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EDIT: He was planning on moving out beforehand because of financial issues and was planning to still see me afterward.

We’d been talking about it for a few days. In the message after these screenshots, he also told me he’s moving in with Jess and her son.
Also, I made a post on my profile with more context, so please look at that if you want to!
I (18F) have been with my boyfriend (19M) for only a month and a half, but we’ve been living together at my family friends’ house because 1) I was having issues with my mother that are unrelated and needed to get out of my house, and 2) he was having issues with his foster family and needed to get out of his house.
For context of this particular situation, he told me he might move soon because he’s struggling to pay rent to the people we’re living with (I told him I could help pay because it’s only like $400 a month). However, I got this text this morning.
More context: he spent the night at his coworker Jess’s house last night because he’s friends with her son. I don’t think (?) there’s anything weird going on there, but with him, you never know. Also, after I took these screenshots, he did confirm he was moving into Jess’s house. I don’t really like that (but I think that’s my own issue). What especially bothered me was that he was apparently not going to tell me.
If you need more context, please ask!
Note: Jess is over 40, and my (now ex-)boyfriend sees her as a mother figure. He didn’t get with me for housing because he lived there before I did. I also have his location (his idea), so I know all he really does is go to work and come back to where we lived, besides his sleepover with Jess’s son last night. He also works from around 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. almost every day, so I don’t think he’d really have time to cheat anyway… but maybe I’m in denial. Idk lol.
He’s also an attention seeker and says things like this or makes impulsive decisions like this to get me to care, so I don’t even know if he was fully planning on moving at all. He says things like this and then doesn’t follow through all the time. Since some people were asking if he usually talks like this: yes. He’s actually a little better with me than he is with most people. It’s usually way worse with people he doesn’t like. But that still doesn’t make this okay, in my opinion.

UPDATE: I broke up with him! I made amends with my mom, and I’m moving back in with her before I leave for college in a couple of months. I’m going to focus on my career (I already made one video game, and now I’m making another!), and I’m so excited to be done with him! :)
He also didn’t show up to work because he was upset that I broke up with him, but who knows if that’s even true. The owner of the place we were staying (who is also his boss) said he is no longer welcome there, and he may be fired.

2ND UPDATE: This update is much worse. I am absolutely mortified and disgusted. I have recently learned that he’s not been flirting with Jess, but Jess’s fourteen year old daughter. I feel physically sick. What makes this even more horrifying is that he did something to me that technically counts as SA during our relationship, and now I’m extremely concerned he’s going to do something similar to her. I don’t know what to do. I have to figure out how to keep that child safe.

EDIT: HE WAS PLANNING ON MOVING OUT BEFOREHAND BECAUSE OF FINANCIAL ISSUES AND WAS PLANNING TO STILL SEE ME AFTERWARD. WE’VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT IT FOR A FEW DAYS.

I MADE ANOTHER POST WITH MORE CONTEXT

I (18F) have been with my boyfriend (19M) for only a month and a half, but we’ve been living together at my family friends’ house because 1) I was having issues with my mother that are unrelated and needed to get out of my house and 2) he was having issues with his foster family and needed to get out of his house. For context of this particular situation, he told me he might move soon because he’s struggling to pay rent to the people we’re living with (I told him I can help pay because it’s only like $400 a month). However, I got this text this morning. More context: he spent the night at his coworker Jess’ house last night because he’s friends with her son. I don’t think (?) theres anything weird going on there, but with him you never know. Also, after I took these pictures, he did confirm he was moving into Jess’s house. I do not really like that (but that’s my own issue, I think), but what especially bothered me was that he was apparently not going to tell me. If you need more context, please ask!

I’ve had recurring hand eczema (or at least what I think is eczema) for years. It comes and goes, but during flares I get tiny white blister-like bumps under the skin on my palms and fingers, along with intense itching, pain, burning, and cracking. The pain is often worse than it looks and feels like my skin is bruised and cut. It makes daily like difficult. I can’t wash dishes, draw, write, or do anything with my hands without it being painful. The weird part is that everything seems to make it worse. Water, lotions, creams, ointments, Vaseline, and even my prescription triamcinolone ointment all seem to irritate it further. I always avoid anything with fragrances or anything too strong. Sometimes even lukewarm water is painful. My doctor said it looks like dyshidrotic eczema, so I’m not looking for a diagnosis, I’m looking for a solution because nothing seems to work. I’m not able to see a dermatologist because I can’t afford it and I’m not even able to see my primary care doctor because she doesn’t have any opening until after a leave for college a couple months from now. Any help or advice is appreciated.

(Theres another picture in the comments)

Age: 18
Height: 5’3”
Weight: 135 lbs
Female
Medications I take: Hydroxyzine, propranolol, triamcinolone acetonide 0.1 % ointment
Duration: On and off for a couple of years

I’ve been told by my doctor that it looks like dyshidrotic eczema and she prescribed an ointment for me, but everything and anything I put on it, even water sometimes, makes it worse. I never use anything with fragrances, I never use anything too strong, but nothing helps it. I’ve tried my prescribed ointment, Vaseline, and a million different products. It’s more painful than it looks, it feels bruised, cut, and burned and it itches so bad (I’m very good at not itching it, but sometimes I catch myself rubbing it too hard.) It also has these tiny white blisters that look like pimples and leak clear liquid sometimes. It’s been an on and off problem for years. I can’t afford a dermatologist and I’m not even able to see my primary care doctor, so I’m not able to have any help there. Does anyone else have this issue? Have you found anything that works?