u/Anxious-Mud-2756

I am a straight woman, 32. My family is pushing for an arranged marriage ASAP, but im in a committed relationship with someone, can’t disclose the boyfriend to family, and don’t want to lead anyone on or ruin someone else’s life in the process.

I am looking for a lavender marriage with a gay man who’s in a similar situation and wants privacy, autonomy, and a peaceful life while maintaining their own identities and relationships separately.

A few details:

I am is educated, independent, and mature about what this arrangement means.

Preferably looking for someone who’s a software engineer or in a stable tech job (preference).

Location, caste, etc., aren’t deal-breakers as long as the understanding and expectations match.

The goal is mutual support, family peace, personal freedom, and zero drama.

I am a straight woman, 32. My family is pushing for an arranged marriage ASAP, but im in a committed relationship with someone, can’t disclose the boyfriend to family, and don’t want to lead anyone on or ruin someone else’s life in the process.

I am looking for a lavender marriage with a gay man who’s in a similar situation and wants privacy, autonomy, and a peaceful life while maintaining their own identities and relationships separately.

A few details:

I am is educated, independent, and mature about what this arrangement means.

Preferably looking for someone who’s a software engineer or in a stable job (preference).

Caste, etc., aren’t deal-breakers as long as the understanding and expectations match.

The goal is mutual support, family peace, personal freedom, and zero drama.

I am a straight woman, 32. My family is pushing for an arranged marriage ASAP, but im in a committed relationship with someone, can’t disclose the boyfriend to family, and don’t want to lead anyone on or ruin someone else’s life in the process.

I am looking for a lavender marriage with a gay man who’s in a similar situation and wants privacy, autonomy, and a peaceful life while maintaining their own identities and relationships separately.

A few details:

I am is educated, independent, and mature about what this arrangement means.

Preferably looking for someone who’s a software engineer or in a stable job.

Location, caste, etc., aren’t deal-breakers as long as the understanding and expectations match.

The goal is mutual support, family peace, personal freedom, and zero drama.

Pls dm

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Hi everyone,

I am a straight woman, 32. My family is pushing for an arranged marriage ASAP, but im in a committed relationship with someone, can’t disclose the boyfriend to family, and don’t want to lead anyone on or ruin someone else’s life in the process.

I am looking for a lavender marriage with a gay man who’s in a similar situation and wants privacy, autonomy, and a peaceful life while maintaining their own identities and relationships separately.

A few details:

I am is educated, independent, and mature about what this arrangement means.

Preferably looking for someone who’s a software engineer or in a stable tech job (preference).

Location, caste, etc., aren’t deal-breakers as long as the understanding and expectations match.

The goal is mutual support, family peace, personal freedom, and zero drama.

If you’re someone considering a lavender setup or know someone who is, feel free to DM to talk privately.