one thing, discriminating and excluding is another.

Again, i wasn't trying to judge those who aren't loud about their queer identity and just choose to live their lives or to call them traitors (which i never implied by the way, stop putting me in the same box as toxic queer people, i'm begging you). I do not expect you to make a fuss about it, or, as they say, "making it your entire personality" (i always wonder what people mean by this whenever it's brought up)

I'm open for discussion, i just wanted to make myself clear. I do not mind if you disagree with me, but it's one thing to not have the same opinion as me, which is completely fine, and making a petty response post, completely twisting my words and attacking me for things that i never said nor implied (this is targeted). If you have a problem with what i said, speak to me personally, thanks.

That being said, i hope i explained myself better. I repeat for the third time that my post was not done for malicious intent at all. End of yapping. Bye

(i hope this doesn't get taken down. I'm not trying to attack anyone, i just wanna call out something that i've seen happeing in the LGBTQIA+ community)

The title explains itself. Whenever there's a queer person (usually a gay man from what i've seen but it could be anyone really) bringing down and making fun of other queer people as a desperate attempt to stand out and insist they're the "normal" ones.

All because they want approval from their oppressor, which is homophobic straight people. You have queer folks who would fight blood and tears to defend their community, and then you got these pick-mes. Why are you trying so hard to convince others that you're "normal"? When being LGBTQIA+ is ALREADY out of the norm by default? And you know what's worse? Homophobes constantly use these people to discriminate queer people even more. Almost as if they're saying "see? Every queer person should be like this".

It's frustrating to see because y'all know damn well homophobes will never stop hating on LGBTQIA+. It doesn't matter how much you try to appear "normal" to straight people, they won't stop being homophobic, they won't stop judging and calling queer people "gross" and "weird" and "woke" and allat (obviously not all of them are like that thankfully). The only reason they respect you is because you're on their side, and share the same bigoted views as them. For God's sake, stop trying to pretend like you're different. They don't like us, and they don't like you.

Be yourself, don't feel ashamed of you are, love and support your community. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise

Idk i just want Gangle to take a break to be honest

Haha guys, you see that character? Looks like a regular skinny guy right? WRONG! Actually he's a femboy with huge thighs, petite frame, long feminine hair, and clothes that leave absolutely nothing to imagination!! Also this twink wants to be fucked and dominated by another man that's 10x his size! Because CLEARLY that's what every skinny man wants! To take it in the ass and become whimpering cum machines! Ha ha ha!

In all seriousness now, why the fuck can't fictional (and perhaps even irl) skinny men exist without being sexualize or feminized. It's just so weird and irritating. The first part is overexaggerated but there's legit people who turn skinny male characters into femboys (no hate to femboys obviously) and sexualize the shit out of them and act like all of them are submissive. It becomes even weirder when they start projecting that onto irl men

I'm also starting to lowkey dislike the word twink honestly. This shit is not funny anymore

(reuploaded due to a few mistakes)

I'm a shy introvert and I'm tired of people who use the word introvert as a synonym for social anxiety

An introvert is simply someone who tends to get tired easily of social interactions and usually prefers to stay alone (this does NOT mean they hate everyone or don't socialize at all!!) it can be pretty much considered a personality trait

Social anxiety, on the other hand, is a disorder. It's an overwhelming fear of social situations and interactions. It can be very stressful and draining

By definition, an introvert chooses to not interact with others, while someone with social anxiety just CAN'T

(I kinda oversimplified It so please correct me if i'm wrong)

This isn't to say that these things can't overlap. Everyone can have social anxiety regardless if they're an introvert, an extrovert, or an ambivert (this category often gets forgotten for some reason)

Therefore, not all introverts are socially anxious little babies that you need to "adopt". Again, an introvert can be perfectly capable of socializing while choosing not to. And even if they ARE shy or socially anxious, don't treat them like helpless babies that need to be coddled. Seriously. They just need someone who's patient and understanding with them. That's all. (Well, at least, that's what i need personally) But i'm going off topic

Idk what to say anymore so bye.

Actually you know what fuck it i want to lick Damian's sweaty maletits and tickle his ball hair

I'm just so so SO tired of stupid uneducated people using the term "intrusive thoughts" for the most dumb shit EVER. No you didn't let your intrusive thoughts win just because you ate the last bag of chips. No you didn't let your intrusive thoughts win just because you drew a penis inside the bathroom stall. No you didn't let your intrusive thoughts win for shouting "six seven" in class. No you didn't let your intrusive thoughts win for doing ANYTHING OUT OF IMPULSE. Those are called IMPULSIVE THOUGHTS. Actual intrusive thoughts aren't funny nor quirky they're terrible and the last thing you wanna do is to let them win. Maybe actually talk to someone who has them and you'll understand that they're not as silly as you think they are